Oh course!
Look at dogs.
Dogs are submissive to pack leader (their human owner), but they will be load or even vicious at protecting the pack.
A "submissive man" is no different. He may be easy going to the day-in, day-out desires of his female or family, but he will become very protective if he senses they may come to harm from either outside threats or their own actions.
Just because he doesn't bark all the time, doesn't mean he won't bark... or bite.
Anybody who says a submissive male can't be a good protector:
1. Doesn't understand.
2. Is an idiot.
And you know who aren't good protectors?
Idiots... because they are easily duped and defeated.
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Alpha male doesn't exist in humans. Being submissive doesn't mean they can't protect you. Also considering that we have such a complex social structure, no one is ever always dominant or submissive in every scenario.
One can be physically submissive for various reasons. One could be because one does not feel physically capable to face a challenge requiring force.
A physically submissive person can be a better protector because physically incapable does not mean mentally challenged. Nowadays, peace is won by negotiating and seldom by winning a war.
You can be an excellent negotiator and thus, theoretically, a better protector than a person that is physical and tries to solve issues solely relying on force rather than brains.
Yeah. An alpha guy can be all talk. He could be weak and slow and a coward
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I'm a switch towards my partner. I love being submissive to her from time to time and when she takes care of me, but still, I'm probably more protective than any other guy when it's about a girl I really love. Don't mess with her or you end up in pieces.
Well, I don't know what you mean by submissive men, if you are talking about cowards, it's very strange they are.
If you mean that they lack positions of authority its very strange they are not.
As general rule, protector men comes with madurity more that with domination positions. Furthermore, there are many men who are submissive to their partner but are the ones who protect their children, their house and their family.
I know a case of a cuckolded man who supported all his family on his shoulders while the girl was looking for "alpha" men who were better (to her eyes) but didn't give anything for her or her children.
I think he is much more protector that her lovers, but may be she needs him to leave the relation and to see her alone with her children to appreciate what he does for her.A guy can be big and strong and able to beat people down, and at the same time be kinky and submissive to his girlfriend. Just because he is into that kind of stuff doesn't mean he has to be one of those small weak guys.
Just like when a girl is small and weak, that doesn't mean she can't be dominant over her boyfriend and smack him around.I’m told a fair number of powerful people are sexually submissive so I’d say people’s sexual preference doesn’t always match their normal persona.
If you’re talking about in general though it’s somwwhat different. But some people just avoid minor fights but are capable if it really matters. Some people try to demand their way all the time but crumble of its serious. So you need to be careful drawing conclusions.What is an Alpha male?
Being submissive doesn't mean unable to protect. Women tend to be submissive. Does that make them anything?It's not as if you have to beat people to death daily these days. Being big and aggresive will just end up putting you in more potentially dangerous situations, a submissive guy will avoid unesesary confrontations and use the legal system to deal with it. You can't really do anything most of the time anyways, people you would need protecting from make sure they outnumber or outgun the people they attack.
If the man is not signing paychecks and having everyone around him call him "Mister" or "Sir" all day, he's not an alpha, and it doesn't matter how stupidly macho he is or isn't.
So, what is "submissive"? Is it a man who doesn't push women around? Is it a man who doesn't abuse women?some submissive men are extraordinarily good protectors, cause they kind of use it as a vent, cause they have to be very strong and dominant otherwise, say in their career or whatever.
Most who claim to be 'Alpha's' are merely posers, actors and self-cheating individuals. Submissive men - I assume - aren't good protectors, but excellent providers/care-takers.
What do you mean by "submissive"?What do you need protection from? Police exist in your city right? Do you live in Somalia where there's no law?
It's possible, but it's definitely less likely to work out that way.
In my opinion, no. They'd be more likely hiding behind their girl during problems.
Dominant guys don't think twice about protecting their loved ones.I don't know. Western countries are full of them. Full of guys that can kick someone’s ass but can’t even utter the word no to a woman. I guess they can be.
The loud bullies usually aren't the best fighters in the room...
The Submissiveness people talk about is usuallly in the bedroom. So, yes it is possible.
The real question does he fight for what’s right?There is no alpha or beta male - you believe something that is untrue
Why would any man want to protect women. Women are the first people to throw men under the bus for whatever reason. Let the women defend themselves.
Push any man too far and you’ll see a spark in him, submissive men just have a higher threshold for it, and they still want to protect those they care about
I woudn't count on it. They fold fairly easy and most of the time they will take their bottled up aggression out on their woman.
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