My fiancé "waved" at a girl on Facebook messenger he used to go to school with?

[Anonymous]

He did this across from me. I don't want to marry someone who messages other girls although it's the first time he's done it. Should I be concerned?

[jaamiesmiith]

no. do not be concerned, unless there is something he actually does to make you believe that he was being unfaithful. so what, he's waving to someone he knew from high school? you can't be the only female that he knows. if you're that uncomfortable about it, then talk to him. ask him if they were ever close, and just tell him how you feel. but have some self love and value. know your place with him. he obviously loves you if he's ready to dedicate his life to you. and if not, then he's not worth your time, but don't be so insecure. he's going to have friends.

[btbc92]

He used to go to school with this girl, what's the issue? If he was trying to flirt with her or vice versa, then yeah, I can understand that. But you really need to stop. He is not doing anything that will destroy the relationship. You behaving this way when you have no reason to will. Now if you can handle it, then you shouldn't just not get married, but stop dating period until you develop healthy attitudes with men. If you can't trust him now, your going to have a hard time doing so when married.

[kaylaS91]

I don't see why you would be concerned that your fiance was able to carry out normal social interactions with a highschool classmate of his who just so happens to be a female.

[Asker]

Because it's a female and it's usually how things start

[kaylaS91]

... call me crazy but you sound way too insecure/posessive to get married.

[Asker]

True maybe I should call it off

[NightlyCreature]

You shouldn't marry him then, instead you should look for someone else you can lock up so he doesn't see or wave to any other girls, even better, you should take his eyes out and cut his hands, that way he couldn't see other women or wave at them.

[AnomalyGuy]

I wouldn't be too worried. They did know each other, they could just be friends. Nothing wrong with waving at someone you knew.

[UpAtDawnAndy]

You're a little bit insecure and have jeliousy issues that change your perception of reality, what is a big deal and doesn't mean anything.

[Xoxoxooo123]

No i really wouldn't worry about it. They could be just friends

[Anonymous]

Just because he 'waved'? That's not even talking. So your being extremely paranoid

[Asker]

Yeah but that's the start of it all

[Opinion Owner]

This sounds like my boyfriend's mother... Unless you have proof he's doing anything your accusing him for no reason. Guys are allowed male friends. As are women with males.