I'd give it at LEAST a couple years. Let the sparks dim and learn about the stuff you don't like about each other. If you still want to get married, even when things aren't sunshine and rainbows, you've got a keeper.
Chill bro, give it some time to get to really know her. There's masks we all wear around people we like, we hide the things we don't like about ourselves. I think that after a while moving in with her might be a good idea, but wait till y'all have been together for a year at the very least.
Just wait it out. At least you two are together. If you love each other that much, you wouldn't have a problem with carefully and slowly going through the process of determining the potential for a lifelong marriage.
I don’t think it’s too soon, but leg the honeymoon phase wear off. You guys can talk about the future but doesn’t mean you have to propose. Give it time, enjoy just being in the state and phase you are in before you take it to another level
My boyfriend and I talk about our lives together and the prospects of marriage and a family but I couldn't imagine both of us getting engaged any time soon, not because we don't love each other but because we're happy just being together
No people get married soon all the time just depends on the culture. I know people who it took only 5 months to get married, 3 to get engaged and those are some of the strongest couples I know, mind you they are very religious though.
I would say maybe wait 3 to 4 months more and see then. You don't want to just jump into a marriage, then figure out you should have waited to get to know the person more. I hope it works out for you guys though!
No, no, no.. this is the reason why young people today end up getting divorces cause they get married too fast and too early. You haven't been with the girl a year yet to be talking about marriage.
Not crazy to talk about it. Discuss what both of you want for your future and what you see. Discussion the idea of it does not mean the same thing as promising it or engaging to the idea.
It’s not a matter of time, if all cylinders are clicking and the chemistry in the poor, trust, Respect and values are all there respect and values are all good then marriage is the natural progression.
I don't think it's too soon to think about it, it sounds like she's smitten with you too! Maybe a year long engagement, and live together first to see how you get on?
I don't think necessarily 4months is to little of time to prepare for marriage if you spend that time making sure you are what you seek. But I wouldn't trust someone making wise choices whiles engulfed in feel good feelings.
It can happen. I'd still wait a year or two though. If you're planning on marrying her, then there's no need to rush.
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when you know, you just know. My husband and I met, dated 3 months, got engaged for 3 months and were married. We have been married for 8 years now... been together 8.5 years. It can happen and I've heard of other happy marriages similar to ours.
Is it? Marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment. And I mean, unless you're religious it doesn't really change anything. Legally I guess it depends on where in the world you live. You might think you know somebody after a few months, but you dont really know them until you see their worst side.
I wouldn't do that buddy. I was in love too and would have done everything for her, but life didn't want us to be together for any longer, so it has lead us on different ways, and so it can happen to you. Wait a little bit with it.
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I'd give it at LEAST a couple years. Let the sparks dim and learn about the stuff you don't like about each other. If you still want to get married, even when things aren't sunshine and rainbows, you've got a keeper.
Chill bro, give it some time to get to really know her. There's masks we all wear around people we like, we hide the things we don't like about ourselves. I think that after a while moving in with her might be a good idea, but wait till y'all have been together for a year at the very least.
Just wait it out. At least you two are together. If you love each other that much, you wouldn't have a problem with carefully and slowly going through the process of determining the potential for a lifelong marriage.
I don’t think it’s too soon, but leg the honeymoon phase wear off. You guys can talk about the future but doesn’t mean you have to propose. Give it time, enjoy just being in the state and phase you are in before you take it to another level
My boyfriend and I talk about our lives together and the prospects of marriage and a family but I couldn't imagine both of us getting engaged any time soon, not because we don't love each other but because we're happy just being together
No people get married soon all the time just depends on the culture. I know people who it took only 5 months to get married, 3 to get engaged and those are some of the strongest couples I know, mind you they are very religious though.
Same thing
I would say maybe wait 3 to 4 months more and see then. You don't want to just jump into a marriage, then figure out you should have waited to get to know the person more. I hope it works out for you guys though!
No, no, no.. this is the reason why young people today end up getting divorces cause they get married too fast and too early. You haven't been with the girl a year yet to be talking about marriage.
Not crazy to talk about it. Discuss what both of you want for your future and what you see. Discussion the idea of it does not mean the same thing as promising it or engaging to the idea.
It’s not a matter of time, if all cylinders are clicking and the chemistry in the poor, trust, Respect and values are all there respect and values are all good then marriage is the natural progression.
I don't think it's too soon to think about it, it sounds like she's smitten with you too! Maybe a year long engagement, and live together first to see how you get on?
I think its top soon to propose, but not to talk about it.
I think it's important to know that you're both dating Each other in hopes of it to last, and not just casually to pass time..
I think it's too soon to propose but not to soon to discuss and even plan. Just give it some more time. A decision this big deserves consideration.
I don't think necessarily 4months is to little of time to prepare for marriage if you spend that time making sure you are what you seek. But I wouldn't trust someone making wise choices whiles engulfed in feel good feelings.
i think it is a bit early to seriously consider marriage but i think it's never bad to think about and discuss the future.
It can happen. I'd still wait a year or two though. If you're planning on marrying her, then there's no need to rush.
when you know, you just know. My husband and I met, dated 3 months, got engaged for 3 months and were married. We have been married for 8 years now... been together 8.5 years. It can happen and I've heard of other happy marriages similar to ours.
Waaay too soon.
I'd say be a couple about 3-5 years, then start thinking about it.
Its about more than just your feelings for eachother.
3-5 years that’s ridiculous
Is it? Marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment. And I mean, unless you're religious it doesn't really change anything. Legally I guess it depends on where in the world you live.
You might think you know somebody after a few months, but you dont really know them until you see their worst side.
Tell me, why is 3-5 years ridiculous?
I wouldn't do that buddy. I was in love too and would have done everything for her, but life didn't want us to be together for any longer, so it has lead us on different ways, and so it can happen to you. Wait a little bit with it.