My boyfriend hasn't deleted his online dating profiles, what should I do? (Page 2)

[Josuesando]

Talk to him, with my ex, I just delete the app, without knowing you could actually delete the account, when she told me I deleted the account! If he still doesn't want, ask him why and if is because he doesn't want to lose his matches, you should consider the relationship.

[misslohan]

First of all, be more secure with yourself. Secondly, ask him to delete or deactivate it. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable. If he refuses, dump his sorry ass, gain some self respect, reactivate your own account and find a man who will cherish you! Too many men around to settle for a dipshit who feels the need to keep his Tinder profile active.

[mia999]

He deleted the apps and is not active, so where is the problem? I think you are overriacting

[walkit]

Ask him what would he do if the roles were reversed, if he won't give you an honest answer just recreate your profiles and inform him about it

[kmonte]

Well if the relationship fails he my just go back to those profiles. I'm not encouraging that it will just a thought. Having doubts isn't good. Just trust him.

[Anonymous]

I think having a dating profile is alright as long as it is not active. He may be just simply be too lazy to do it as it doesn't matter to him. He may have created the dating profile out of boredom from the start anyway. I think being too pushy regarding something that he may not think is important may create some unwanted damage to the relationship. If you say that you guys have a pretty strong relationship then have some trust in him.

[oftheHowl]

I'd legit be too lazy to go online and figure out how to delete or deactivate an account. I always just delete the apps, you're overthinking it

[ThisDudeHere]

And what if you two do fail? It'd be inconvenient to remake them. If he doesn't use them then isn't that enough?

[MsMusic]

I'd just delete the apps. I don't really wanna go through the hassle of completely deleting them, but I'd probably take my pics down.

[newnew50]

Tell him your not comfortable about that. In order to have a relationship you have to be honest with each other. Don't let this weigh on you.

[HereIbe]

He's keeping his options open. If you are okay with that, do nothing. If not, then he needs to shut it down. Basically, you're still just a fallback chick for him, and he'll dump you if anything better comes along.

[sakalator]

Oh God 😱 I'm so sorry for that. It must be horrible. Well you gotta talk this through. It's not good at all.

[miiszmel]

If he hasn't been active then you shouldn't worry too much

[struggleslice]

Spam his accounts with Kraft Singles and he will be so enamored with it that he will be forced to delete them, thus reinforcing your relationship

[reventon4]

You are the top 3 most humorous girl I have met on this site

[struggleslice]

@reventon4 thank you but that's only because this is a specialty account. Besides, who are the other 2 girls?

[reventon4]

I know you passionately advertise cheese, but can I see a photo of yourself?

[struggleslice]

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[reventon4]

If you spam me, I will call @N23SA to retaliate

[WalterRadio]

If you are giving him everything he needs and wants in a relationship, then why would you care?

[Anonymous]

I used to have tinder. When I got into a relationship I just deleted the app, not the profile. I'm just lazy and deleting the app was just easier. There's no hidden agenda

[Anonymous]

tell him again, POLITELY, but express you discomfort with it. if he doesn't want to, then you two should have a talk about reconsidering how strong your relationship is. But most probably he just forgot, so be civil.

[thottiana]

He deleted the apps, that should be good enough. You never know what’s going to happen, you guys might not last forever.

[ThreeSheetsToTheWind]

If he's not active on those sites, what difference does it make? He's probably just forgot to delete his accounts, I don't think it's anything to worry about.

[maggie123234]

He needs to delete it if he wants you. If it the relationship fails, he can just create a new one. If he is not willing to delete it, then that's a problem.