Guys, do you mind love handles, muffin tops, flabby legs on your lady love? Or is it a turn off?

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markscott · Accepted Answer

I like my girl to be in good shape. That may include love handles, as I want her in good shape, but she doesn't need to be in perfect shape. I especially want her to be healthy, and to keep in good enough shape to be healthy.

JustWorthlessMe · Accepted Answer

of course not... if you really love her, you love all of her

Anjie2218 · Accepted Answer

It's refreshing to see how many guys don't mind a big girl. ^.^ preference is key.

Ankitasingh466 · Accepted Answer

My bae likes it that i have a chubby tummy. I dont like it but 😣.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

I prefer minimal flab. But it's not a turn off either. Definitely not a deal breaker.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Not ideal, but I can work with it. What I can't work with are the kinds of women described in Romans 1. No matter how pretty they are, if they go to stupid lengths to twist my words, twist a knife in me, and act like their outrage at the words she herself twisted makes her righteous to hurt me, even as she gives me no chance to defend myself from being labeled the villain...

That, is a woman I can't work with, no matter how pretty her body is. Psycho feminists are everywhere today, unfortunately. If only all of them looked like toads.

And no, I'm not accusing anyone in this thread. This has happened to me many times on Facebook, DeviantArt, and Instagram.

candygirl_9847 · Answer

Girl, love your shape. The edge of a curvy woman over someone who's slim is that they offer more, if you know what I mean.. boobs and butt, although it may come with a chubby belly. My tip for those curvy girls is to eat healthy so that they will lose the belly, keep their asset and accentuate their waist. No need to be slim. Guys have different preferences. Don't get me wrong, a slim figure is admirable because you can pull off any clothes. We girls should just stop comparing and competing with one another because you know what, the right guy will love you not only for your body but for the whole package.

dipta · Answer

Someone's garbage is someone else's treasure.

I always hated my legs, they went from thick to chubby and are definitely nothing beautiful to look at.
My husband seems to love how they feel like though, especially now that it's warm and I wear shorts at home. He says so quite often.

ariadneR · Answer

i dont like t at all, but then we are our own worst critic.
my boyfriend loves it = i was actually talking to him about it yesterday because I got called fat and disgusting :(
He said "thats just one persons opinion, a dn your man isn't complaing at all" Made me feel a whole lot better

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

Love handles are my weakness. A little belly is cute sometimes Flabby legs? not too big of a deal either

GhenkisKhan · Answer

I personally prefer a girl with a bit of meat on.. so I'm gonna say definitely not a turn off 😍

VaIiant · Answer

Unpopular opinion, but a massive amount of flab will never be as attractive as a flat/toned/close to flat stomach.

bananathunder · Answer

love handles are cute... there is a line though lol

Bmories99 · Answer

Weight can sometimes be controlled. However not always so. For me personally no I don't mind because it's all about personality.

OfDeath · Answer

In an ideal world she would just have a perfect body. Does that answer the question?

Drumlin2001 · Answer

If she has deep soulful eyes, and a happy smile, and laughs at my terrible attempts of humour, a few extra pounds dont matter

truthbeknown · Answer

Later in life, after a few kids, I would mind it, but in general it is a turn off.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

we all have some part of our body we hate mine is a toe that I hurt in an acident so I can't say bad things about others problem spots but most guys dont even like their bodies looking that way

s_bored · Answer

I don't mind at all, i'm 34 and omen my age have had kids, have busy lives, I care more about what they do with their bodies than what they look like!

clampfan101 · Answer

I wouldn’t call it a turn off so much as “not preferred at all”. I could still love her, especially if she was trying to exercise it off.

Dolemite510 · Answer

Is she’s as pudgy as the girl in the pic that’s a turn off but a little fluffiness is ok 🤣 better that than a six pack that looks manly

Shutupman · Answer

That picture looks yucky. I could not stand having that much fat, but everyone is different in what they like.

YHL6965 · Answer

I would prefer if there were not here, but it's not the end of the world, I can handle it. Honestly, it depends mainly on the body she has in the first place.

yourfavperson · Answer

Men on this app are shallow but want women who aren't as shallow as them. Thank god the men I know in real life aren't this dumb.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nope i don't mind Women with love handles, muffin tops, flabby legs , not turn off with me.

shellaccount · Answer

If I can handle not overeating and becoming fat, so should she. Lifestyle compatibility.

rshade · Answer

There is a difference between all of these, and just being fat. It really depends

Dragonstarterplus · Answer

"Love handles" "Muffin tops" "Flab" The word you are searching for is "fat," and no I don't like fat arms or fat stomachs or fat legs or fat anything else

OrangeBoy2 · Answer

For some reason muffin tops are sexy to me. But I'm equally OK, if she doesn't have them.

Dark93 · Answer

It's not a deal breaker, but I prefer a slimmer figure on a woman.

Zerstörer · Answer

I would need to see what im talking about before i make any judgements

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

From a health stand point it is not healthy but I love my flabby, giggly, saggy girlfriend.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

I have them myself that I am trying to get rid of. I could work out together.

jonesjessica812 · Answer

Yes, that's disgusting. she's got to take care of herself

Thatswhyimhere · Answer

I want a lady to be happy with who she is but good judgment in dress attire is important.

matt200501 · Answer

Nope there is nothing wrong with it, personally I like it

LawrenceKen · Answer

Disgusting, subhuman.  Women who are overweight should be placed in zoos or aquariums.

Shorrey · Answer

Visually - a turn off.

DanishSaint · Answer

Nope. I don´t mind at all :)

Ev1lMindedSoul · Answer

Love them, simply more to love

Zionknight · Answer

It depends on the level of fat

DamnSam · Answer

Im into big girls, so there is no problem for me

worldscolide · Answer

Not a turn off. If she looks like the above.

AdithyaR · Answer

I'd prefer an athletic partner like myself.

ForbesMagazine · Answer

I have no problem with it.

Vesta · Answer

It's not a turn off, but it's not a turn on

lernulo · Answer

It isn't a turn on, but it isn't a red flag

Jerre · Answer

Not a turn off at all

NightOwl8801 · Answer

Not at all, I accept a woman as she is

Deep_Mind · Answer

No not until it hits obesity levels.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

No offense, but it is a turn off

reptocarl · Answer

Couldn’t care less

jimmy2 · Answer

Could be but in 90 days i could get it off her

needadvice1245 · Answer

Size 12 to 16s perfect for me so yeah I love it

Max_SS · Answer

Turn off

Sevenpointfive · Answer

that's disgusting. please don't apply

Juxtapose · Answer

I kinda like it actually..

vince999 · Answer

Hard to say everyone is different

Lance1965 · Answer

No, not a turn off.

monkeynutts · Answer

Big no.

Bluemagnolia29 · Answer

Not at all.

legalboxers · Answer

cute to me

John1217 · Answer

Love natural curves

damaster · Answer

I wouldn't mind it

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