Less stress, can do what they want without hearing constant complaining, doesn't have to work as much because he doesn't have to spend his money on someone else, can play games all weekend when he feels like it, eat whatever he wants, doesn't have to go somewhere as often, watch whatever kinds of movies he wants.
You are correct, if porn didn't exist, men being single wouldn't care as much, but in the end, every man will get lonely and want a women who treats him right just like he wants to treat her right. This is built in all of us, at some age, the man will be tired of being alone if he is a normal human being, but in this day age, being heterosexual seems to be one option and isn't really considered normal anymore.
yes it's true cos women are the ones who "care" about the family, while men "provide". to say it with an easy example, the house is shiny and comfy cos the woman makes it be like that, while the house not collapses cos the man makes it stable.
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I'm a girl I like being single, because when I am dating guys they make me feel as if i'm different or odd for not being a needy bitch. But the problem is I look like a typical girly girl who has needy bitch issues, so i attract guys who want this type of 'my babe is a beautiful butterfly look but DONT touch😡😤' guys. Life is unfair, but what can you do.
Being single it just comes natural for me as a guy. I don't put a lot of thought into wanting to be in a relationship. Like if I was like "I can't be without being in a relationship". It's not a huge deal breaker for me at all as I enjoy the single life.
It is a sociological phenomenon. Women are "supposed" to get married therefore they required to have a partner to fulfill their roles' whole value meanwhile males have no spoken manner either way on marriage and have no particular gender identity tied to partnership at all.
In turn this means that the "woman" literally needs a partner to be, in social eyes, fully matured. In places where there are other sociological attitudes this isn't really true anymore.
Actually, it's generally women who are wealthy and single that are the most insecure about it, that's why they are the majority of women on dating sites. But they make it this way for themselves because they feel like the average guy is too beneath them to go out with, when the average guy is usually smarter than a wealthy woman - or man - and has more color and character.
Guys dont mind it cause they dont dwell on things unless its really bad. In which they generally by that part have fallen apart. But otherwise most guys other than the sensitive ones. can handle being single for most of their life.
I don't hate It being single is great and I don't think most girls see it as smthg bad but I think my boyfriend makes my life more exciting and brings more fire and focus ( when I'm horny I have the perfect guy who understands my needs to turn to )
It's generally harder for a man to find someone he would be attracted to hence girls having high egos thinking they're above most people and think there is always someone better out there so it comes down to just too many games and valuable time lost so its really not worth looking for any girl for this matter. Let the reference reflect im speaking in general terms.
You are pretty smart.. Smarter than I was xD. Good insight, but there are certain locations where girls aren't like this but its hard to find. It's more like unexpected when it happens so watch them out man :). It's good to get rich so you can be able to afford to explore different places to increase your chances of finding some.
There is a big percentage of men that don’t want commitment. Those men don’t stress much over being single because that’s them being happy. The same goes for women as well that like to play the field/sleep around. However, men who want commitment probably stress the same amount on average as women do (who also want commitment). Just my opinion, but it makes sense.
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THEY WANT TO be single to be able to play the field. Doesn’t mean they dont have chicks they bang with no commitment. WOmen want commitment.
Most women dont want commitments and became so picky ! and because of that men started to not give a fuck !!! if he gets pussy, then its ok.. if he dont, then so fuckin what.
@SuperMan89s commitment is code for being taken care of for the rest of her life. All her needs catered to. All her bills, hobbies etc paid for by you. You give her 100%. While she owes you nothing in return. And if she does give you anything its cause she felt like being nice.
@Jedah225 Words of wisdom my friend !!! the main question is what can they offer? and even if you are 100% great with her, the moment she felt you are not emotionally available. she will cheats on you and blame you for that. lol
They offer sex and what Harlow showed us, someone to hug and to tell us everything will be ok. That's all they have on the positive side, the negative on the other hand...
I rather noticed the opposite and it is like a general thing here that women don't desire any relationships until they are in college even then they are patient when it comes to finding a partner.
cause men are the ones supposed to do the approaches, getting all the rejections and thereby being compelled to just fuck around, cause it´s just not worth it.
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Less stress, can do what they want without hearing constant complaining, doesn't have to work as much because he doesn't have to spend his money on someone else, can play games all weekend when he feels like it, eat whatever he wants, doesn't have to go somewhere as often, watch whatever kinds of movies he wants.
You are correct, if porn didn't exist, men being single wouldn't care as much, but in the end, every man will get lonely and want a women who treats him right just like he wants to treat her right. This is built in all of us, at some age, the man will be tired of being alone if he is a normal human being, but in this day age, being heterosexual seems to be one option and isn't really considered normal anymore.
yes it's true cos women are the ones who "care" about the family, while men "provide".
to say it with an easy example, the house is shiny and comfy cos the woman makes it be like that, while the house not collapses cos the man makes it stable.
I'm a girl I like being single, because when I am dating guys they make me feel as if i'm different or odd for not being a needy bitch. But the problem is I look like a typical girly girl who has needy bitch issues, so i attract guys who want this type of 'my babe is a beautiful butterfly look but DONT touch😡😤' guys. Life is unfair, but what can you do.
Being single it just comes natural for me as a guy. I don't put a lot of thought into wanting to be in a relationship. Like if I was like "I can't be without being in a relationship". It's not a huge deal breaker for me at all as I enjoy the single life.
Because women are needy. No offense ladies, but women require attention, time, energy, romance, and every other damn thing on the planet.
❤️ the ladies, but sometimes it's nice to be single without all the extra "stuff"
It is a sociological phenomenon. Women are "supposed" to get married therefore they required to have a partner to fulfill their roles' whole value meanwhile males have no spoken manner either way on marriage and have no particular gender identity tied to partnership at all.
In turn this means that the "woman" literally needs a partner to be, in social eyes, fully matured. In places where there are other sociological attitudes this isn't really true anymore.
Women with no money obsess over relationships, men are the ones afraid of getting no play or love.
Actually, it's generally women who are wealthy and single that are the most insecure about it, that's why they are the majority of women on dating sites. But they make it this way for themselves because they feel like the average guy is too beneath them to go out with, when the average guy is usually smarter than a wealthy woman - or man - and has more color and character.
In your mind.
You saying women are prostitutes?
Yes all whores.
At least you know it
@azzntittiz No, that's kind of a fact.
Guys dont mind it cause they dont dwell on things unless its really bad. In which they generally by that part have fallen apart. But otherwise most guys other than the sensitive ones. can handle being single for most of their life.
I've met so many more men who were desperate for a woman than women who were desperate for a man...
So no... I haven't noticed this...
I don't hate It being single is great and I don't think most girls see it as smthg bad but I think my boyfriend makes my life more exciting and brings more fire and focus ( when I'm horny I have the perfect guy who understands my needs to turn to )
Because sex got much easier approachable than before so that's why a lot of men don't see a need to settle down anymore
As if it was a good reason before?
It's generally harder for a man to find someone he would be attracted to hence girls having high egos thinking they're above most people and think there is always someone better out there so it comes down to just too many games and valuable time lost so its really not worth looking for any girl for this matter. Let the reference reflect im speaking in general terms.
You are pretty smart.. Smarter than I was xD. Good insight, but there are certain locations where girls aren't like this but its hard to find. It's more like unexpected when it happens so watch them out man :). It's good to get rich so you can be able to afford to explore different places to increase your chances of finding some.
Because sausage fests are always an option.
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Why did you reported my comment? lol
Being single for so long leaves us with no choice but to be happy on our own and getting used to it.
Take it from me, a 23 years old kissless virgin, who never had a girlfriend and never really interested women.
There is a big percentage of men that don’t want commitment. Those men don’t stress much over being single because that’s them being happy. The same goes for women as well that like to play the field/sleep around.
However, men who want commitment probably stress the same amount on average as women do (who also want commitment). Just my opinion, but it makes sense.
THEY WANT TO be single to be able to play the field. Doesn’t mean they dont have chicks they bang with no commitment.
WOmen want commitment.
Yea right ! women wants commitments lol
Funny, but there is more male virgins, especially now post 20s.
@Kranjec Why do you think so?
@SuperMan89s what has your experience been?
I know so, as I have read the CDCs study.
Most women dont want commitments and became so picky ! and because of that men started to not give a fuck !!! if he gets pussy, then its ok.. if he dont, then so fuckin what.
@SuperMan89s commitment is code for being taken care of for the rest of her life. All her needs catered to. All her bills, hobbies etc paid for by you. You give her 100%. While she owes you nothing in return. And if she does give you anything its cause she felt like being nice.
@Jedah225 Words of wisdom my friend !!!
the main question is what can they offer?
and even if you are 100% great with her, the moment she felt you are not emotionally available. she will cheats on you and blame you for that. lol
They offer sex and what Harlow showed us, someone to hug and to tell us everything will be ok.
That's all they have on the positive side, the negative on the other hand...
@Kranjec Thats why beta males need to stop giving them attention ! then we should raise the game to a whole new level.
Yeah they ruin it all. It boggles the mind how if men peak at 30 and women at 20, that women are not the ones chasing.
I rather noticed the opposite and it is like a general thing here that women don't desire any relationships until they are in college even then they are patient when it comes to finding a partner.
cause men are the ones supposed to do the approaches, getting all the rejections and thereby being compelled to just fuck around, cause it´s just not worth it.
Not really. They only say it to close ones. In all my friends, the boys are complaining about not having a girlfriend, and the girls like being single
Males are good for marrige up till 40s, women till 30s, so we have a longer time to find a mate.