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I found someone elses bra in his room, what should I do? (Page 3)
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I think it's a trap. Someone purposely dropped that bra in his laundry to break your relation or I'm just watching too many movies 😂 but first confront him
Make him wear it in public.
Or let's look at a slightly more rational answer. He is single and lives alone? Does his mother do his laundry for him?
Just ask, been there done that, I never thought he'd cheat on me and he did. Its easier to move on together or individually if there's honesty.
Maybe his cross dressing jk does he have his on place?
2 male roommates. It was In the dirty clothes
Maybe someone roommate girl that was over.
Yeah maybe, but this is also a plausible cover if he is cheating.
I'd say hey i found this bra, whose is it
if he keep trying to say its yours, red flag. its all about reading his face. this could be innocent, but it could be bad news. But also think about why would he wash the girls bra if he was cheating ya know? like getting guys to do their own laundry is annoying enough much less if a girl left it there lol. most guys would just give it back as it, assuming they gave it back
Wouldn’t work for me I’m into women so Bra thing wouldn’t work.
I just meant for OP.
The dude having 2 roommates is an easy explanation just as much as its an easy cover :/
Yeah I don’t them for not being to bright.
Just ask. Approaching calmly is always the best answer. It keeps you from accidently making the situation worse whether he's innocent or guilty.
If it's unworn he may just be a pervert
We all want an update on this girl. Don't forget us
Definitely keep the bra , take pics and then show him to his face and watch his reactions.
Also keep in mind if he shares his place with male friends , could be one of those as well.
I don't think any girl would leave their bra in their boyfriends house unless she is in a live in relationship with the guy. Finding just a bra doesn't mean anything. It could probably be his sister's or maybe some other family member. The point is, don't jump to any conclusions. If you feel he is cheating on you, the best thing to do will be confronting him. And everybody knows, guys are bad liars😅 If you feel he is being dishonest. Kick him in the face and get outta there girl!😆
You need to be calm about it. Don't go off crazy because it won't help you. Ask some questions before showing. Besides even if he did cheat then be mature are try to work it out if he's worth it. All in all just be calm.
Wear it. If it fits well, maybe he bought it for you, if not, wear it anyway and watch his face when he sees you wearing it. A look of shame tells no lie.
Bwahahahaha
Confront them and prepare for some bullshit xD maybe consider leaving them. I mean does he live with his family or something so that it might be his sister's or his mom's?
It might be a prank, ask him about it and see how he reacts, if its obviously not a prank then react how you will
Was thinking the same thing
Give him the benefit of the doubt and just ask, but don't be naive and believe a big lie. Be sure that he is telling the truth. It is sketchy. Are there any other females who live in the house?
Dont accuse him just ask. It could be really old from years ago or maybe a sisters? I don't know just be nice about it. Dont let him get defensive.
I have on rare occasions found a stray sock, a piece of kids underwear, and yes one bra in my laundry from the launderette. I returned the stray item each time. Mistakes can happen.
He has a washer and dryer in his apartment. 2 male roommates. And it was the dirty clothes. I'd be less concerned if it was in the clean pile.
All relevant information that should have been in the question.
Do his roommates have female visitors who may have thrown something in the wrong laundry basket?
Ask him.
Then when he denies it ask if he is secretly a drag queen.
And when he says no, yell at him into oblivion.
Damn girl.. don't be such a mean bitch lol
@jbskhan damn boy, dont be such a pussy cunt
At least give him some benefit of doubt no
@jbskhan he has another woman bra... what benefit of the doubt is there?
Might be his sisters, mother or may be a gift for her..
Also may be he likes to collect bras
@jbskhan if it was a gift, it would have the bar code tags still on it and wouldn't be in the laundry. And no man in his right man buys lingerie for his mother or sister. And if he collects bras, thats a concern. Where is he getting these used bras?
From his friends GFS.. they might left them and he picked them up
@jbskhan what delusional planet are u living in? lmfaoooo Do your friends do that?
Yup my 2 friends have their gfs bras.. and my point is all about the benefit of doubt honey.
@jbskhan She would know if her boyfriend took a bra from her lol. There is no benefit of the doubt sweetie.
Damn.. if you won't be having a dp of that boobie girl.. I would have scold you till now lol.. :p
always try to stay calm, if you are ready for his answer either way - then I'd say ask him about it. It wouldn't have popped in his room by itself.
I wouldn't go offit because he'd be more inclined to deny it to avoid arguing. Just calmly and confidently ask him why it's there and who's it is
Honestly, ask about it and talk about it calmly. If you are angry and start yelling at him he will just yell back.
If you lives with his parents and then it could be his sisters or mothers bra but if not then flip your s*** at him to show who is boss