I like my girl to be in good shape. That may include love handles, as I want her in good shape, but she doesn't need to be in perfect shape. I especially want her to be healthy, and to keep in good enough shape to be healthy.
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of course not... if you really love her, you love all of her
It's refreshing to see how many guys don't mind a big girl. ^.^ preference is key.
My bae likes it that i have a chubby tummy. I dont like it but 😣.
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I prefer minimal flab. But it's not a turn off either. Definitely not a deal breaker.
Not ideal, but I can work with it. What I can't work with are the kinds of women described in Romans 1. No matter how pretty they are, if they go to stupid lengths to twist my words, twist a knife in me, and act like their outrage at the words she herself twisted makes her righteous to hurt me, even as she gives me no chance to defend myself from being labeled the villain...
That, is a woman I can't work with, no matter how pretty her body is. Psycho feminists are everywhere today, unfortunately. If only all of them looked like toads.
And no, I'm not accusing anyone in this thread. This has happened to me many times on Facebook, DeviantArt, and Instagram.Girl, love your shape. The edge of a curvy woman over someone who's slim is that they offer more, if you know what I mean.. boobs and butt, although it may come with a chubby belly. My tip for those curvy girls is to eat healthy so that they will lose the belly, keep their asset and accentuate their waist. No need to be slim. Guys have different preferences. Don't get me wrong, a slim figure is admirable because you can pull off any clothes. We girls should just stop comparing and competing with one another because you know what, the right guy will love you not only for your body but for the whole package.
Someone's garbage is someone else's treasure.
I always hated my legs, they went from thick to chubby and are definitely nothing beautiful to look at.
My husband seems to love how they feel like though, especially now that it's warm and I wear shorts at home. He says so quite often.i dont like t at all, but then we are our own worst critic.
my boyfriend loves it = i was actually talking to him about it yesterday because I got called fat and disgusting :(
He said "thats just one persons opinion, a dn your man isn't complaing at all" Made me feel a whole lot betterLove handles are my weakness. A little belly is cute sometimes
Flabby legs? not too big of a deal eitherI personally prefer a girl with a bit of meat on.. so I'm gonna say definitely not a turn off 😍
Unpopular opinion, but a massive amount of flab will never be as attractive as a flat/toned/close to flat stomach.
love handles are cute... there is a line though lol
Weight can sometimes be controlled. However not always so. For me personally no I don't mind because it's all about personality.
In an ideal world she would just have a perfect body. Does that answer the question?
If she has deep soulful eyes, and a happy smile, and laughs at my terrible attempts of humour, a few extra pounds dont matter
Later in life, after a few kids, I would mind it, but in general it is a turn off.
we all have some part of our body we hate mine is a toe that I hurt in an acident so I can't say bad things about others problem spots but most guys dont even like their bodies looking that way
I don't mind at all, i'm 34 and omen my age have had kids, have busy lives, I care more about what they do with their bodies than what they look like!
I wouldn’t call it a turn off so much as “not preferred at all”. I could still love her, especially if she was trying to exercise it off.
Is she’s as pudgy as the girl in the pic that’s a turn off but a little fluffiness is ok 🤣 better that than a six pack that looks manly
That picture looks yucky.
I could not stand having that much fat, but everyone is different in what they like.I would prefer if there were not here, but it's not the end of the world, I can handle it. Honestly, it depends mainly on the body she has in the first place.
Men on this app are shallow but want women who aren't as shallow as them. Thank god the men I know in real life aren't this dumb.
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