It's all this new age feminazi garbage, they hate that women can be happy with men basically and they definitely hate men. I think we should just accept that we have our differences but they should not divide us, they should complete us. For example, if we're moving furniture I can pick up the couch by myself and move it with minimal strain to my body; but my girlfriend would need furniture movers and more time and it could potentially really hurt her back so why not let me do it? I think women can be more patient and see certain details in a lot better context than men can, I also think women tend to be better planners. But to answer your question it's because people of a certain political faction are jealous of women who are happy and men who are happy and usually those people are alone and not attractive at all so they love to destroy traditional values.
Cuz they've been told all their life that they are special, and that they are better than boys/men. The FI tells them they have equal ability and can do anything a man can do, and that if they allow a man to lead or do man stuff then they are marginalized, made to be inferior.
It's just so much bullshit. Men and women ARE NOT THE SAME. Sure, equal say in things, but let men be manly and women be feminine. Neither is happy when they reverse the roles. And men surely don't want to compete with their woman. Not only no, but HELL NO. :)
Men will always be men. It's more that we have a more expansive idea of what women can do. It's not really a good place to be an adult and unable to do adult things like yard work or repairs around the home. It makes you more vulnerable. In the end, people do not like to be kept in a false state of helplessness just to preserve someone else's ego. Men will still continue to have greater physical strength as a group and there will be heavier things they are better suited for, but women don't need to stand around waiting for someone else to do certain basic things for us. In relationships, there does not need to be someone "in charge" when it's a relationship between two thinking adults. Grown women do not need to be infantilized. It's insulting and degrading.
I think a lot of it has to do with women's rights movements and women wanting to do everything men can do. Which makes sense to some degree because if they do end up losing their spouse at some time or whatever then they will need to know how to do things like change a tire. However, I say if it makes the dude happy and he wants to treat me like a gentlemen then for Heaven's sake, let him open the door. There is nothing wrong with it and it'll make him feel better because he did something good. He's trying to be nice and I am not the type of person to refuse kindness.
I don't think taking charge is a masculine trait. Some women like taking charge and some men dislike taking charge.
Personally I prefer it if things are equal but I won't stop him from taking charge if he wants to. As long as he doesn't take charge all the time and lets me have a say too when I feel like it.
I'd want equality in my relationships. I currently do have it in my relationship and we're managing absolutely fine. I do my own thing and he does his. If a man wants to be a man in traditional terms, he can, that's fine with me. But I wouldn't want him to expect me to conform to "gender roles".
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Shit, I've met a woman who's gotten mad at me for taking charge, then complain to me that she broke up with her ex because she felt like she was being the man in the relationship. Moral of the story: some women are fucking crazy and don't know what they want. You can never please these women and there's always an air of negativity about them. My advice to guys who encounter this type is to drop them and find a chick who appreciates the shit that you do without bitching and making you feel like you've done something wrong.
Men and women should both be helping each other out in a relationship. That doesn't mean the guy can't change a tire if he wants to, it just means the man shouldn't automatically be in charge all the time- nor should he automatically be the only one to help out and put in work.
asking for equality is not bad...
but first equality should be in mind. asking for equality never give you that. men and women are different
there work and roles are different...
i will allow my wife to do whatever she want... and she can do what ever í am doing. like if í am going to Night parties with my friend then she can..
but there are place where men should be men and women SHOULD be woman
I don't get it either. Equality doesn't mean being equally capable at every single thing. I'm happy and appreciative to get help where needed.
I don't care if he wants to do that stuff, I just don't agree on the super traditional stuff like he controls EVERYTHING and I'm some subservient stay at home wife. *shudder*
Otherwise be a man. Watch sports, fix the car and drink beer idgaf.
Why do some people like chicken and others like fish?
Everyone is different and want different thing in THEIR relationship. Whatever works for them.
I think some women feel that by acknowledging gender differences, they are acknowledging inferiority. Gimme, this is irrational, but it seems the case with some women.
I don't see those things as manly. I started mowing the lawn as a child and knowing how to change a tire is a necessity if you own car. I am also not really all that attracted to guys who like to be in charge. That's just my preference though.
Not because you like to be submissive it means that every woman should be. Why you care in the first place anyway
I think in most cases, they've been indoctrinated not to.
Unfortunately, on an emotional level most of them don't like being equals.
And this is why 2/3 of the married women I know are messes and make their marriage a mess.
Majority of women really want the man to be in charge. Men are naturally supposed to be in charge. Only undesirable feminist bitches complain about this sgit. But also feminist bitches never have a man so its all very complicated
because if I'm able to something myself and it's more convenient for the both of us, why the hell wouldn't I? seems like a waste of his time of I didn't at least help out.
A lot of women like men who take charge. I'm not sure where you got this notion from.
Where do you have heard such a things? Women prefer men to be in charge.
Some are more dominant than others, bossier than others, different opinion on who takes charge.. than others
They think they want equality when they don't. Or they know they want us to take charge but they refuse to admit it.
Because most women have been brainwashed by the poisonous cult of feminism.
The women who are saying this arw usually single. Live your own life and choose a partner who makes you have. I really hate that we are telling other people especially women how to live their lives.
I just take charge in the bedroom.
They don't. They love it
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