Ever looked through your partners phone?

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BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

Yes and one time he said some hurtful things and I confronted him on it. But we made up about. I know the whole looking through the phone thing is seen as bad and so untrusting, but people act like people don't lie and keep secrets. We can ask someone to be upfront and honest and they will look us right in the face and lie. Only then when you look through their phone/computer is when you find out the truth that they're cheating or talking crap about you behind your back. I think the only reason some people gaslight and guilt trip you for looking through someone's phone is cause they know they have something to hide and just don't want you to see it... sometimes. well if your upfront and honest, people won't feel the need to snoop on you. I have nothing to hide and I'm not weird about my husband using my phone.

Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

In our family culture and social culture, commitment and faithfulness are of prime importance. We never try to cross the boundaries. Anything sexual outside marriage is social crime for us. I and my husband have shared PIN from very first day of our mutual agreeing for engagement and marriage. We frequently respond each other’s phone calls – if one is busy with something. We are using only one mobile to order things online and for net banking. In this way – I can say there is nothing secret or hidden thing between us. Many of our family members and close friends envy our trust and information sharing between us, and we are proud of it.

DEXTER_LIVES · Accepted Answer

Yes, it's the only way I found out that she cheated. I had good reason because she was acting weird as hell about me even using her phone and she wouldn't even leave it near me.

If I had never grabbed it from her and checked her contacts I would still be with that crazy chick. Her current boyfriend has no clue that she cheats on him because I see her around with different guys. He will probably never check her phone and get cheated on for 50 years.

nomandik · Accepted Answer

Never actually looked at my partner's phone why would somebody be so jealous of a person that you have to look at your partner's phone.
do you let your partner look at your phone?
I hope I don't ever get any relationship with you I like my privacy to a certain extent.

NathanDavis · Answer

hmm, yes... but

I had the scree pass for her phone, and I would hold her phone sometimes so she was absolutely careless if I looked through her things or not, lol

and I did like to go through her pics, which were 60% outfits and shoes she would want to buy, or bought... so I liked to ask if she got some of those or not, lol

d3n0939 · Answer

This thing is something serious. If anyone hesitates to show their phone while in a relationship, there is always a truoble. Only honest ones don't care of partner using the phone

Nash62826 · Answer

I would rether be oblivious and happy , 100% no. I will put my blind trut in him. I treasure my mental peace and the fact i am behind bars cause i could not pull off that jumpsuit. and i would have dropped the soap.

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Yup and I found out he was cheating on me with minors 😀

Anonymous · Answer

Kinda? He left his computer on with the chat window still open so I went through their messages, turns out he’s been seeing another girl from work just like I suspected lol

qwert1234 · Answer

Yes.

With her permission. And beside her.

I was trying to find a picture and she's too lazy to find it. lol.

But snooping? No. She told me her code and 5 seconds later I forgot it.

Technically, I do not care.

LazerBean · Answer

I've played on it while my phone was dead before. I didn't just go through his stuff though. I mean we are allowed to at any time, but since we have that rule we don't really need to use it.

AsaKyo · Answer

I haven't and probably wouldn't do it  If he's lying about something, they'll eventually come to the surface without me being nosey and snooping

dustybiker · Answer

No, not unless shown. Give trust get trust. In my world.

Nikki1989 · Answer

We share each other's phones all the time. Why? Because it is just a phone!

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

My mom just gave me her phone after she got a new one and she didn't erase everything. Nothing interesting going on tho. I just factory reset it afterwards

exitseven · Answer

Only if I have to fix something or install an app

Juxtapose · Answer

No, that's like reading their diary only even worse. I have more respect and integrity than that.

Anonymous · Answer

I was tempted but I have never ever done this ever.

BJP21 · Answer

Why? Im not the insecure boyfriend. She can have friends, girls and guys alike.

Anonymous · Answer

I have not done that. My "ex" has cheated on me and ghosted me for a rich man in a bigger city. 😒

Twalli · Answer

I've been on her phone, but not because I thought she was cheating. Her phone was closer

EaterPeter · Answer

My partner just got chance today to scroll through my contacts

admles · Answer

Nope, never have, never will, and won’t tolerate it being done to me either.

mandyfire98 · Answer

No but I've had a guy look through mine.

Luopio27 · Answer

I won't lowern into that.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, it was all gud.

swettannie · Answer

nope

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