If my boyfriend wants me to do an abortion, it means he doesn't truly love me? (Page 2)

[ciitruskiwi]

He's just beung smart. You aren't ready and neither of you are financially stable. There is no way you can take care of a baby.

[ciitruskiwi]

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[joker_daddy]

It means he is using his head if your not ready and stable enough to raise a child abort or give it up for adoption he loves you because he could leave you on your own to raise it

[Gray-Wisp]

No, it probably just means he's very ignorant and would like to dismiss the possibility of it being murder for the sake of his own convenience.

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[Anon-ymous1]

Uh, no. It means he's freaked out and not ready to be a father. It's perfectly reasonable that he feels the way he does.

[YHL6965]

No, he is just being wise and wanting the best environment for a child.

[Anonymous]

False.

Wanting a better life for yourselves & future kid =/= not loving you

[doogo]

If both of you are not financially set, get the abortion.

[youngfungentleman]

Adoption is a loving option. There are plenty of people that would like to have children and are unable to

[PrettyRegular]

I'm sure that it isn't easy to bring a baby to this world, then give it to strangers and then be without thinking that how he/she is doing. It would be really painful.

[pleasestopthis]

@PrettyRegular It is more painful to murder your own child.

[PrettyRegular]

@pleasestopthis This is kind of one of those situations where is only wrong answers.

[marijajr]

He is smart. He said that's your decision but if you're not financially stable, what's the point?

[-Asca-]

I don't even see how you would think of that. Loving someone doesn't mean you have to want a child with them as soon as possible.

[genericname85]

I don't think he probably thinks he can't be a good father right now so it's not about you. I guess he doesn't entirely understand the process of abortion and the psychological trauma for the woman that comes with it.

[Belgie]

He is thinking sensibly. It says nothing about whether he loves you.

[rmgnow]

I don't understand you logic in all this, so if he wanted you to keep the baby, that would prove that he loved you somehow?

[AdmiralBailey]

Babies are expensive. You can't just feed it Oreos and think everything will be okay

[jsixis]

If you guys aren't ready you aren't ready. It has nothing to do with how much he loves you. If you have a kid you can't afford or take care of it doesn't matter how much you love them lol. you're screwing them too

[ChronicThinker]

No, it means he knows you don't have the money to raise the child.

[britpop]

It means he's not ready to be a father doesn't mean he doesn't love you complicated situation and good luck with it

[Ankitasingh466]

I would say keep , don't go for abortions. It will break U down mentally and physically.

[GingerGuy]

Not at all. What's happening is he's thinking logically, you're thinking emotionally.

[halfbowsey]

Cannot tell. But what would you rather him say that won't make you doubt if he loves you?