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Should I date a guy with money problems? (Page 2)
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The fact you have to go to the internet to answer that shows you do not possess the ability to make good life choices so when you decide do the exact opposit.
Only if you will never get bored of paying for him, maybe down the road he can talk you into co signing a car or something then he can ruin your credit to!!
If he doesn’t have a job, do not date him. He will expect you to provide for him all of the time.
Consider additional issues
I have the opposite problem.
As a Male you don't have to supply everything but he should be able to at least handle himself before attempting to get in a relationship because he has to pick up certain roles to comfort you as his partner
Depents if you really love him, if he has big money problems, leave him. If small problems and you like him, see if you can help him, not with money but get him earn better/more.
What if he ask for money
Give him lecture first see if he can change
If he doesn't change then he doesn't love you enough to change
Then move on... that the only option
Lectures don't work on poor people. They hear it (psychologically) all day long, every day, from every possible source of information... I mean, if you want to blend in with the background static, by all means, chime right in...
If she make him choose between her or this?
You lost me. Between her or static? That's an easy one. He'd choose her, but resent the choice subconsciously because it was forced under duress. Ideally, he would choose her regardless of what she says about money (yea or nay), and say something like, "Wow, this is really cool! How do WE want to spend it?"
So what you saying is even if he choose her
He will follow his bad debt?
Umm... 😅 I'm an American, so I'm unfamiliar with the concepts that don't involve bad debt *following you* around like the plague, which is why everyone's supposed to be trained to avoid it.
(But it's like dodgeball, having a bank account or jail time; you can be sitting in the bleachers, riding shotgun or as a benchwarmer and still get nailed by it.)
Usually the only times debts and relationships get tangled are when people get legally married, or cosign on a loan or something for relatives, or in estate proceedings (which are by far the ugliest part of a bandsaw economy/"efficiency" legal environment)
(As far as I know; I'm not in finance, and I only know what I hear from [usually the drunk & despondent, tbh] the "'folks around town", but compounded over a few cycles)
Ohhhh
If you love a man, then you would love him whether he is rich or poor. Money should never factor in how much you love somebody.
He needs to have a plan, though. You can't be with someone who is perpetually in debt.
Lol. ok.
You shouldn't date PERIOD until you've read 'SEX AT DAWN' by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan.
Better with money problems, than with more problems.
Yes.. Depneds on what he did with it.. Some men arnt scumbags...
I have my boyfriend $300 for his rent
Not a problem.. What were your boundaries?
He also asked me to take a loan out for him
Dont do it...
Its all about give and take... What has he done with the 300..
Paid his rent
What are you his cash cow.. Lol.. I can take his loan from you invest and get better return.. Just confront no loan unless it goes to were you say.. Think about what you are posting..
I thought i was helping him out
You were, its your cash, and your life.. Relationships are built upon end results.. Thinks as you post..
So what’s the problem?
Nothing its your cash $$$ Do as you wish..
I think that the debt is not the problem here but that he is not fixing it
He’s not fixing it
Maybe you can talk to him and understand him more
I already gave him $300
Wait what? You have him money? Why would you do that?
Because he needed it
I don't think you should give money to him
If he is not fixing it
don't give money to him
He should also try to fix it himself
Big red light of no. He will drag you down and mooch off of you
He already asked for a loan of $160
Hopefully you didn't give him it. He needs to work on it himself without being codependent on anyone
I gave him $300 dollars last month🤦🏼♀️
Don't expect to ever see that money again
🤦🏼♀️
Unfortunately, that's a lifelong habit. Just realize that you'll be dealing with his bad financial habits as long as you are with him.
Depends what are you looking for money or love? If its money you seek then of course not he's clearly in a bad place if its love you seek then what the hell does money even matter?
I personally wouldn’t. I dated a guy who was very financially unstable and I ended up providing for him and lend him money which he never returned back till this day.
If you pick guys for financial reasons then definitely not. If you don't then still probably not xD
No because he gon keep asking you for money. He need his own shit
Meh, no. I got 99 problems already so pls dont make it to 100
No. You shouldn't date him. Because Money problems will always cause tension between you two. You'll regret it later.
Nope. You must not value yourself much if you would date a man like that.
That's your call if it were me I wouldn't because he's not trying to fix his financial problems
Being in debt is not the problem itself but not trying to change his financial state is!
if you want a future with him be prepared to inherit his dept
No. Why? You want to date someone who has their shit together, no?
Depends on the problem but mostly, mid you like him, his financial situation for the most part should be completely irrelevant
This just proves women don’t love men they love a mans resources
1. That's bullshit 2. Thats also wrong because not all women use guys for resources and if a guy has a bad amount of debt and isn't choosing to fix it it could result in problems financially in a relationship especially if they move in with each other or have a kid or get married
@Hopelover_2_Shelby why can't a woman provide for once?
@morrowlow I know all these women go on and on about feminism and equality yet they still want to be taken care of and they want rich men and then they get mad when a guy wants a hot girl, I just shake my head
can't disagree with that
Actually its half and half some women do provide but sometime the guy just uses it for whatever he wants instead of bills and shit they need
Some guys think smart and help out tho
Yorumlar you’re so right! I totally agree, how dare a woman want financial security!, we should only date broke men, and suffer instability to prove our humanity. Men are totally allowed to want the prettiest woman they can get, but a woman should never crave for a guy with a good job
@dalibara it’s well known guys have pretty low standards when it comes to looks for girl but guys have to be in the top 20% for a girl to even consider them. That’s why when I hear a women say there are no men left what she really means Is that all the rich guys are taken now I have no guys to take money from
You’re truly delusional and negative because I have seen plenty of women dating men who are less attractive and who earn less money than them. This girl who posted the questions is one of them. Guys also complain to be rejected by women who are out of their league in the look area, cause an average guy will always try to get an attractive girl, and the average girl is always accosted by ugly guys or creeps, and sadly it’s more usual to see a pretty girl with a below average dude even if they have the same paycheck than the opposite. But ofc guys will still complain and whine the moment when a woman will start to have some standards
@dalibara U r so right some guys and some girls are very inconsiderate it goes both ways but honestly this dude seem to be one
Only if you truly like HIM, not what he's going through right now
U want a date or money?
Eh um no.
i would walk away
Yeah. Just don’t co-sign anything for him.
Yeah do it life lesson for ya
As a companion yes. Date him no.
He should get his life in order before dating.
Depends on the situation
What if he’s asking for money
Dump his ass
Why?
You can't afford to keep paying his way
sounds like a leech with no life goals.
Only if his problem is getting rid of it
Yes you should date a guy with money problems
Nope, you shouldn't go near him.
Why? Or did you think you could 'fix' him?
Date him, sure. There's no commitment with dating
Mo money, mo problems
Date? Sure. Don’t give him any cash though
yu can help him by giving him some tips
Tips are for bartenders.
😂😂😂
Nope. Life's too short for that
Nope it's normal to want a stable guy
yes why not but not if he's gambler or in dept
Nope you shouldn't.
A man without money is like a girl without looks
Nope. He's a loser.
Just like you
@crazy8000 disss 😂😆
Nope. Next.
I wouldn’t, but that’s me personally!
Would you expect a guy to date you with no money?
hmmmmmmmmmmmm
Great answer! 🤣
@nealwilliams224 lmfao yes
Nah dont do it
Nope
if you love him stay, if you don’t then go lol
Not good, move on
Probably not.
no...