You've been together for two years, its kind of normal for you to have sex at that point. Its embarrassing, but I don't think he is going to hate you (probably be upset you guys didn't lock the door but that's about it). He is older so its not like he doesn't know how all of this works so I don't think it came as a shock to him (unless he is very puritanical). So if you want to you can joke about or apologize for the situation, otherwise just move on.
Sex is not so novel a thing to his dad as it is to you. he's been having sex for a long time. He may well have had people walk in on him.
Even if he did have issue with it. You gotta keep in mind. That people have sex. We are sexual creatures. Its perfectly natural. And nothing to be ashamed of.
So try not to. If you can. I know easier said than done.
But I say, hild your head high. And act as if all is well. Because it is.
No! He understands that it happened on accident and if you want you can just tell him that you're sorry he had to see that. Am pretty sure he doesn't hate you unless he made a rule that you guys can't have sex. Plus, believe me, Brown moms are even worse. I hope this image helps you feel better and grateful knowing that things could have been far worse.
Clearly you're feeling self conscious and maybe even embarrassed about the whole situation. I'm much older and probably more bold so I would just honestly say "hey sorry about the other night, it was super ackward.. but next time could you make sure to knock?" Lol. Also... Lock your door.
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Just act normal around him. He's cool with it.
Don't try to avoid him. That would be disrespectful and awkward. And how can he hate you? He's 99% happy about it. His son is getting laid, he's happy, you're happy, it's all good. And like others have said, he most likely knew that you two have been doing this... just not at that moment. I'm sure he didn't mean to walk in on you. So it's alright. Pretend that he never saw it and behave the way you always did. That's the best thing to do.
Just act normal. If you ignore him, it will just make things continue to be awkward, and keep alive the issue of him walking in. If you act normally, it will soon fade away. The issue will only be a big as you make it, and last for as long as you make it last.
Oh you don't need to avoid him honey
Its a little awkward yeah but he understands as well and he must have gone through it all
So its absolutely fine you should be comfortable and confident when meeting him next i am sure he won't even bring this ip
You shouldn't avoid him, since he's going to be in your life until/if you break up with your boyfriend. If you honestly feel bad about it, just talk to his dad. That's the best thing to do, if you feel like you have the nerve to. Also, may I suggest that the next time you're in the room, and having sex, that you LOCK THE DOOR. Is there a policy in your boyfriend's dads house that if you're over, he can't have the door locked?
I don't care, I'm just putting a rhetorical question in my answer, to get you thinking...
I know how you feel. You aren't stupid. I felt embarrassed also when my friends with benefits told his cousins that we had sex. Just act like nothing ever happened. Laugh it off lol. It should make you feel better.
Just bring it up the next time you see him when all three of you are together. Be direct about it. Say you're sorry and then hopefully you all will just laugh it off and that will be it. Then you can move on with no more awkwardness. I mean, the cat's already out of the bag at this point anyway.
If his dad is ignoring it you should too. My mom heard my girlfriend and I having sex. She said to just play music or something to drown it out. Since she didn't care that we were doing it, we just continue on as normal. Her mom knows we are having sex as well and I have talked to her openly about it. It's only as big of a deal as either of you make it. If his dad isn't making a big deal about it, you can do the same and it won't be hard for you to be completely normal with him.
This isn’t as uncommon as some people seem to think it is. Yeah it’s a little awkward, and he’s probably just as embarrassed as you, but I seriously doubt he hates you. I’d just try to act normal and eventually everyone will move on.
No.. you need not to avoid him. He just saw something that he was already aware of n had no problem with that. N when your boyfriend says it's fine then you need not to worry cuz he knows his dad better than you.
Your boyfriend needs to pay for a hotel room. It's not fair to his dad.
If you've been together for two years, he probably already assumed you were having sex, just obviously didn't realize you were at that exact moment, he's probably just as embarrassed as you are tbh. Just act like nothing happened.
Relax, he surely understands completely. He definitely doesn't hate because what you did is normal and you've been with his son for a long time. Relax :)
Is it embarrassing sure. Is it something to avoid him over no. His dad is most likely proud his boy is getting some action
I am pretty sure he fucked his girlfriend in his room when he was younger... mom walked in on me and he may have had a similar experience. Anyway, he doesn’t care because it is his son, not his daughter. You are good.
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his dad is an adult, it will feel awkward but I mean his dad made him so he knows about this stuff
Does he not approve? If he does then there's no reason to feel embarrassed. Whether he sees it or not he knows you'd be having sex every now and again. It does not sound like he cared either.
No! I know it’s going to feel awkward for a while he’ll eventually get over it I wouldn’t avoid him act like nothing happened
My ex's mom once walked in on is, but we left the door open I don't know why, didn't think anyone was coming and she walked in abd didn't say anything and walked out haha her mom didn't say anything about it to her either so i guess it's fine lol
That feeling of embarrassment is normal
You will get over it with time.
Your boyfriend and his Dad probably are already over it 😂
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