Do you check your partner's phone?

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Eg: - when they are not looking - when they are in the bathroom - when they are sleeping Etc..

hhadeshatesme · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. I won’t touch/bother their phone unless they give me actual reasons to question their loyalty. With the internet cheating is at people’s finger tips at any given moment. I’m all for giving your partner privacy and not being overbearing but I’m also not going to sit around like a fool and act blind. I’ve had a boyfriend whose phone I didn’t bother until he started being weird with it. he started taking his phone everywhere he went (refusing to leave it if he left a room for a quick second), leaving it facing down with his ringer off, started sleeping on top of it. I eventually seen what was on it and he wasn’t up to no good. I asked him about his weird behaviour before going through his phone and he lied and said nothing was going on, I’m also not going to jump to conclusions and confront a significant other of cheating unless I see proof. If you give me no reason to think you’re being unfaithful then I won’t touch your phone.

t_time · Accepted Answer

No I don't I haven't had any need to with my current boyfriend at all.

I have in the past with an ex because I fell asleep one night. Randomly woke up but he didn't know I was awake. Noticed he was texting other girls laying in bed with me. So I checked his phone when he went downstairs to the bathroom. I saw he was sending inappropriate photos and talking inappropriately with 6 girls that I know of. We were dating almost a year. Found out he was cheating on me the whole time we were together. When he told me he was working late he was really out with other girls

Luopio27 · Answer

I believe a healthy relationship is based on Trust & Respect. For both men and women, in relationships, they will aleays meet & greet new singles that have more than their partner. This is tempting only to those who are not happy with their partner.

A phone, a social media account, or any other communication device can easily be kept "clean", while the real cheating happens in personal time.

Cheaters find their ways to hide until they decide to leave one for the better one.

Novacane · Answer

No, never have and never will. There were times that my ex would tell me if I wanted to go through her phone and I said no because I don't care, that is your personal stuff so I won't intrigue. People need to understand that you searching for something usually will lead to you finding something that will hurt you to protect your peace. If someone is going to cheat on you trust me they will do it anyways, you can't prevent it, just know that the past will always come out sooner or later.

Anonymous · Answer

Those who voted NEVER are either lying, fear getting caught or are simply delusional.
They are led by their rose colored glasses.
Deep down they also know something is up but they don't wanna ruin the 'sweet moments' because they're afraid to be alone.

Flower7 · Answer

I’ve only done this with one guy in my life. It was only because I’d already found out that he was cheating on me. I wanted to find out what he was saying to the women and how many of them there were, so before I talked to him about the cheating. I snooped through his phone every day for like a week.

Dragonpurple · Answer

Not really, but I have my finger print in her phone to unlock and check any time I want and she knows the password to mine.

Keep in mind my ex did cheat on me, so you could say I have trust issues but by keeping things open like this. Means either one of us 'could' look at the others phone while the other is in the shower or something.

The point is, we have no secrets from each other... best possible way to have a great relationship.

pickedcrisps · Answer

If they showed me or let me. Lol. But I don't have one. So it's cool. I voted no never because I wouldn't if they didn't want me to.

But then I guess I know divorce lawyer business cards are what I should be sanitising and collecting then 🤗🤗🤗

Oigit · Answer

If my partner is checking on me to see what I might be doing what is she doing? I'm in a relationship and whenever this type of question comes up it prompts me with the question above.

Siren777 · Answer

No I wouldn't besides I don't have anything to hide my partner could check my phone. You know it's healthy relationship when you don't have to hide your phone.

ohshee · Answer

Noooooooooooo!! That's so dad why would I do that  First of all if I don't trust her I'm not going to be with her I don't need to be snooping through her stuff that's her personal stuff

elizamichale1 · Answer

Nah i think it would mean i dont trust them
eventhough we are very open with each other and even have access to each other's phone in case we need to access it in some emergency but we still never go through each other's phones

dustybiker · Answer

Mature relationships are based on trust. I wouldn’t do to my partner what I wouldn’t want them to do to me. If asked I would share same goes the other way round =Trust.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

That is private information and would be a violation of trust.

SecretsofKB · Answer

I never do unless they ask me to. I'll let them know if I see a notification pop up but I'll never look unless they ask. Simple respect of boundries.

HOAAH · Answer

I check it for facebook bc he has ot but i do not. I don't sneak around doing it. I do it while sitting next to him.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

I fully trust my significant other so I would never check her phone and she trusts me enough to not check mine.

JakeS00 · Answer

I wouldn’t need to or would want to. I feel like that guilt will weight more than me finding stuff out myself. If we have honesty, there’s no need to look into anything. But it really depends.

admles · Answer

Nope. And in all honest, if I found my girlfriend "checking" my phone, we'd be having a long talk about why, and if there's a reason I should continue to be in a relationship with someone like that.

t-8900 · Answer

I've got no reason to. I trust her. Time reveals all things. Of some was wrong it would eventually come to light.

TrueConfection · Answer

Who has time for that anyway? I not even the tiniest bit interested in what's on his phone.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope. I respect my partners privacy and I trust them not to hide shit from me.

modeve · Answer

It's undesirable. I never checked my partner's phone.

Anonymous · Answer

i think it doesn't really matter doing this even if they're not cheating, because the thing is that if they dont care about the relationship arrengement, they will find any way to cheat on you using the phone or not
So i think is kind of a waste of time doing it, because is not really good wanting to keep a relationship with someone that would cheat on you if they have a chance (unless you have trust issues, in that case the problem is more on you then your partner)

StormyWinter · Answer

If you feel the need to check their phone you probably shouldn't be in the relationship

Wester1967 · Answer

Woman: Why won’t you ask me to marry you? Guy: Let me see your phone. Woman: Never mind

Ironic_Method · Answer

Nope. It makes it real easy to be in a relationship with someone you trust.

AllGoodNamesRGone · Answer

If you have to keep your phone on lock or up your ass while in a relationship, you're GUILTY by association.

tomtom05131 · Answer

Looking through someone’s phone is like looking through there purse or wallet and very uncool. Either you trust or you don’t. Can’t have it both ways

qwert1234 · Answer

Nope, not my thing, not my style..  Also, she tells me her pin but I always forget lol.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

If you feel the need to check it, then they aren't being open with you enough to trust them.

Phoenix98 · Answer

It’s not something I’ve ever done nor plan to do in the future.

Y2KxD · Answer

With how much women cheat these days, and the #1-10/ ways they cheat involves their phone in some way, I'd be an idiot not to

Massageman · Answer

Only when I am closer to her poe, it rings and I know she won't get to it in time.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

The only times I did was when I picked up his phone by mistake instead of mine and he had message.

TutorialH · Answer

A relationship needs to be built on trust.  If I find myself wanting to check their phone out of suspicion, then that's a sign the relationship itself has issues which need addressed.

Wise4myage · Answer

I've never done that because I don't have trust issues.

FireFox001 · Answer

Never. If I would find a reason to check it, then trust is lost and time to break up.

Zoi420 · Answer

I believeeve they should have access to it. If your hiding something that where I get suspicious. What do you have time hide?

Serioousgirl · Answer

Although I do get jealous but I will never check his phone he can cheat on me for all I care because I can also do same.

sattii2607 · Answer

Mutual trust is very important, we let each other use our phones but not for spying or checking.

Lizzy1999 · Answer

I do bc I wanna see if he been texting other girls or watching porn.

BigKevHanma · Answer

I glance at it every now and again but I try not to out of respect for her privacy

NumberOneStunna · Answer

Her password is locked. Plus there’s many way to cheat around a cell phone!

Anonymous · Answer

Never, unless I'm given a reason to suspect that there is something untoward going on.

rosemilk · Answer

No I don’t have any reason to 🌸

Anonymous · Answer

I used to when I was in a relationship. I left him. If I have to do all that it’s not worth it.

PositiveNote · Answer

Noooooo! Never open Pandora’s cell phone!!!

exitseven · Answer

Everyone deserves privacy.

collie22 · Answer

never thought of doing that

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Valuation of privacy I may add

ChiPaPa · Answer

If I had a partner, hell no.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

No that's childish and insecure

Talea · Answer

No, I believe in trust and respect.

Twalli · Answer

We trust each other completely.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

If you do, you're nuts

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

I never have, but my ex always checked mine.

douride2 · Answer

Never have.

Shanaya_S · Answer

No i don't

dudeinohio · Answer

Never

hakangirer · Answer

ns no

jimmy2 · Answer

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