Would you like YOU if you met you?

Question

Are you the kind of person you'd want as a friend, colleague, lover?

AlienParasite · Accepted Answer

I would like me as a friend, I think wouldn't like me as a partner.

I would enjoy beign my friend because I would share similar hobbies and taste and we could have fun, it would be a good friend to have specially when there's no friend around me that likes same music I do so nobody wants to go to a music festival with me.

I wouldn't like me to be my partner though, because I search a partner someone that is to some extent complementary to me. I don't think I could be complementary to myself in any way. I like to share values and some hobbies but having the exact same personality would be weird in a couple dynamic... doesn't seem like something that would work, or doesn't seem very healthy at least.

However, I read once that there's a tendency to choose people very similar to us in both apparience and psyque. Some people even say my boyfriend personality is not too different from mine... So, I don't really know if after many movies I would end kissing myself or what. Maybe I'm actually Narcissus despite I tried not to fall in love with my reflection.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

I "met" myself last Oct. when I met my sisters boyfriend the first time. After dinner with all our friends, we all came back to my place. We started to talk... the more we talk, the more I feel like I was talking to myself. We were about to invest in a property that night while talking about buildings... crazy!!! ... Since I kinda "raised" my little sister (11 years. apart) .. makes sense she would attract someone like me? Kinda scary?
Outgoing personality, similar interests. Also got along with my ex. Both talked about bikes. We would all have so much fun traveling in Europe.
They are in Italy now for 2 weeks.

Did you meet someone like you?

MaddkingUconje · Accepted Answer

If I meet me I would hug me. Tryna you bring some joy into the life of a very broken person. And find the means to ease his shattered heart and mind. If I meet me I'll show me so much love I would feel overwhelmed by it. If I meet me I would be my biggest fan. Ill be someone I feel comfortable crying on my shoulders. I be someone real a friend a brother. If I meet me ill let me know I mattered, I'm worth something and I will be someone. Fuck what everyone else say. Fuck what the entire world has to say. I'll tell me my dreams aren't just dreams. The stubborn hope I care. Is the greatest thing I have and will get me where I want and need to be. If I meet me I would scream my name like it's the only name that matters.

SirRexington · Accepted Answer

Possibly. If either fond myself very annoying and offensive or I'd just get along with myself due to obvious shared interests.

Clarification needed: are you asking if I would get along with myself if I met myself or is it me being someone else than I am meeting myself?

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

Yeah, I think myself and I would really hit it off tbh. 💀💀 we'd relate to everything. I love me even if I have problems

Whatthefluff · Answer

I don't think I'd ever understand myself.

evm987 · Answer

I probably wouldn't be brave enough to talk to me lol. I'm so shy... it wouldn't work.
If by some miracle I did manage to get to know me, we'd make horrible friends. Sometimes neither of us would talk, sometimes both of us would want to completely dominate the conversation. I'd get so fed up with me.

sexphobe · Answer

In some situations more than others.. i reckon me & myself would get along great on a night out or if we shared a smoke & chatted shit. I can be unreliable and either too distant or too clingy so i’d probably end up being That Friend who you get along rlly well with but hate how they act sometimes

JackSmy · Answer

Depends on the context!! My first impression of ME might be: "Asshole!!" but after a moment, talking, 'Sarcastic, and maybe funny?' then, for some of the ladies "kind of liking this guy!!"
I'm not the one that should be judged, at first glance!! I'm the one that you start to like, later, then start trusting, and then, realize, we are BEST FRIENDS!!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yeah, we'd probably get on great together! same sense of humour, same feelings towards things and people around us, we'd both have a huge record collection and love for music so we could talk records and music all day, we could play drum duets and at least I'd have SOMEONE to talk to, play cards and board games with!!

andreasderjuengere · Answer

We'd immediately get along with each other very well. But for a while we would not trust each other.
Later, our other friends will 'hate' us each time we team up. And we'd … enjoy that.
Lovers? No. Love wears off - an I don't want to risk to lose a phantastic friend like myself.

SoWhAt249 · Answer

I think I might be sexually attracted to myself I was a chick, but if it would be about friendship it'd be a long shot. I mean, I'm empathetic, a good listener, but I don't like when someone plays me, and I love getting my revenge. Cunning and unforgiving. If I knew this about myself before I met myself, I'd probably keep my distance.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Hell i don't know. It would be hard to say unless it happened, but if I'm still me meeting me than probably. It would just be like watching a video of myself go about my daily life. If I'm someone else.. then i don't know.. chances are we wouldn't meet or talk cause I'm shy/introverted.

Adam1978 · Answer

Friends yes, can I actually meet on person who was scarily like me, but I wouldn't date me unless my other me came in a feminine package and even then it would be weird. Because a female version of me would be different than a male version we would have gotten different values and priorities so I am not even sure how that would turn out.

DanG530 · Answer

It'd be awesome, but I'll also realize how annoying I could be. I also think I would compete against myself from coming up with many similar ideas of games, and activities. Actually I think we would start off as friends then start hating each other

lightbulb27 · Answer

humm... I think so, some. some parts no. I need to work on a few aspects of me... often late arriving, don't prioritize sometimes. In general, I'm good person, so I like that.

dancing_in_nebulas · Answer

Yeah. I'm really pleasant. We'd be two anarchists hippies probably producing indie films together lol

Anonymous · Answer

Like... Yes... Be with for more time... No...
I like my own company... Mirror world me is quite annoying, stubborn, arrogant, brutally honest, self-pity, judging person...
It's just that I manage to keep these things to myself against others... But if I meet myself, I'll be figuring out those things and as it is me, I'll not be liking the judgement myself give me while being with me...

LifeSafari · Answer

Short answer: All of the above, but we'd certainly get into a lot of mischief together, me myself, and I.

flamiE · Answer

I probably would if I was patient enough to get to know me as I tend to not be very open when I meet someone. The first impressions would be that I’m too quiet.

Hurlyburly · Answer

It'd be probably really awkward since I'm really shy around strangers. We'd most likely just ignore each other and that's it XD But apart from that, I think that we'll get along just fine.

EriFrancis1994 · Answer

I think so. I'm honest, independent and just an easy going person. That being said, I would love to know truthfully how others perceive me as I may be completely wrong

noooob · Answer

I'd think to myself "this girl is a very cute, kind hearted person who always thinks of others" and I'm no narcissist because everyone always tells me I'm very kind to others and never raise my voice at other people. I'd always try to chime in and make friends so I would see myself as a live interest or best friend ☺️

Daisy007 · Answer

Yeah most likely we'd have loads in common obviously & i have a lot of nice qualities that it'd be nice to see in a friend 💛 like honesty, talkativeness, love for games, adventures etc.

ThatDude29 · Answer

I think i would be intimidated but little do people know, i'm soft on the inside People always mistake me for the tough guy

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

We would hate each other for a year and then become best friends eventually 😂

Anonymous · Answer

I'd piss the hell out of myself because I'm very annoying and obnoxious, irritable, and mentally unstable and on edge all the time. I am highly intelligent and slightly violent at times, generally turning that violence upon myself rather than others.

So yeah I'd say if I met myself I'd hate myself. I mean normally, even just as myself I hate myself so that's a rip.

AndrewMG · Answer

Oh I've met me on a daily basis and I annoy myself so I think we'd learn to tolerate each other... liking is a step too far though! lol

JaceStenson · Answer

Depends on the day. If I met me after a bad day at work I’d say no. Otherwise, yes!

AdHdSqUiRrEl · Answer

Prolly not. I wouldn't give me the chance to get to know me if that makes sense 😂.

Passinggas · Answer

Would I invite me to a party? Hell no, that would be a terrible experience. No, only the world should have to tolerate me.

LoU_Hades · Answer

yes... if you don't like yourself, how do you want to like/love others?

TheOnlyAriii · Answer

I would like myself if my clone is happy. I can't deal with her shit if she's depressy though, 😒

MissKittyz · Answer

Yes I would. I'd seriously love to be my own best friend lol

Bluebot · Answer

Definetly, I love my humor and find myself laughing at jokes I think of myself etc. lol

WhiteMageDende · Answer

Not as a lover bc i dont wanna be destroyed. Im not built like that. But as a friend definitely.

AuroraRoseat · Answer

Yeah. I wouldn’t when I was younger but now, I would love me

Anonymous · Answer

Gosh no. I already don't like me as me, I'd avoid me at all costs if I met me.

Dav1ss · Answer

No I wouldn't I'd be offended call myself rolude crazy and we wouldn't get along

allenmadi · Answer

no I'd hate myself. not atually hate i have this competing behavior and right now i don't like to be friend with the people who have the same goals that i have.

DFitswell · Answer

I would absolutely love me and want to hang out with me constantly because I'm hilarious and a very nice guy

Texaskid1 · Answer

If I met me I think it would be love at first sight and I would make love to my self and have lots of little me's.

AshleyMadison00 · Answer

I think I would be a great everything I'm definitely well balanced and resourceful enough to position myself in all three positions lol

Joel_ · Answer

I would take advantage of me. Friend me and have me do things for me. Put blame on me with mind games and convince me to do things against my will.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yup i totally would love to meet someone exactly like me

thelokisniper · Answer

I would probably be very content with either a friend or wife who is exactly like me. However, I recognize that it would probably be weird.

Juxtapose · Answer

I'd absolutely love myself, I'm great to get along with. No victim, no crime. No fuss, no drama, no bullshit.

GD360 · Answer

Yea I would sleep with me the first time I meet me. Lol sound weird

Sensmind · Answer

In a weird way no - I think the two of us together would be too much of same thing - I believe in people complimenting each other not reflecting each other

BlackRoseFairy · Answer

I want to believe that I would... I know I am not perfect and can be hard to deal with at times, but I believe that I am overall easy to get along with. 🙃

Nicolette777 · Answer

People look for people who have the qualities they lack and don’t like about themselves, so no, I wouldn’t want myself as a lover. We’d be too similar. It would be boring for me

BobbyC65 · Answer

Yes the only person that understand's me is my self. Me myself and I.

LIM1T · Answer

I would probably make myself as a best friend because he would have no trouble in understanding me

Cruizer · Answer

I'm fully sick. I like all of the same shit as myself 😂

ClassyMe · Answer

Absolutely! I’m amazing. I would be best friends with myself and get along easily

Guido · Answer

I would be like WOW! Another warped and twisted person just like me. We are going to get along great.

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

If I knew me I would probably have killed me by now.

lava3 · Answer

I would love the heck out of myself I am very down to earth and trustworthy

Kezzz · Answer

Yeah I'd love to meet myself and I might enjoy the company too

vasilias · Answer

I would beat myself the he'll up for all the bad crazy shit I did

DarthGarth · Answer

No. Id be to embarrassed to talk to someone so awsome.

name_is_eric · Answer

At first glance. The more we'd speak, the more I would love myself.

Littlered282 · Answer

I think so but it will be hard to talk to me cause i'm not sociable and i get anxious around people i don't know

Jimhflmn · Answer

I would. Why? Because I am fairly handsome, friendly, and intelligent

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