I'm my boyfriend's first girlfriend. Any tips?

[Anonymous]

Im my boyfriend's first girlfriend (He's 22 I'm 21). I've only been in two other relationships- but only one of them was actually serious. Long story short I've never been anyone's first girlfriend. I could tell right off the bat that my boyfriend was not gonna be like the two guys I've dated (which is a great thing lol). My boyfriend is pretty shy/ introverted/ inexperience (I dont mind it). He doesn't really like texting but will text me every other day, but he's awesome irl. My question is what else should I be expecting from being the first girlfirend, also how can I make him comfortable? Like taking things slow (We've only started dating last week btw), give him time to open up more, etc? Just any tips in general? I really like him and I want to try my hardest for this relationship. Thank you!

[Fawkes_95]

Just be yourself, you know he is gonna make mistakes which someone whose had a few relationships already could be crucified for but his not gonna know better obv dont be walked over.

Take it at his pace but try to push him to be the best he can.

When it comes later down the line to sex, make sure he knows your comfortable with his inexperience and maybe take the rains; explore your body with him show him where you like to be kissed and held etc, try a few things with him to see what he likes, don't rush him.

With the texting maybe if its possible just see eachother more often, so the texting is less, or perhaps facetime eachother before you go to sleep each day.

[Anonymous]

Okay as a shy guy, you have to be patient with him, he is scared of even texting :o

Take your time, ignore awkwardness, just have to joke around and slowly make him comfortable with you.

[Asker]

I dont think he's scared to text but he just doesn't like to text lol

[Opinion Owner]

Can I ask if you are sexually experienced? He may be a virgin.

[Asker]

Yes I am (not a lot, I've only had sex with one guy) and yes he is a virgin.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay that's not bad, just be patient with him :)

[awanti95]

You are experience
You know better what should to give him

[KnightCross]

u want for a relationship to work? Dialogue, patience, forgiveness, etc

[MoeAli]

Congratz to you both 😊
only thing i can think of is not being too clingy

[Regular1]

Give him lots of BJs