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Do guys only see me as an object? (Page 2)
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Not at all. You look like an angel. It's just you are unlucky with guys you met, well for the moment. Time will bring a good one. Don't get carried away by their flaws.
You aren't young anymore and still single, people will do that. I am not saying it's good. All I am saying is that it is natural.
She's NOT YOUNG anymore... at 34, are you SERIOUS?
I dont think it's my age. I'm not over the hill yet haha. It's been this way always.
You're definitely not over the hill yet by a long way lol
Thank you. X
Anytime :) X
I agree. If you're talking to men around your age its no surprise. Most men your age only want sex from someone at your age. Try late forties and older if you want men to want more than sex from you.
Yeah! I am serious. She is old!
You're just slightly older than a teenager!
So what?
Does that sound as ridiculous as her being old at 34?
It's the truth. I am not a teen anymore. She's an old lady.
You're still a young boy at 20
I know but she's not. She is in her 30s.
When you're in your 30#s you'll have the same attitude when people say you are old. Trust me, I remember when I was 20
I can assure you. There's a difference between having a young heart and having a young body. She might be having a young heart but she is an old body.
And my old body was with a 22 year old until recently. Believe me darling I'm not old yet.
We do love MILF and mature women but your problem isn't hooking up, it's being in a relationship. If you want hookup, you can surely ride the cock carousel for a long period of time.
And that is the reason for my post. Immature boys who want to ride a milf. I was in a relationship for longer than you have been around. And I dont do "hookups". I was with my last ex 3 years and chose to be single again which is how I'm staying. The reason for my post is that guys dont get that i want a friend and happen to get in with men more. I'm no milf and would definitely not go down the road of men in their 20's again. You have a lot of growing up to do. You think you know it all now believe me you dont even know it all in your 30's.
I know that you're single and not happy. And certainly, guys don't care about talk nowadays. I think you know that too. On the topic of friendship, good luck. Let me give you an advice, most guys don't give a fuck. And with mgtow nowadays, more don't give fucks. You are old. Accept it.
Yeah he's right. This day and age any dude who is got some things going for him is either going to wife some virgin 18 year old or keep about 3 or 4 girls on call. Why tf would a man bother being in a relationship with an older woman? There is no need to ever do that. Maybe if she's in her 30s like you she would be a prize to a 60 year old? Thats my best guess.
You are a object to 80% of men
I hope the other 20% is out there still lol
They are just be patient and remember wolves come in sheep's clothing
I didn't find one till late 20s
I feel time is running out. I just wasted 3 years on an abusive relationship haha. I need time to heel from that.
I know I'm sorry 😞
Don't look and they will pop up🌷
Thays the plan..:-) taking time for me and trying not to think of the age thing
I get better 😏
Thank you. Xx
Anytime
I'm sorry but you don't like the kind of woman men would fantasize about so if guys see you as an object and want to have sex with you be proud
I dont feel proud to be an object tbh. I'd rather people took the time to know my mind and my soul. I'm aware I am not like the pretty girls guys fantasize about. I'm just trying to fine platonic relationships.
You don't look easy.
You are gorgeous though!
Thank you. X good to get some female opinions on this.
You're very welcome and I mean it, you are!
That's very kind. X
Just being honest! X
@klara68114 i'd love to talk with you but I can't
I dont quite understand this app yet.
Ok, no problem
You can Follow me if you want then I can Follow you back
Depends. Do you present yourself as one? Do you have anything else to offer than your looks?
Depends how you carry yourself. If you act like you dont have a back bone then they'll take whatever they can get away with , with you.
Do you have an occupation that may suggest such things?
I work in facilities management dealing with national accounts. Have my own home and bring in my own money. I dress smart and not at all revealing. So no I dont think my occupation would suggest anything other than hard work and independence.
Your really cute but your not a object. Maybe you should stop messing with guys that make you feel that way. Not good for your health sweetheart
You are beautiful but your only mistake is that you make guys see you like you are easy to win and they just use you like you don't have emotions.
How do I. make it harder? How can I make it look like I'm not easy to get?
Nope. I see you as klara68114
That's good. :-) I like to be seen as me. :-)
I don't know... then again, everyone is an object to me
Either you or these guys have poor conversation skills.
can u hold a good conversation?
I would like. to think with the right person yes.
cool what do u prefer to talk about?
do u pm?
I can pm. Happy to talk about most subjects.
pm me :D
@klara68114
pm me or follow me lets chat :D
You don't look easy no. You're quite beautiful tho.
You don't have to look easy for horny net geeks to perve.
Just horns guys with no manners, distance your self from them.
Definitely not, although It really depends on how do you show yourself to others.
I'd like to know how others see me. I dont dress revealing and I dont throw myself at people. I try to be friendly I act the same with men and women. If I like someone I tend to be very open about it. Apart form saying to every man in talk to that indont want sex, I dont know how to set the boundaries like everyone else seems to be able to.
I'd say you're behaving in a way that really doesn't show yourself as an object. But bear in mind that some men are stupid enough to see you that way, even if you don't give them any reason to.
Just be yourself, don't worry too much about how people see you, as long as they respect you and treat you the way you want to be treated, and if a person treats you differently from that just keep your distance.
You seem to be a good person, don't let others change that.
Very true indeed. Thank you x
Anytime!
why would I see u as an object and they might just be shy
No but most guys are leaning towards sex opinated questions
You are so normal and cute.. they are sick and need a treatment
you have a cunt between your legs you are an object
and I have a question for you object
how else are we suppose to look at prostitutes?
love how i am being honest but people hate me
and deny reality
How else is a guy supposed to see you as? Women serve one purpose: as a place for guys to blow our loads. And at your post-Wall age, you're luck guys even still see THAT in you.
Rarely have I read anything as stupid as this.
Pathetic guys like this are the reason for the post and the reason why most women have low self worth. Also since when was 34 old? Baffles me.
Well I suppose in the middle age when people died around the age of 50, I'll say 34 was old then. But today, it not old at all.
When the child birthing days are over, we can start talking about being old, until then naaa.
Still life in me yet haha
Women hit The Wall around age 30. Some as low as 27, some can stretch it to 33. But they ALL hit The Wall, and it is merciless.
And what do you believe happens to the woman when they hit this "wall".
SMV drops like a rock. Baby rabies kicks into overdrive. Desperation to snag a beta-wallet shoots through the roof.
Lmao. Wow. I need to catch up. if all that is supposed to be happening to me.
It's ok you will. grow up soon and see what a real woman is. Until then continue on the runescape quest to reality..:-)
Sounds like your are a MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way), a kind of male version of feminazi type?
Haha very much so.
@Kiara68114. I just calls them as I sees them, sugar tits.
A true internet troll :)
Can you have sugar tits when you are "over the hill" haha
@klara68114 I was being nice.
@smølf Go away, Captain Sav-A-Ho. You look stupid.
@JamesRandiDebates I'll rather look stupid, than sound and behave stupid as you do.
@smølf Go away, douchebag
Smooth
@JamesRandiDebates Now you are being offensive, so our communication ends here.
34, aren't you with your life partner yet?
Don't make people feel bad if they're not in the place where you think they should be in life!
I have a long back story as most my age do. Long and shot of it, I was with my life partner and now I'm not. We were getting married and now I'm single. Bad choices and lessons learnt.
You look adorable ^.^
I see you like a beautiful flower
I see you as a person.
You are just attracting the wrong guys.
Look like a nice person
u look like a ghost
Yeah black and white will do that to you haha
You should just focus on yourself
It depends on your looks and social status
You look like you're fishing for compliments
I'm fishing for change and constructive criticism. Do. you have any?
I'm sticking with my first response
We are all entitled to opinions
You are literally smoking hot
Guys see all women as objects till they love them.
Yes. Wen I look at u all I can think of is sex
Not all guys. Depends what impression u give
That's not how an object is treated by the way.
Not sure what the point of this question is...
ahhh u been chatting to too much pervs
Most guys are fuck boys😂
You are such a beautiful lady
Some do
You look naive
Yes because you are
whats easy
Yes, a fat one
You are a object...
Yes you look easy
Your beautiful