For me, the difference is my willingness to do anything for them. I hate hate hate watching plays and musicals, but I would gladly watch them for the girl I loved.
You can't help but look deep into their eyes everytime you are together. You feel your heart flutter everytime they smile. You you feel full of energy being near them. You genuinely lookout for them. Do anything and everything to make them see them happy. You talk a lot more to this person than any other person and love to hear them out. You see them for what they really are no guards.
Wow so sorry to hear that! This is why I find it so difficult to let my walls come down again smh but I hope u get to experience love again, this time with someone who won't put u through any bs!
Thank you. Its been over a year since I have seen her. Letting go wasn't easy, accepting it wasn't easy. But in the end its just life, and life is a bitch. Love is something that just happens. It starts out gently and gently and one day it explodes. You simply tell this person what they really mean to you. You can't stop it from happening and every moment you spend with pulls you in even deeper. And if they smile and hug you back, everything changes. You fell complete. Days are brighter. You feel happy inside, satisfied. You smile a lot. Eveyone around you notices this transformation. And when it all comes crashing down, you shatter, brutally. It literally feels like someone just knifed you in the chest. Piercing pain. You try to distract yourself to sleep but you can't. You feel angry. Guilty. You try to make sense of what happened how to fix it. You stay up all night all day for days in a row. And one day you just realize how stupid you are. And you go to sleep.
When think about them a lot. You worry and wonder what they are doing when you're away from them. You want to please and take care of them. You want them to be happy, healthy and actualize their potential by supporting their goals and dreams in life.
When i was in love, I use to think about her every min whenever she says I wanna kiss you butterfly's starts flying inside my body I proposed her will you be ma girlfriend till my last breath and she said omg yes
You get a feeling of security and confidence in what you guys share that's not necessarily founded on them having done anything to 'prove' it. It's almost like a sixth sense, like a gut instinct.
Attraction fades but love doesn't. Attraction is lost when you lose appeal to the other person. Love gets stronger when you are able to show the other person your flaws and all and they still see your true beauty.
When I was around your age I was so sensitive to my feelings and finding "true love". The trick is to not think about it. This is reality, not a fairytale. If you're interested in someone, just go for it without thinking there's going to be someone better. It's the experiences that matter. You don't have to be in a rush to find your future husband or wife.
Love is a subjective feeling, you know it when you feel it. You don't know for certain that it will last forever, you just have to take a leap of faith and enjoy the ride while you can.
It'll be the way they look at you the way she/he goes out of there way just to linger by you longer the way they bump into you by accident just to grab your shoulder and sorry just for that extra secs of physical contact
When you have real love - It can sometimes feel like nothing can ever be that bad, you wake up feeling you can overcome anything because you'll always have her Anywhere feels like home when she's there
For me, love is about losing myself, or my selfishness.
In most relationships, people try to assume an advantage over the other person. Love is feeling like you'd rather keep things equal, and making sure your partner is getting their needs met too. Is their happiness as important to you as your own?
For me it's because I love everything about them, the good, the bad and the ugly. Basically you accept them for who they are not for what you want them to be.
Your brain isn't physically developed enough to know... everything you feel right now is infatuation and hormones. You couldn't understand, just like a prepubescent child couldn't understand what it's like to feel how you feel now.
Give it a few more years and you'll figure it out. In the mean time... just enjoy the experience of experiencing your life. Just NO MAJOR LIFE DECISIONS until then :)
Love and affection go hand in hand! If you love him you would never have asked this question. just keep this in mind you are very young and I know he is going through a lot right now! Ask yourself How many boyfriend have I had? Remember every guy is different. in some way or another! Love never dies! Love always prevails! Love is giving yourself up for them! Love never quits! Love is a cure to madness!
that youd do anything for them. you feel there pain when theyre hurt. you want to see them and talk to them and never get bored of being with them. you never cheat or want to be with another partner.
The pupils when you both stare at each other in the eyes like for example both your pupils change then you both truley love each other but only if one of your guys pupils changed then only one of you loves the other and if your both dont change then you both don't truly love each other
Well me and my girlfriend did it before we broke up... mine was the only one that changed a couple months later we ended up breaking up cuase of something else
Yea that's what we did 2 but it was a thing she wanted to test cuase she did it before but the pupils if they dilate when looking at the person you love it shows you actually love that person sadly my girl before we broke up hers didn't
Sumtimes things rnt as easy as th@. If u tke life lke dat u wnt gt far. Eyes r tricky fings as thy rely on emotion 2. Dnt tke my wrd 4 it, my dad is a ldin expert on eyes, bt sure, thy hve 1 reaction.
We are all fool in love and love is a fools game and only a fool sees happily ever after so if you are able to see happily ever after with someone then you are a fool who is in love
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I wanna say I felt that feeling before (love, that is) but does it count if the guy was deceitful? As in he was making about 3 other girls feel the same way? I don't think so because the person I thought I was in love with does not exist. It was just a fascade. So I've never experienced real love before but I will someday.
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For me, the difference is my willingness to do anything for them. I hate hate hate watching plays and musicals, but I would gladly watch them for the girl I loved.
This is true for sure.
Agreed!
You can't help but look deep into their eyes everytime you are together. You feel your heart flutter everytime they smile. You you feel full of energy being near them. You genuinely lookout for them. Do anything and everything to make them see them happy. You talk a lot more to this person than any other person and love to hear them out. You see them for what they really are no guards.
This was beautiful 😢
It was the most beautiful thing ever happenend to me.
Aww. I hope u guys are still together!
Nope. I hope she is happy though and no one puts her through what she did to me.
Wow so sorry to hear that! This is why I find it so difficult to let my walls come down again smh but I hope u get to experience love again, this time with someone who won't put u through any bs!
Thank you. Its been over a year since I have seen her. Letting go wasn't easy, accepting it wasn't easy. But in the end its just life, and life is a bitch. Love is something that just happens. It starts out gently and gently and one day it explodes. You simply tell this person what they really mean to you. You can't stop it from happening and every moment you spend with pulls you in even deeper. And if they smile and hug you back, everything changes. You fell complete. Days are brighter. You feel happy inside, satisfied. You smile a lot. Eveyone around you notices this transformation. And when it all comes crashing down, you shatter, brutally. It literally feels like someone just knifed you in the chest. Piercing pain. You try to distract yourself to sleep but you can't. You feel angry. Guilty. You try to make sense of what happened how to fix it. You stay up all night all day for days in a row. And one day you just realize how stupid you are. And you go to sleep.
Trust me I understand the feeling. There's nothing like that point where ur free and just don't give a fuck about it anymore though 👌💯
When think about them a lot. You worry and wonder what they are doing when you're away from them. You want to please and take care of them. You want them to be happy, healthy and actualize their potential by supporting their goals and dreams in life.
It takes time, at least six months. It does NOT take sex. You can love someone and still want to wait till you get married to sleep with them.
I am almost 8 months with him.
Then trust your feelings. If you're not sure, it's not love.
When i was in love, I use to think about her every min whenever she says I wanna kiss you butterfly's starts flying inside my body I proposed her will you be ma girlfriend till my last breath and she said omg yes
You get a feeling of security and confidence in what you guys share that's not necessarily founded on them having done anything to 'prove' it. It's almost like a sixth sense, like a gut instinct.
Just imagine them gone, if you felt like you cannot live anymore, then you're in love!
I guess I'm in love then.
Attraction fades but love doesn't. Attraction is lost when you lose appeal to the other person. Love gets stronger when you are able to show the other person your flaws and all and they still see your true beauty.
When I was around your age I was so sensitive to my feelings and finding "true love". The trick is to not think about it. This is reality, not a fairytale. If you're interested in someone, just go for it without thinking there's going to be someone better. It's the experiences that matter. You don't have to be in a rush to find your future husband or wife.
Love is a subjective feeling, you know it when you feel it. You don't know for certain that it will last forever, you just have to take a leap of faith and enjoy the ride while you can.
It'll be the way they look at you the way she/he goes out of there way just to linger by you longer the way they bump into you by accident just to grab your shoulder and sorry just for that extra secs of physical contact
When you have real love - It can sometimes feel like nothing can ever be that bad, you wake up feeling you can overcome anything because you'll always have her
Anywhere feels like home when she's there
For me, love is about losing myself, or my selfishness.
In most relationships, people try to assume an advantage over the other person. Love is feeling like you'd rather keep things equal, and making sure your partner is getting their needs met too. Is their happiness as important to you as your own?
For me it's because I love everything about them, the good, the bad and the ugly. Basically you accept them for who they are not for what you want them to be.
Your brain isn't physically developed enough to know... everything you feel right now is infatuation and hormones. You couldn't understand, just like a prepubescent child couldn't understand what it's like to feel how you feel now.
Give it a few more years and you'll figure it out. In the mean time... just enjoy the experience of experiencing your life. Just NO MAJOR LIFE DECISIONS until then :)
means NO BABIES!!!
Of course I'm not going to make a baby with my boyfriend at this age.
Natalie,
Love and affection go hand in hand! If you love him you would never have asked this question. just keep this in mind you are very young and I know he is going through a lot right now! Ask yourself How many boyfriend have I had? Remember every guy is different. in some way or another! Love never dies! Love always prevails! Love is giving yourself up for them! Love never quits! Love is a cure to madness!
that youd do anything for them. you feel there pain when theyre hurt. you want to see them and talk to them and never get bored of being with them. you never cheat or want to be with another partner.
The pupils when you both stare at each other in the eyes like for example both your pupils change then you both truley love each other but only if one of your guys pupils changed then only one of you loves the other and if your both dont change then you both don't truly love each other
Do you always take a mirror on dates and interrupt that moment?
No not really
Then how do you know if your eyes change?
Well me and my girlfriend did it before we broke up... mine was the only one that changed a couple months later we ended up breaking up cuase of something else
And how did you see your eyes change?
She told me mine did and kinda recorded it
Rightttt. Well most people don't examine such an incident with such depth. Most people go off feelings and such.
Yea that's what we did 2 but it was a thing she wanted to test cuase she did it before but the pupils if they dilate when looking at the person you love it shows you actually love that person sadly my girl before we broke up hers didn't
Sumtimes things rnt as easy as th@. If u tke life lke dat u wnt gt far. Eyes r tricky fings as thy rely on emotion 2. Dnt tke my wrd 4 it, my dad is a ldin expert on eyes, bt sure, thy hve 1 reaction.
Fink u gt away easy.
I'm not an expert on it that's what I've been told by many people that your pupils dilate when your looking in the eyes of the person you love
We are all fool in love
and love is a fools game
and only a fool sees happily ever after
so if you are able to see happily ever after with someone then you are a fool who is in love
I wanna say I felt that feeling before (love, that is) but does it count if the guy was deceitful? As in he was making about 3 other girls feel the same way? I don't think so because the person I thought I was in love with does not exist. It was just a fascade. So I've never experienced real love before but I will someday.