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My husband doesn't want me to have any male friends , is he being unreasonable? (Page 2)
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no. if that's the case, you shouldn't allow him to have any female friends. if he's gonna be with a woman, he has to realize that them having male friends is not up to them. thats being controlling
sorry! i read "reasonable" .
yes that is unreasonable
You're only 17 with quite a lot to learn lol. You will. Hopefully not the hard way.
I mean but I would think that there's enough trust in the relationship as to where each party can have opposite gender friends
It's a compatibility issue. He should've realized who she was before he decided to continue the relationship.
That's insecure, if you've never given him any reason not to trust you.
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, it's hard
Everybody wants her, everybody loves her
Everybody wants to take your baby home
He trusts you, he doesn't trust other men.
My ex did that to me. Said while we were together I couldn’t have any female friends and made me go through my Facebook friends list at the time and unfriend all of the girls who aren’t family members or herself.
She claimed she didn’t have any friends
Tell us why you NEED male friends.
The whole friendship thing is different for men than it is for women. Men are sexually motivated, they don't just be friends for fun. Perhaps you have something to learn about men and friendships.
Are you 61? Or 16? Lol
@Asad1ONE1 Are you 34 or 14? LOL
Id say its a bit unreasonable. He should trust you to have boundaries with your friends in my opinion, even if the guy does have other motives.
To me it's an issue of trust in you for your husband or fear you might find someone better, mind I'm not trying to bash your husband I'm sure he is a fine man. It's just possible issues
You married the wrong guy to call him your husband.
Be safe and aim to divorce this someone, who controls and manipulates you into misery because of his own insecurities.
Not an insecurity. It's a compatibility issue!
@Asad1ONE1 well if certain humans want to isolate themselves (and isolate their spouse too from others), then yeah, it is a compatibility issue.
Yes I notice your sarcasm. But let's not take it there. There are many people who don't want their partners hanging out with other friends, let alone friends of the opposite sex.
@Asad1ONE1 it is my duty to stay away from such toxic organic trash.
I refuse to consign on the regard of my present absence.
If he's willing to do the same, then he can ask that. Also he has to devote all of his attention to you.
You may have male friends, but it depends on what kind of these guys also. I wouldn't let my wife to go to a bar with his any "male" friend.
He is right: men are not your friends!
Those guys want to smash and he is doing the right thing by keeping you away from them.
He is either insecure or just really smart. Not all but a lot of women with male friends are cheaters.
Would you like it if your man had a lot of female friends?
Was this part of your agreement before marriage? If so, why would you break it? If not, he's insane
Sounds unreasonable to me. Many men will have ulterior motives for being friendly, you can tell them to get lost. If they won't, being friends with them probably isn't a good idea anyway.
Ask him if he has any female friends or not. If he has then why shouldn't you.
And if he has no female friends - then I guess he's not much of social person. A conservative one.
He wants u to suicide that's y? Suicide then tell him to fuck it.
Yes. Weither it's him being controlling or that he married you knowing that's not what he wants.
I get where he is coming from, but it's not a realistic thing to ask of your partner.
Just curious. Why do you think it’s unrealistic?
He is asking her to not associate with half of the world's population. It just seems excessive
Nice answer
This is not reasonable. It implies he doesn't trust you.