They can have children knowing all the resources of the man will go to her kids. She’ll often not be expected to work during pregnancy and early childhood, if ever again, then goes on to be provided for by the guy until he dies and she receives life insurance and historically his pension, not to mention everything he paid for by working all his life.
From what I've witnessed, most men in relationships will look but not touch. Most women will have guys just waiting to get their chance so if she's not happy, she'll monkey bar to the next chump.
It is definitely a double standard but I think a lot of that has to do with potential consequences too. In many areas, pregnancy is more devastating for females than males. That said, it depends on the female or the male. For example, I cut a friend out of my life because I was strictly monogamous and she wanted to hookup with me and the other 6 guys she was seeing casually.
Uh no Some women are batshit crazy and will play 10 nice guys around at the same time And some guys value their one and only woman so much that it hurts when they miss her It doesn't really matter, maybe it did back in the day but women are becoming more "free" these days so it's kinda equal
Based on my past relationships and my current marriage... girl.. guys have no idea what the word monogamy even is. Jk. Just make sure you find the right guy with the same morals/values as you, like, monogamy.
Not in my experience. I'd say it's pretty equal between the genders. I know more women who have cheated personally, but I only date women so that's the side of it that I see.
I'm saying it's pretty much just a part of human nature to be selfish. With few exceptions, people want a faithful partner to sit at home while they go out and seek variety.
Yeaaaah, noooo. Most of the people I know who cheated on a spouse / significant other were women. And it is within all male and female genetics to want more than one partner. You get people who cheat and people who don't. Gender really doesn't change that.
Exactly I think the best thing a woman should do if she's suspecting her man of cheating is to request an open relationship so there will be no more lies and secrets. It also takes the thrill and excitement away in my opinion I believe freedom leads to monogamy.
I've definitely met more guys who declared themselves to be polygamous than girls but that might just be because it is more acceptable for guys to be openly slutty...
That is exactly what I'm saying. And, to be honest, I don't care, who does it. It's slutty. To say it explicitly: even for men. How about don't fuck around and commit?
Yes I agree. Men are programmed that way. Up until about 50 years ago women had a lot to loose from sex, pregnancy and death. Value culture is taking a while to catch up but I suspect women will become more promiscuous.
All the trashy girls ie older single moms want relationships and all the actual marriageable women of childbearing age who are interesting to me are taught they need to sleep around thus making them crap like the rest. Really sucks.
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I’d say women on average have far more to gain from monogamy, both biologically and financially
What do you mean by that?
They can have children knowing all the resources of the man will go to her kids. She’ll often not be expected to work during pregnancy and early childhood, if ever again, then goes on to be provided for by the guy until he dies and she receives life insurance and historically his pension, not to mention everything he paid for by working all his life.
From what I've witnessed, most men in relationships will look but not touch. Most women will have guys just waiting to get their chance so if she's not happy, she'll monkey bar to the next chump.
Sush. Don't you know that the truth hurts people's feelings?
Gosh, you're so insensitive!
It is definitely a double standard but I think a lot of that has to do with potential consequences too. In many areas, pregnancy is more devastating for females than males. That said, it depends on the female or the male. For example, I cut a friend out of my life because I was strictly monogamous and she wanted to hookup with me and the other 6 guys she was seeing casually.
Uh no
Some women are batshit crazy and will play 10 nice guys around at the same time
And some guys value their one and only woman so much that it hurts when they miss her
It doesn't really matter, maybe it did back in the day but women are becoming more "free" these days so it's kinda equal
Based on my past relationships and my current marriage... girl.. guys have no idea what the word monogamy even is. Jk. Just make sure you find the right guy with the same morals/values as you, like, monogamy.
Not in my experience.
I'd say it's pretty equal between the genders.
I know more women who have cheated personally, but I only date women so that's the side of it that I see.
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No
BIOLOGY tought women to be monogamous. A woman spends a lot of time on a child. So fucking everyone and having 100 children is a bad idea.
Men value monogamy in women.
Women value monogamy in men.
So your saying it's equal?
I'm saying it's pretty much just a part of human nature to be selfish. With few exceptions, people want a faithful partner to sit at home while they go out and seek variety.
I value it too. I can't speak for other, but only for myself, I value monogamy.
Yeaaaah, noooo. Most of the people I know who cheated on a spouse / significant other were women. And it is within all male and female genetics to want more than one partner. You get people who cheat and people who don't. Gender really doesn't change that.
Probably. Women are so protective and scared that their man is cheating on them. wtf? The old days are over where we needed to depend on a man.
Exactly I think the best thing a woman should do if she's suspecting her man of cheating is to request an open relationship so there will be no more lies and secrets. It also takes the thrill and excitement away in my opinion I believe freedom leads to monogamy.
Yes. Now we depend on you. Problem is, women don't care about us anymore. Too busy becoming "sexually" empowered.
Women file something like 70% of all divorce papers so obviously not.
I’d say it’s the other way round, most men can be content in a relationship and women are just thots and cheat to date someone better.
Studies have shown that a slightly higher percentage of women in the 18-29 age group cheat than men. So that goes against your theory.
I've definitely met more guys who declared themselves to be polygamous than girls but that might just be because it is more acceptable for guys to be openly slutty...
I'm in the minority then. Strict monogamy, no sex outside relationships, no casual sex, no shit like that.
So you don't believe in open relationships is what you're saying?
That is exactly what I'm saying.
And, to be honest, I don't care, who does it. It's slutty. To say it explicitly: even for men.
How about don't fuck around and commit?
Yes I agree. Men are programmed that way. Up until about 50 years ago women had a lot to loose from sex, pregnancy and death. Value culture is taking a while to catch up but I suspect women will become more promiscuous.
All the trashy girls ie older single moms want relationships and all the actual marriageable women of childbearing age who are interesting to me are taught they need to sleep around thus making them crap like the rest. Really sucks.
You should've asked that question while draco malfoy still had his account active
Oh dear...
Nope. Divorce stats will tell you that especially if you look deeper into why all these divorces happen.