Is it reasonable to not let my boyfriend go to parties or hang out with other girls without me? (Page 2)
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Nothing you can do will prevent him from cheating. Most cheaters will cheat at work during the day and at less obvious times. Although obviously they can cheat at anytime. If you can’t trust him then you have to let him go to be happy.
Well, they demonstrate that you are unable to trust him. That might well bite you on the ass sooner or later.
I don't blame you! I don't want my husband being around a bunch of hussies that will do their best to get into his pants. I'm just grateful that he trusts me, and loves me enough to let me go out without him!
The party part is totally fine, not counting family events, but not letting him hang out with friends is a bit far. What if they want to hang out and you're busy?
Thats fine as long as i have met them
Oh, yeah then i see no problem
I mean if my girl was going out partying with a bunch of guy friends, getting drunk without me, tbh if she was interested in doing that on any sort of a regular basis I wouldn't be dating her.
Well a big part of a relationship is trust you should be able to trust your boyfriend to spend hours alone with another girl and not have anything happen
No, if you trust him then he should be able to attend alone. If you can't trust him then break-up.
When will people quit acting like parrots. Bring out your natural reactions.
This is natural. If you don't feel secure then it is time to walk away. Your sposs to feel safe in your relationship.
Don't waste people's time. If you are not serious, then just stay away.
That's the point. Use your time finding someone who earases your fears not creates them. I spent many years with a man who created fears. Its not worth it. Walking away hurts but sometimes staying is worse then leaving.
to keep waiting for a perfect partner.
And giving up on relationships easily
And then people ask questions like "why divorce rates are increasing rapidly? "
Hypocrisy at the best
Hypocrisy, I haven't said anything about divorce rates. I also know many people who have been married for very long times and trust each other. Trust is essential in a relationship.
You don't understand it again
Maybe you are right but like I said trust is essential.
I never denied that. It's just not applicable here.
She don't trust him to go out alone.
I trust him to go out alone. Just not alone at drunk parties and meeting up with people i don't know
Exactly, so you dont trust him. Knowing he is 100% yours mean knowing he isn't interested in the girls at the parties
Enough with the bullshit already.
Trust is necessary but don't trust anyone blindly. .
If you dont have trust, you have nothing. You need to have communication. If he's gonna go out, and just ask him to tell you about it and what time he's coming home.
It's fine. These idiots in the comments are the ones who get cheated on and then claim my ex cheated on me. No boyfriend or he should be getting drunk with another sex.
No it is not. He is not your posession. And you are not his. If you cannot trust him you shouldn't be together.
Alienating someone from their friends is abusive behaviour.
No nothing wrong with that.
I wouldn't date a partier.
Because when you get drunk and high no telling what you do.
Your inhibitians leave and sexual urges can be very strong.
The question is more of "why would he want to" (all the time... once in a while is ok) . As for you, it's pretty basic: you're insecure and you don't trust him. You'll be breaking up soon.
Honestly yes, but a relationship does require trust in order to work out in the long run.
You can be worried, but if you pressure him too much, he might feel too locked up and try to distance himself, I've seen this happen more than once. People get scared thinking their freedom is at risk and they jump out.
You are setting an unreasonable standard based on lack of trust.
You have to be able to trust him, if there's a reason you can't trust him, then maybe you should rethink your relationship.
No no it is not reasonable let him do whatever he wants lol even let him to marry someone else , omg
If your boyfriend wants to cheat on you hea gonna do it, sure you might catch him but if he really looking for extra puss he will nail it. All your doing is making more work for yourself.
What I'm trying to say is no amount of watching him will prevent him from cheating your just put unnecessary strain on your relationship. Trust and understanding is the only way you two will last longer than a month
I don't think it is reasonable to try to stop your boyfriend attending parties.
He will feel restricted and will come to resent you. Give him a chance for you to trust him.
Too controlling. Either you trust him or you don't. If you do trust him, back off. If not, leave