yes it is. privacy in a relationship is key. if you can't trust him you are with the wrong guy or you are insecure. either way a phone i a private thing.
No, not if the person has made you feel distrustful. If they're going to lie, you should know where you stand.
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I actually have a guy friend this happened to and as a result he’s been blocked from talking to me and she basically bullies me non stop I had to get a restraining order.
It's as bad as looking through your partner's diary but even worse.
Guys.. always password protect your shit!
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To me, it's just a sign that there is a lack of trust and maybe communication. Work on building trust and being more fluid with communication. You won't feel the need to do that again.😊
Absolutely. I have good protection on my phone, but if I ever noticed, I would dump the person on the spot. Diving into my personal sphere is such an offense.
I don't see a problem but do it in front of them before they try to hide something if they are innocent they have nothing to hide, just do it in a friendly way
Personally I think it’s fine to peek here and there not without him knowing just ask for his phone if he gives you it off the bat there’s no point in looking for anything or he would not have given you it
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No but just ask them to if you can first.
Because if it not that is wrong.
Also if your partner ain't hiding something he/she would let you
more disrespectful, and untrustworthy, to do so to me means that you don't trust your partner, in anyway,
Yes, and disrespectful, and shows signs of jealousy/insecurity too. Three things that aren't great for a relationship.
It's being nosey, tbh. Shows that you don't trust him/her too. Relationships like that are bound to fail.
It’s an invasion of privacy. It just shows you have a lack of trust in them.
Yes my Ex did it to me and I felt like he invaded my privacy
Yes, and also a sign that you don't trust them and therefore shouldn't be in a relationship with them as it's doomed to fail.
If you don’t trust to not look through the phone, than your with the wrong person
yes it is. privacy in a relationship is key. if you can't trust him you are with the wrong guy or you are insecure. either way a phone i a private thing.
Yes. I want to be comfortable around someone I'm with not on guard. I'd rather be single than policed.
No, not if the person has made you feel distrustful. If they're going to lie, you should know where you stand.
I actually have a guy friend this happened to and as a result he’s been blocked from talking to me and she basically bullies me non stop I had to get a restraining order.
Yes if you can’t trust someone you shouldn’t be with them.
It's as bad as looking through your partner's diary but even worse.
Guys.. always password protect your shit!
To me, it's just a sign that there is a lack of trust and maybe communication. Work on building trust and being more fluid with communication. You won't feel the need to do that again.😊
Kind of... but if you don't trust that your partner is being honest with you, then how else would you find out what you want to know?
Absolutely. I have good protection on my phone, but if I ever noticed, I would dump the person on the spot. Diving into my personal sphere is such an offense.
I don't see a problem but do it in front of them before they try to hide something if they are innocent they have nothing to hide, just do it in a friendly way
It's not just immature, it's disrespectful and it screams trust issues.
Personally I think it’s fine to peek here and there not without him knowing just ask for his phone if he gives you it off the bat there’s no point in looking for anything or he would not have given you it