Ladies, do you want a "Yes" man? Guys, are you a "Yes" man?

[Pinay_ako]

One woman said she wants her man a "Yes" man. Meaning when she says "Jump", he asks "How High"?

[DepressedBean]

It depends on the scenario. I had an ex-boyfriend in high school who always agreed with me on things but behind my back, had a different opinion. "I love vanilla ice cream!" "Me too, its my favorite!" (Him to someone else that day) "I hate vanilla ice cream. Butterscotch is actually the best." Also, he'd take us out for dates, then gossip calling me a diva with high standards when I didn't ask/expect to go on dates or anything, he'd just offer and I'd be like "yeah boi, I love food/doing certain activity!" I'd rather have an honest boyfriend than a yes man. There's more of a connection and you don't feel like the relationship has been a lie. Relationships are best when there's an equal effort.

[dancing_in_nebulas]

Fuuuuck nooooo.

I'm pretty confident, so it helps to have someone who pushes you to stay realistic and improve.

I can not stand watching men back down from over controlling, rude, bitchy, bratty, spoiled, diva ass little girls - who can't do anything, barely work or even shower.

Some women just need to be slapped with a big, rugged, stfu man-hand.

I don't take his bull, and I certainly dont expect a dude to take mine

[Dextrosis]

I determine a person's wants by how positively or negatively people emotionally to a person's behavior or attitude.

When it comes to sharing the physical and mental workload, pull your weight and when she asks for help do it.

But otherwise my experience taught me even if a yes man is what she asks for or expects that's not what makes her happy, and that's my job.

Women tend to get bored of yes men and go looking for something else.

Fellas, please your woman and respect yourselves and find ways to excite and impress your woman on your own terms.

[holograph]

I have no interest in women that think that way. That's entitlement. It's highly selfish, immature and unattractive in a person (of any gender). I honestly don't think yes men (or yes women) could make good partners, anyway. They don't have any confidence.

[jennifer_bloom]

I want a guy who is both confident and opinionated but also responsible and friendly - a yes man that is bold and strong - yes - a yes man that has no self love or love for others - no.

[SteveSmith1985]

Haha, i am SO not a "yes" man. I'm a think for myself and tell you what i think kinda of guy. Definitely not a "yes man"

[SeattleSkyline]

Man or woman; each should embrace finding someone that pushes them to grow and balances them out with the occasional "no", or expectation for you to explain your rationalization for your choices. Someone wanting a "Yes" person in their life is directly linked to being someone that lacks self-confidence, which is a huge turn off.

[Dreagon]

I guess it depends on what we're talking about. I don't like conflict so if she wants to do something and I don't have a strong preference for something I most likely will agree to do what she wants. But when it's about something I feel very strongly about, positively or negatively, I'm very stubborn.

[sweetielittlegirl]

No, i like guys who has their own opinions and anyone deserve to do what he want, not to be a slave. When some told you to do something or just told you how to act infront of people or different situation, and try to change your lifestyle or even you, thats not a good sign. A '' YES'' man for me is someone without personality.

[daliah]

Fuck no! I don't want a puppy I want a man who does what HE sees right not let me control him like a baby. I honestly don't know what some women find attractive in men who are just like toys like do you want to date/marry him or babysit him?

What I like is a man who is neither a yes man nor a no man but a guy who has a brain inside his head and knows how to use it.

[SarahsSummer]

err, no. I often rely on my guy to make decisions for us both and to have all the pressure on me to do so, I dont think that would work well for either of us.

[bklynbadboy1]

Nah I could never be that a yes man is week and no woman wants that although they'll never admit it. See the key is to find that balance you want to be that manly man that takes charge but you can't be to dominate you have to know when to give your woman her way that why you have to learn your mate. I hope all the guys are reading this I just gave you the keys to that car dont abuse it... Lol

[ariadneR]

Hell no.
He has to have his own mind, own opinions.

[TavionRiley]

I will never ever be a Yes Man it's not just about her it's about me as well relationships fall because they are one-sided when you when you are in a relationship it's not just about her it's not just about him it's about both of y'all if you cannot become on agreement with it it is it relevant

[Smiley_face101]

No!
Thats not a man.
A man needs to be assertive

[CapitalDelta]

I'd prefer a "why" man. I like when people question things instead of blindly follow orders.

[Longyanyar]

That's the point

[Passinggas]

We all have some amount of “yes” ass kissing in us. Usually, when I first meet a new girl and she has some hormonal hooks in me, I catch myself jumping for her. I hate when I do it but I eventually begin to govern myself.

[dropkicknj13]

I guess I am. There are certainly things I'm not gonna do but most things aren't an issue for me, and I'm pretty concerned with keeping my girl happy, so if she asks me to do something I just do it since I dont mind anyway.
I'm not lazy so when it's stupid mundane things like "can you get me a blanket?" I see no reason not to do it.

[BadApple1]

I am not a yes man but I will listen and if the request is reasonable of course I would do it... a happy wife means a happy life.

[fulloflife]

I like this

[BALLERINA297]

No I want someone who will tell me No some times and tell me when I’m wrong or erational and challenge me or put me in my place. yes all the time would be boring.

[z3lda]

No, I don’t want that. I want someone who can speak his mind and tell me when he disagrees with me respectively. I have a friend who is a yes man and it’s very irritating to me. It feels so fake because everything I say she agrees with!

[SirRexington]

I have always gotten in trouble for asking too many questions, refusing to do something or choosing to do it a different way.

I'm certainly not a "yes" man. If anything I'm too much of a "nah" man.

[LeeLadDaBadLad]

When a lady tells me to jump I simply reply I would however it's no fun if I make things easy for you 😂😂

[Spiritwander]

Nah... I'm more of the type that when she says "Jump!" I ask, "What for? I'm already 6'4"! Do you need that top shelf again?"😅