He's being an asshole (and being drunk/hungover didn't help). But YOU need to reset his expectations, and NOW, or accept the ones he's giving. In other words, this is a BIG ISSUE, and you need to either work out limits that you can both AGREE to, or you need to break up. You cannot allow this kind of a conflict to continue (it will break up the relationship sooner or later anyway if you don't resolve it now).
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You guys are 19 and 20 and already living on your own together? Wow! It must be nice living an adult life at such a young age. I guess that's normal then. I'm over 30 and never been in a relationship or lived on my own. I know I'm a little behind though.
He seems immature by the way.
"that I should expect it any time he wants it" Yeah.. you need to dump this guy and soon. He's a jerk if he expects sex every single time he wants it. He is not considering your feelings at all. You need to dump his selfish ass.
Honey that's a red flag right there. Nobody owes you sex for any reason. You have the right to refuse. If he still thinks you owe him sex then dump him. What a jerk.
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You did nothing wrong. He was being a selfish A$$hole. Sorry, don't mean to call your boyfriend names but that's what he was being. He has to think about how you're feeling and why you're not in the mood nor can handle sex right now. He should have clearly have hugged or kissed and said no problem we'll do it when you're feeling better and when it won't hurt you. End of story.,
Guys feelings to have sex is very instant and strong... keep him sexually satisfied without having sex and when is back to normal make him understand about your condition... if he still behaving same way... you have to think about relationship?
You have very different, incompatible, sex drives. That can't be changed. Long-term he's going to be dissatisfied and rejected, and seek sex elsewhere, and you're going to feel resentful, objectified, and angry.
maybe he's just extra horny? Give him some porn and send him to the other room!😂
loose him as early as possible.
he needs to be more understanding of your feelings.
you deserve better.tbh he kinda sounds like a jerk that may or may not be using you. kinda unlikely after a year and a half.
you sound really unwell. in this instances he should do what we have all had to do, say bollocks to him self. followed by no problem can i get you anything for the burns etc. put him on notice and leave if this continues
If he can't even control his desires or hormones, ask him to off fuck. Jerks like him will only. Damage girls
if not well then say him directly u dont want to do
What a fucking asshole.
It's your duty to satisfy his needs, your duty! How dare you deny him a dip
Say no to sex. Keep him sexually satisfied.
why not give him a bj
break up. he deserves better.
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