How to deal with an egoistic boyfriend/girlfriend?

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784456 · Accepted Answer

Dump him. 😂😂😂

Lol, coming back to our senses now: I couldn't resist more than a week with an egoistic girlfriend. How did she behave? We agreed to meet at a specific place (later turned out the place was 2' walk from her place) and she was always late. ALWAYS! The next dates I told her I'd come to pick her up (so at least I'd wait in the car - which I unfortunatelly ended up doing for the next 3 dates).

The thing is at the first date she told me to go to Amsterdam and do crazy shit there. And I was like "yeah, that's something you definitely plan at the first date". Then I gave her a driving lesson because she was preparing to take the driving exam. Useless to say, she did what she wanted to do with my car, not what I told her to. At least she didn't crashed it, lol.

I'd say you'd better put and end to such relationship that makes you feel you're single. Or that makes you feel you're the puppet and he's the puppeteer. That's how I felt. The thing is I talked to her about it and at first she said she isn't. Then after another "waiting" session, she said she'll improve. Then she admitted she did some puppeteering to her ex after we talked more... And after I did some "research" on her instagram account and saw she was last new year's eve... guess what? In Amsterdam, with her then boyfriend and now ex. She said she told me from the first date that last year she went with her boyfriend to Amsterdam. Seeing she wouldn't change and furthermore start lying to me (not to mention blaming me for not going to Amsterdam with her and keep "puppeteering" me), I let her go.

theFantasticJ · Accepted Answer

Leave they ass

depeche2015 · Accepted Answer

i wouldn't. i don't like arrogant people.

TripleAce · Answer

You deal with it... that's kinda the choice you make.. not everyone is perfect
So you must be gaining something for this negative behaviour
I presume you gain his good looks and you have to keep up with his egoistic behaviour

There is always negatives and positive.. you choose which ones are important...

FemWorship · Answer

give them PLENTY of space & time to get lonely enough to seek YOU out or move on to a more groupie type good riddance

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Emojis are stupid. Anyway, you haven't provided us with any details or context, so we cannot give a substantive answer. Next.

firemonkey · Answer

Make fun of his ego, like pretend to be like him jokingly in front of him. Do this until he gets the message.

TheUglyMonk · Answer

As long as they are not egotistic there's nothing wrong with that.

Dxk007 · Answer

Well, she doesn't know what ego is if, she's with me. I'll make her realise that soon.

Legiøn · Answer

Give him a lot of LSD

Philyouup · Answer

DUMP THEM most effective method.

MichaelCarver451 · Answer

Treat them like total trash.

potatoisme · Answer

You dump them

weaverman · Answer

You dont lol dump them that would dent their ego

Samtheman_95 · Answer

ROAST INCOMING 😂

Himig_Ng_Pag-ibig · Answer

Break up

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Become egoistic too

CT_CD · Answer

Break up

RedJacket · Answer

Hit him/her

diveshpal · Answer

leave them

Anonymous · Answer

Leave them...

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