Does sex make partners feel closer?

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When you have some sort of tension and both of you doubt something and are anxious and then you make love and it feels amazing and you feel very close to each other. Is it reassuring and problem solving making sure other partner knows how you truly like him?

MasseurDeMojo · Accepted Answer

First, I am not a doctor, but I am well-read.

It is known in science that every time we have sex, pheromones are released that cause us to feel good. So, the more you have sex, the better you tend to feel. It has also been proven that there is an exchange of DNA between you every time you have sex. The longer a couple has been together and the more they have sex, the more alike they begin to look.

It is easier to observe the change in women than men. When doctors did research in the area, they found that a woman's body would take on some of the man's genes, and permanently carry them every time they had sex. They also found some of her genes in the man. They also said that when a woman has a male child; her body is flooded with male genes, that do not leave. She will still be a woman, just with a mix; the same as a man will still be a man, but with a slight mix. So, if this is the case, then you wish to have only one partner!! Having multiple partners means you are sharing with each new partner a part from your last, and they are sharing with you, in kind.

Having sex does bring you closer to the person you are with. But, it should always start with the mind before you go physical!! The biggest mistake is going into a relationship 50/50. If you want a relationship that last, you must go in 100/100. You are both equal in the relationship; only one can make the final decision, and that one will also bear the brunt of the consequences for each decision made. But you both have equal input!!!

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes, if the both of you love each other and care about each other then sex definitely makes you both feel closer together , Sex has a lot of benefits period, especially when dealing with stress , Sex is one of the best stress relievers ever. Anytime I am overwhelmed or stressed out about something , sex usually makes me feel 100 times better and relaxed and the stress pretty much goes away , why I love being with a girl that loves sex like I do , Sex also makes me feel energized and ready to go , depending on the time of the day we have sex , like morning or afternoon , Sex at night helps me sleep better as well. I think couples are stupid not to have sex as much as possible , it helps the both of you feel closer together and loved and wanted , Me personally can’t stay in a relationship with a girl that barely likes sex that makes lame excuses as to why she doesn’t want it , if she had valid reason then I would understand , but constant lame excuses , doesn’t sit well with me whatsoever, I will express my concerns to her and ask her why she isn’t in the mood like before , if she doesn’t make a change for the better , I am out and I will find a girl that doesn’t make me beg for intimacy and affection on a steady basis. Life is too short to be with someone that doesn’t factor in your feelings as well, that makes everything about themselves , I will gladly let someone else have her and say Good luck with that shit

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Depends what kind of "tension" you're talking about. Sexual tension can sprout up simply because you find the other person attractive, but if you shag every person you find attractive you'll find that you don't feel close to ALL of them. Some are just physically satisfying... I'm told.

If you're just going by the "tension", that zippy "tension" feeling gals tend to go crazy about can also be achieved by riding the right sort of lawn mower, a bike, or one of those odd novelty chairs in the mall...

Physical contact -- A HUG -- gets people to feel closer because it's an emotional gesture. Similarly, if you're not "just having sex" then yes that prolonged physical display of tenderness DOES bring the two people closer.

NoDecision · Accepted Answer

Not if you are not married, because you will always be wondering when you are going to get dumped and traded in on a newer model that doesn't have a bunch of mileage and many owners. 😖

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My purpose on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle some relationship wisdom with a dash of humor and flirty charm. Making love can indeed create a magical bond, making you feel closer and more connected. It's like a surprise party for your emotions! 🎉 While it can be reassuring and strengthen your bond, it doesn't replace communication. Think of it as a love potion, but remember, chatting solves what magic alone can't. Keep the love flowing and the convos glowing! 💑✨

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Don't you have enough experience to answer this question for yourself?

DJB72 · Answer

It releases oxytocin, which makes men feel like fidelity is the best way forward.

Best be certain he's the one you really want to be close to. Traditional way to demonstrate that was marriage young and lots of kids.

No idea what the modern equivalent is.

Lliam · Answer

It does for me. Good sex makes me adore and feel closer to my partner. It strengthens my bond with her.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Intimacy isn’t just physical—it’s about emotional connection, trust, and communication. While physical closeness can reinforce bonds, the foundation of a strong relationship is built on understanding and genuine connection. Without that, no amount of physical intimacy can truly bring two people closer.

- Eva ❤️

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I don't know that it would change anything if they're feeling doubts, but sex definitely deepens the bond in a relationship.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

definitely... we are vulnerable during sex and shared trust, closeness, and pleasure get us closer... every single time... :D

OneViewpoint · Answer

ROFL, well good sex may make you feel closer. Bad sex may be a relationship ender. But hey, no pressure OK? Just relax and enjoy yourself. Whatever is gonna happen is gonna happen.

NicholasRedone · Answer

I sure hope it does @lafemmefatale_1 even banging is love-making or making-love. Now those who say more like the c-word, well, they're not actually loving :(

HungTexan · Answer

I definitely think sex makes you closer. The more you have, the closer you feel.

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

Not always sex sometimes makes me feel numb but sometime it make me feel more connected to him ig it just kinda depends

sawno · Answer

It can for sure, especially if you get your souls involved.

Shiprex · Answer

The hormone releases are measurable from sexual activity and these are why we do it. It makes us feel good WITH the other person.

soe11 · Answer

Yes indeed my dear.  That's why we got happy and healthy life  Me and my girlfriend both love having sex.

rizzzz007 · Answer

I think yes for me sex make me closer to my partner I never take sex as a tool but it is very delicate thing for me

Anonymous · Answer

Some guys, some guys I just enjoyed the sex and didn't need to feel closer to him.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Often, but if they don’t take care of each other, sometimes it can make one just feel used

dragoblack · Answer

Skinship does, but people find sex funner than cuddles

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, I'm single and I never had sex.

Cormac995 · Answer

Do fish need water to breathe?

itsannalee · Answer

Nope, sex just make partner cum.

libralove · Answer

Sex respect and chivalry  R my top three

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yup definitely

RedThread · Answer

It can but it isn't the only thing.

jahaims · Answer

It's should if it's healthy

LiamS95 · Answer

Yes it can if they're in love.

Anonymous · Answer

Not if used as a tool.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Depends how you feel about your partner

gintare_764 · Answer

You guys already make love?

fish5505_87 · Answer

I think so, very much!

bananathunder · Answer

Yes definitely

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Of course it does cause sex reaffirm those bonds

Rockey_the_bicker · Answer

Yess sex is climax of love ❤️

Professor-college · Answer

If it's good sex probably for a little while

fuman1 · Answer

Can't speak for everyone but for me yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes!!!

Anonymous · Answer

I think so It keeps couples together

Deepinthought345 · Answer

It should...

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Yes it does

Cyrus000 · Answer

Yes.

PaleDale · Answer

Sometimes

masterSir · Answer

It should.

FenixG45 · Answer

It should normally

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