Marriage since its existence NEVER was intended to give women the option to divorce out of boredom and get a house and alimony. Since we have implemented marriage laws in this way the divorce rate had skyrocketed. Women should not have that as an option and so id never marry a woman without a prenup. Man is head of the household, not woman, she should not have a nuclear button hanging over his head.
To be honest, they should be mandatory and fully enforceable. It would create a lot less stress in divorce.
Also, if a woman refused to sign one, it would make me feel like she was planning to leave me at some point and wanted my money. If she doesn't plan on leaving me, and loves me for me, she'd have no problems signing.
I definitely think everyone should get a prenup!!! You never know what life has in store and who will do what. I know a bunch of men and women whom end their marriage badly and end up screwing themselves up so definitely get a prenup
I don't support prenups. A prenup is like essentially saying you don't believe your relationship will last. If you want to set a safety net before getting married then maybe you should consider why you feel that way
Depends on when I met her. If we meet now. Probably would care I’m poor and she would know it. I’m doing some stuff that will probably make me a lot of moola. If we hook up when I have assets prenup is required. I don’t care what people say. Money is a factor. Chicks like money and security. I realize this so protective steps would be taken.
I don't disagree with them in principle, but they don't mean jack shit in the family and divorce courts anyway, so you may as well save yourself the drama of insisting on one...
It would seem sensible, i'd happily sign one. Protect each othets assets and allows a fair rational conversation about things, not waiting for the aftermath of the relationship and having emotions rule head
Getting a prenup in my opinion is loosing faith in your relationship when it has not been started in the first place. I'm an independent woman nd I don't need my husband paying me anything when the marriage doesn't exist.
Dont be so sexist lol I can make my own money, the reason i wouldn't is bc if someone asked for one it means they dont expect us to be together forever and I want my marriage to be forever
Don’t be an idiot it has nothing to do with sexism. But if you want to opt out with a -ism , -ist or -phobe suffix then go for it. Doesn’t make you right or socially superior
Definitely a safety net. I don’t care how it looks, I’m not fighting to keep stuff that‘s mine. It’s my way of making sure that I don’t get screwed over.
The only safety feature out there (for men) if you ever reconsider from having had enough of life and commit to suicidal slavery that we call marriage.
I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't know what will happen in the future. Future hubby may become an absolute dick and try to steal my shit.
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I will not get one. If my man ever decides to get one, my first thought was ‘sure’, but i realized why get married at all if you already believe its gonna go downhill anyway?
I disagree, divorces affect men the most, especially when they earn good money, a prenup is no more an assumption of something going wrong as a life insurance policy
Why isn't it romantic to want one? You are basically signing something that days you aren't with the person for their money. Marriage is basically a peace of paper that says you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. How is one good but the other bad? Besides most women initiate divorces, so a prenup only would come into play when she breaks the initial contract of marriage.
Most? Some might be more accurate, and women do it too. Additionally, I'm not sure there is anything in a wedding contract that says you can't cheat on them, so technically the women wanting a divorce is breaking thr contract.
Lol I personally think it's sad before people get married that they think about materials and whats gonna happen when they break up. Personally I think it could lead to the other half to knock you off ;) lol But that is just me :)
In a lot of states they're useless if a woman claims abuse, has kids or simply gets the right lawyer. As a man the best thing is either not get married or sign a marriage CONTRACT instead of actually getting married.
I think it's a set up to manipulate and play the one signing
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DON'T EVEN GET MARRIED! marriage is a terrible investment for a man, we get screwed in divorce even with a prenuptial it's not bullet proof, so if you don't want a women to have the complete legal ability to fuck you dry do not get married!
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Marriage since its existence NEVER was intended to give women the option to divorce out of boredom and get a house and alimony. Since we have implemented marriage laws in this way the divorce rate had skyrocketed. Women should not have that as an option and so id never marry a woman without a prenup. Man is head of the household, not woman, she should not have a nuclear button hanging over his head.
To be honest, they should be mandatory and fully enforceable. It would create a lot less stress in divorce.
Also, if a woman refused to sign one, it would make me feel like she was planning to leave me at some point and wanted my money. If she doesn't plan on leaving me, and loves me for me, she'd have no problems signing.
I definitely think everyone should get a prenup!!! You never know what life has in store and who will do what. I know a bunch of men and women whom end their marriage badly and end up screwing themselves up so definitely get a prenup
I don't support prenups. A prenup is like essentially saying you don't believe your relationship will last. If you want to set a safety net before getting married then maybe you should consider why you feel that way
Depends on when I met her. If we meet now. Probably would care I’m poor and she would know it. I’m doing some stuff that will probably make me a lot of moola. If we hook up when I have assets prenup is required. I don’t care what people say. Money is a factor. Chicks like money and security. I realize this so protective steps would be taken.
I don't disagree with them in principle, but they don't mean jack shit in the family and divorce courts anyway, so you may as well save yourself the drama of insisting on one...
It would seem sensible, i'd happily sign one. Protect each othets assets and allows a fair rational conversation about things, not waiting for the aftermath of the relationship and having emotions rule head
Getting a prenup in my opinion is loosing faith in your relationship when it has not been started in the first place. I'm an independent woman nd I don't need my husband paying me anything when the marriage doesn't exist.
I would never get one or married someone who wanted one
Exactly how else would you get to claim his property once it doesn’t work our
@Tslaveee bingo! They Love money and properties. Why work for it years long when you can get it legally handed to you 😉
Dont be so sexist lol I can make my own money, the reason i wouldn't is bc if someone asked for one it means they dont expect us to be together forever and I want my marriage to be forever
Don’t be an idiot it has nothing to do with sexism. But if you want to opt out with a -ism , -ist or -phobe suffix then go for it. Doesn’t make you right or socially superior
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@Tslaveee this is applicable nevertheless.
Prenuptial doesn't save your money, the other person just had to fine in a state that crucified the person with the most money.
Definitely a safety net. I don’t care how it looks, I’m not fighting to keep stuff that‘s mine. It’s my way of making sure that I don’t get screwed over.
The only safety feature out there (for men) if you ever reconsider from having had enough of life and commit to suicidal slavery that we call marriage.
No thank you.
I don't see anything wrong with it.
I don't know what will happen in the future. Future hubby may become an absolute dick and try to steal my shit.
I will not get one. If my man ever decides to get one, my first thought was ‘sure’, but i realized why get married at all if you already believe its gonna go downhill anyway?
I disagree, divorces affect men the most, especially when they earn good money, a prenup is no more an assumption of something going wrong as a life insurance policy
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Anything else is being stupid.
Why isn't it romantic to want one? You are basically signing something that days you aren't with the person for their money. Marriage is basically a peace of paper that says you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. How is one good but the other bad? Besides most women initiate divorces, so a prenup only would come into play when she breaks the initial contract of marriage.
@ec12321 women earn good money.
@nathanp97 most men cheat on their wives. So?
Most? Some might be more accurate, and women do it too. Additionally, I'm not sure there is anything in a wedding contract that says you can't cheat on them, so technically the women wanting a divorce is breaking thr contract.
@nathanp97 and men want divorces too
Ya, but it is predominantly women ending it and the man being forced to pay for his ex.
Also why are you only focusing on the last part of my comment and not the initial part?
It is a wise decision to get one. If your partner feels insulted, she's not the one you'll want to marry.
It can be voided in court simply by the woman saying she signed it under duress.
Don't get married, there is no reason to get the government involved in your relationship.
Lol I personally think it's sad before people get married that they think about materials and whats gonna happen when they break up. Personally I think it could lead to the other half to knock you off ;) lol But that is just me :)
In a lot of states they're useless if a woman claims abuse, has kids or simply gets the right lawyer. As a man the best thing is either not get married or sign a marriage CONTRACT instead of actually getting married.
I think it's a set up to manipulate and play the one signing
DON'T EVEN GET MARRIED! marriage is a terrible investment for a man, we get screwed in divorce even with a prenuptial it's not bullet proof, so if you don't want a women to have the complete legal ability to fuck you dry do not get married!