The word curvy is a word that's been stretched out of proportion. There is a real difference between curvy and fat. Curvy should only be used if the girl is in shape and her body is like an hour glass. Curvy means substance in the right places. Fat means substance all over the place.
I'm not typing this answer to be mean, what I want you to realize is to stop tricking yourself into thinking 5'4" 195lbs is healthy, because it's not healthy. I can guarantee if half of the chubby and fat girls lost a lot of weight, they would be very attractive. Most of them have pretty faces, but as the eyes travel downward it's all down hill from there.
You have to understand there someone out there for everyone, but by losing weight and improving your health, you can drastically increase the amount of men who find you attractive.
A girl your size, should shoot to lose anywhere between 50-70lbs, if you wanna be in shape and healthy. I'd say set a goal to be around 120-140lbs.
I personally don't find fat women attractive because I'm in great shape and take care of my health. I expect to meet someone who is similar to me because we would have something in common. It's called being compatible.
Good Luck!
I love bigger girls. I can't stand skinny little bean poles. Give me a chubby girl any day. It's different guy to guy. I have friends that prefer girls that are so skinny they look like teenage boys in my opinion. Then there's guys like me that enjoy a little meat on the bones. Rock on sexy.
im chubby as well, and I think there is someone out there who likes everything.
i get hit on all the time, but I am unhappy with how I look so I could honestly give crap less what any guy thinks or girl...considering I know women love to look and compare.
if your not happy and satisfied with it, then change it.
yes I know
but why don't I follow my own advice. trust me I have a goal list and I just decided that one shouldn't be number 1.
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im going to be completely honest here... normally that is unattractive to be a bit chunky and/or overweight, however, it was about 5 months ago now, at the craziest loudest concert of my life, I wasn't starting all too far from this girl, she was overweight, a little shorter, big chest that actually looked really nice, and yeah she had quite a few extra pounds on her, but my gosh she had the cutest most innocent face, and I could barely take my eyes off her and I'd sneak a few peeks at her when I got the chance amidst all the insane people jumping like crazy all around me.
i kinda regret not talking to her after, she looked like such a nice girl, that probably didn't get all too much attention because of her weight :( but she really hit me differently somehow and I thought she was beautiful.
i really think it just depends on the guy. and even then, it just depends on the person and how they hit you/you hit them. attraction is weird. I wish I had talked to her... :(
I love chubby girls. I mean granite probs it was where I was raised but then again my preference has always been girls with meat on their bones but I don't discriminate. As long as she's confident in her walk in her body and she keeps herself well put together no one should discriminate, really what's not to love about a woman's body
Definitely lose that weight. If you lose those 30lbs you'll be chubby. Right now you're fat :p
you know, it depends on the guy. I personally prefer woman with a voluptous but slender body type but I know a lot of guys that like chubby women. You are probably very sexy and have a lot to offer the right guy that finds you attractive.
i prefer chubby girls actually :) they mezmerize me and I think they are VERY sexy :)
I personally love chubby girls, although I've only heard of quite a few people who share this preference; so it definitely depends on the person.
Its ok, i have dimples and leak pee when i laugh to hard. I am fucking hot lol
I like chubby.
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