Would you ever consider a polygamous relationship? Why or why not? (Page 2)
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Would never enter one. I am with people for a long term mongomous relationship and would never date someone who was not looking for the same.
As for the why, I wouldn't want to share myself or my partner with other people. For me intimacy is a sacred bond that I can't have multiple instances.
I'd have to say no. My man and I are open but I have to be the number one woman in his life. Having occasional couples is fine because at the end of the day we love only each other. I couldn't have multiple husbands either. I just don't have anything left to give to another man emotionally or physically. Now sexually with my mans permission is a different question.😉
Hah! I can barely find ONE person whom I can tolerate for extended periods of time, let alone SEVERAL people at that level of intimacy.
I need my alone time. I think I'd start struggling with social anxiety if I had to manage more than one relationship.
What's more is that I have a very low sex drive, so neither I nor my hypothetical partners would benefit from this kind of arrangement.
Too much drama and I mean even if you are only counting sex and not love, women can orgasm much more than men and he only has one unit so what would even be the point of multiple women... However I would be open to a cook/housekeeper that wants free rent because I do not have enough time for life. But seriously what is the point of being in a relationship at all if they aren't there for you.
Its not selfishness it is just common sense, that is just wrong bro, we all know that dude who wants two girls or that girl who wants two guys isn't there for the "Personality" aspect I should say. They are there for that McDouble Meat Special if you ask me
No because i dont think i can love someone who loves someone else. It will only hurt me and i could never ever come close to them anymore. I consider it like cheating or women competing for one guy. Its like the bachelor or bachelorrette but for a while life time.
I wouldn't ever want to be in a polygamous relationship, that said i don't mind including a second girl as a regular sex partner if my girlfriend was a bisexual and we are both attracted to her. But in the end i want it to be something between me and her since i don't think ill be very good nor happy when i have to devide my love between the two.
The three of you will never be equal partners as each people will feel differently about each other. I also don't like the idea of having to deal with two people at the same time. Relationships are hard enough 1 to 1. You'll only make your life harder by adding another person
I don't know. Polyandry i wouldn't consider, because I know there is a lot of better man than me, so... If I'm not enough, she should at least try to find someone better.
Polygamy I wouldn't like as well, but is kinda different, because it's not about how you are, is about your gender.
Only if it's really necessary to her to have it, but still...
I would consider, don't know if I would accept it, though.
How about you.. would you.. if I did do it all the women would have to get along very very well I would probably never have a threesome just for the fact that I only want to please one woman at a time and having two women at the same time it seems like one of them is always trying to get it at the same time and the moment you start pleasing one woman the other one wants to jump in and it kind of ruins everything but if all circumstances her perfect I might.
I would consider it if I really cared about the person and thought they were capable of giving me enough love and affection without me being jealous. However, I need a lot of attention in a relationship, as do most girls, and I wouldn’t like having to share time with other women.
I woundn't mind. I mean some girls that don't want commitments would let you know straight up whay they want
They place the rules and you decide, is her way or the alone way. So you would end up in a circle of two guys and a girl in which everyone knows what is going on but you have to be ok or get out.
It seems a natural sort of thing to me, different people bring different things to a relationships. I have almost zero sex drive, but if you want someone to put the chill in netflix and chill, I'm your guy. I had an ex cheat on me over that. I might pursue such a thing but I'm not secure enough for it (for various reasons) but I do think it's perfectly fine for people to do such a thing.
I would consider polygyny in various circumstances that are not likely to occur where I live. I'd be more inclined to concubinage.
As far as why I prefer polygyny in favor of polyandry, polygyny is the natural order in the world of polygamy. Everything from apes to livestock like horses, chickens, and cattle follow that order - one 'alpha' male who aggressively protects his herd of females.
What about Bees or Spiders or Wolves or Worms or you know Bonobos (our closest relatives)? It's hardly a natural order since there is so much variation in the animal kingdom, it's kind of a naive way to think.
Well since i'ved been in a 12 year relationship and after that a 4 year relationship. Being faithfull and loyal in both. I felt lonely and constricted/leashed/strangled in both relationship. Which made me consider a polygamous relationship is the way for me to go. But I got zero clue to in how to actually start doing that.
I Love women and having multiple women is pretty much most men fantasy but at the same time that is purely a sexual lust relationship which can hurt women (even though the women agree) as well as men. I am 100% monogamous because that is where positive balance exist.
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This picture is like a dream i would like to live in
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they both has physical structure perfection that i absolutely like,
and their appearance and the way they have arms on him and his arms on their thighs.
i am already so Much wet and turned on..
I only want one woman to love and show my affections, I don't want to split my affections with another woman.
And I don't want to share her romantic love with anyone else. But I regardless of that I don't want to be that over bearing boyfriend/husband.
It might be possible to sway my opinion on the matter so I said other. But I am leaning towards no.
Im not sure how I feel about the fact that more men voted polygyny and more women voted polyandry than their respective genders voted for both. Either way I would consider it if the person I was with was on board and very much so wanted it but I'm not sure what the answer would be as of right now.
I wouldn't want to share my partner ever with anyone, nor would I want her to see her having her partner being shared.