It's just the way a lot of males are. To have sex is just a goal for some of them. I wouldn't say they see you as an object, but as a possible lay, and then they leave. They could just want sex first and then work out whether or not they like you.
I have same problem.. Girls i find attractive.. Really are not up for a conversation.. Still I have 1 Girl pen pals, love the conversation I have with her.. Met her here.. Never saw her face, just email.. Must have exchanged more than 500 emails.. But lately she hasn't been writing that much.. Honestly one of the best quality conversation I ever had..
I am capable of conversation.. But once In a while I loose it.. It's happens when my testosterone gets overloaded
Most likely how you interact with them. No deep talk, lack of talking about the other's stuff, asking about thing's that are personal. In other words building deep connection, wide and deep rapport both ways. that means that you also answer personal questions.
You also have the thing how you treat him. Whom you interact with (who you usually go for that you are interested in)
It's little to many reasons in this area that many female's messes up.
Are they sitting on you, hanging you on the wall, or using you to clean out the rain gutters? Then, no.
They're probably talking about sex because that's what a lot of guys are naturally interested in. If they seem to speak of nothing else, though, they may be dumb. Find smarter guys.
Ladies.. please secure your selves... ultimately... yes and be cool with the fact men are attracted to u.. enjoy the dick. . get fucked. Every man desire women for that purpose.. to have sex.. I'm answering this question... with the intent that it brings me "Lay"luck...
Eh when I want sex with someone it doesn't at all mean I think that person is an object, it means I'm attracted to this person and like what I see.
However, if we can't keep a conversation going afterwards, it often means we don't really have anything in common, or it is because I'm too shy to try having one.
You are very pretty, but to be honest sex isn't the topic u would jump to straight away. You are around my age so I would probably want to know if you grew up watching anything I watched when I was younger, what did you do growing up you know that sort if thing, if you study I would probably ask about that too 😊 I find depending on people's age they seem to jump to sex as a topic. I'm not the best at chatting to people though so I would be slightly nervous 🙈
You look just normal, don't know why that would happen so often. There's nothing wrong with you, it feels like it's was just a log of bad luck finding only jerks recently.
It's not you. It's them. If they're obsessed with sex, that's on them. There are guys out there who aren't obsessed with sex. You just have to weed through the pigs.
Well it's hard to have intellectual conversations with someone who sees themselves as a victim so you need to change your mindset and add value to your interactions with men or they'll just treat you the same way.
You look innocent. Innocence is preyed on by men. They’ve been like it with me online since I was 14. You have to learn to ignore them or tell them to do one.
I think the problem is that guys physiologically need sex, and if you're not down for that, they don't want to waste their time. And frankly it's healthy physically and emotionally for both parties.
Sex object!! Hmm.. this is one of the problem in 21st century. Dear friend, don't put your trust to every guy.. calm your emotions, get to know each other then put on trusting him.. Hope this will help you out.. and no girl, you are not object, not every guy see a women as an object.. you just need to find the right person
no you dont look easy, those who aren't willing to talk to you with respect clearly have none to show... pick a topic and i'd be happy to discuss at length
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It's just the way a lot of males are. To have sex is just a goal for some of them. I wouldn't say they see you as an object, but as a possible lay, and then they leave. They could just want sex first and then work out whether or not they like you.
I have same problem..
Girls i find attractive..
Really are not up for a conversation..
Still I have 1 Girl pen pals, love the conversation I have with her..
Met her here..
Never saw her face, just email..
Must have exchanged more than 500 emails..
But lately she hasn't been writing that much..
Honestly one of the best quality conversation I ever had..
I am capable of conversation..
But once In a while I loose it..
It's happens when my testosterone gets overloaded
Men are so used to playing the numbers game so heavily because women refuse to initiate, that you're just another attempt to them.
I can't blame them, since playing the numbers game is one of the only reliable ways to find anyone online.
I can't be bothered to do so myself, it's not worth it to me.
See I face the same issue in life. Not just online. I can't make a friend or speak to my colleagues at work. I'm isolating myself more because of it
Make some female friends then if guys are so bad.
This
May be it's just those guys. You will meet better ones🌸💜🌸
Most likely how you interact with them.
No deep talk, lack of talking about the other's stuff, asking about thing's that are personal.
In other words building deep connection, wide and deep rapport both ways. that means that you also answer personal questions.
You also have the thing how you treat him.
Whom you interact with (who you usually go for that you are interested in)
It's little to many reasons in this area that many female's messes up.
You know what there are tons of awesome guys.. You're just surrounded with some assholes at the moment. Also you look amazing💕
I think you're right. There are some good guys out there. X
Are they sitting on you, hanging you on the wall, or using you to clean out the rain gutters? Then, no.
They're probably talking about sex because that's what a lot of guys are naturally interested in. If they seem to speak of nothing else, though, they may be dumb. Find smarter guys.
Ladies.. please secure your selves... ultimately... yes and be cool with the fact men are attracted to u.. enjoy the dick. . get fucked. Every man desire women for that purpose.. to have sex.. I'm answering this question... with the intent that it brings me "Lay"luck...
Eh when I want sex with someone it doesn't at all mean I think that person is an object, it means I'm attracted to this person and like what I see.
However, if we can't keep a conversation going afterwards, it often means we don't really have anything in common, or it is because I'm too shy to try having one.
You are very pretty, but to be honest sex isn't the topic u would jump to straight away. You are around my age so I would probably want to know if you grew up watching anything I watched when I was younger, what did you do growing up you know that sort if thing, if you study I would probably ask about that too 😊 I find depending on people's age they seem to jump to sex as a topic. I'm not the best at chatting to people though so I would be slightly nervous 🙈
You look just normal, don't know why that would happen so often. There's nothing wrong with you, it feels like it's was just a log of bad luck finding only jerks recently.
Don't despair and don't quit
It's not you. It's them. If they're obsessed with sex, that's on them. There are guys out there who aren't obsessed with sex. You just have to weed through the pigs.
Well it's hard to have intellectual conversations with someone who sees themselves as a victim so you need to change your mindset and add value to your interactions with men or they'll just treat you the same way.
You don't look easy. Guys are just very often perverted sluts.
You look innocent. Innocence is preyed on by men. They’ve been like it with me online since I was 14. You have to learn to ignore them or tell them to do one.
I think the problem is that guys physiologically need sex, and if you're not down for that, they don't want to waste their time. And frankly it's healthy physically and emotionally for both parties.
Sex object!! Hmm.. this is one of the problem in 21st century. Dear friend, don't put your trust to every guy.. calm your emotions, get to know each other then put on trusting him.. Hope this will help you out.. and no girl, you are not object, not every guy see a women as an object.. you just need to find the right person
no you dont look easy, those who aren't willing to talk to you with respect clearly have none to show...
pick a topic and i'd be happy to discuss at length
Maybe you're messing with the wrong ones, maybe it's just bad luck. There's no such thing as looking easy, you're a 5.