IT IS A CHOICE. Sad to say, you only get tired of sex with the same women that has a perfect body for you, out of a feeling of power dominating as many women as YOU CAN. Or you are a useless lover, with the same women, sex only gets better and better. You possibly have early ejaculation and physcological issues, go to a sex therapist, or a hot call girl that will teach you how to truly satisfy the lady and yourself.
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It could be with some people, but I think it usually boils down to a lack of self control and also being self absorbed.
That’s so on point! That’s the exact same thing I would tell my ex fiancé every time he kept cheating over and over. But claimed to love me so much. Smh!!
When you love someone you don’t hurt them and take them for granted treating you like shit, badgering you. That’s not love! Love isn’t supposed to hurt. Love isn’t pain. 5 years I gave him the best of me. It’s obvious he has mental cheating issues. All his past gf’s and ex fiancé same pattern.
@Julez85 You're right but cheating is like getting high for some people... in the end YOU are all that matters. Not saying that's an excuse... it's sometimes just the truth. You deserve better but just know LOVE itself is quite complicated.
I don't know if "caused by" is exactly correct, but if someone has bipolar disorder, it often manifests, in part, by the person being hyper-sexual. That is, being much more willing to engage in sex than usual, and often seeking out sexual encounters.
It's possible someone could cheat while they were suffering from a mental illness. That's not the same thing as establishing cause and effect so I voted no. I'm not saying they wouldn't try to use it as an excuse but I'm not aware of any mental illness that causes people to cheat.
Maybe 🤔 if it's a sex addiction plus mental then again... Some mental illness behaviors are listed as reckless and dangerous so it could be a symptom of that.
In theory sure. A person with a split personality could potentially have one persona that’s a serial cheater while the other is completely loving and faithful.
I wouldn't reject the notion out of hand, but that presumes that monogamy is biologically normal for humans rather than enforced largely by social pressure. For this reason, I find it doubtful.
Hell NO cheating is caused by selfish A holes who have no respect for their partner or their relationship it is not nor will it ever be caused by mental illness
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IT IS A CHOICE. Sad to say, you only get tired of sex with the same women that has a perfect body for you, out of a feeling of power dominating as many women as YOU CAN. Or you are a useless lover, with the same women, sex only gets better and better. You possibly have early ejaculation and physcological issues, go to a sex therapist, or a hot call girl that will teach you how to truly satisfy the lady and yourself.
It could be with some people, but I think it usually boils down to a lack of self control and also being self absorbed.
I’ll just leave this here
That’s so on point! That’s the exact same thing I would tell my ex fiancé every time he kept cheating over and over. But claimed to love me so much. Smh!!
@Julez85 He does love you... has nothing to do with cheating.
When you love someone you don’t hurt them and take them for granted treating you like shit, badgering you. That’s not love! Love isn’t supposed to hurt. Love isn’t pain. 5 years I gave him the best of me. It’s obvious he has mental cheating issues. All his past gf’s and ex fiancé same pattern.
@Julez85 You're right but cheating is like getting high for some people... in the end YOU are all that matters. Not saying that's an excuse... it's sometimes just the truth. You deserve better but just know LOVE itself is quite complicated.
I don't know if "caused by" is exactly correct, but if someone has bipolar disorder, it often manifests, in part, by the person being hyper-sexual. That is, being much more willing to engage in sex than usual, and often seeking out sexual encounters.
It's possible someone could cheat while they were suffering from a mental illness. That's not the same thing as establishing cause and effect so I voted no. I'm not saying they wouldn't try to use it as an excuse but I'm not aware of any mental illness that causes people to cheat.
Maybe 🤔 if it's a sex addiction plus mental then again...
Some mental illness behaviors are listed as reckless and dangerous so it could be a symptom of that.
Pretty sure cheating is the natural order of things and humans are just trying to apply humanity to it.
Most primates aren't monogamous. So no, it's nature vs nurture.
In theory sure. A person with a split personality could potentially have one persona that’s a serial cheater while the other is completely loving and faithful.
I wouldn't reject the notion out of hand, but that presumes that monogamy is biologically normal for humans rather than enforced largely by social pressure. For this reason, I find it doubtful.
Like impulse control? Or beyond like a deviant?
One is more chemical deviant behavior is more cognitive thought process and applied behavior so depends on your angle coach😀
I am asking for a friend! HA
I wouldn't buy what they are selling personally but I'm a hard sell
Hell NO cheating is caused by selfish
A holes who have no respect for their partner or their relationship it is not nor will it ever be caused by mental illness
Yes, it's called "I'm-A-Shitty-Ass-Person Disorder"
We need to stop making excuses or looking for reasons why some people are terrible
No. Not out of his control. A conscious reasoned act.
Why "his" lol
I hear that it can.
Does it mean i can accept that. No. I would not even allow that to be on the table of excuses.
I don't think so. I believe cheating is more motivated by pleasure--especially for men. Women often seem to cheat to try to trade up.
I think that would be used as an excuse to get away with it! If you genuinely think you have this mental illness then don’t get into a relationship.
Not on its own but self destructive behavior that includes cheating is a sign of various personality disorders
Nope. It’s caused by sheer stupidity, not to mention lack of common sense and empathy
Nope. Some people just are not programmed for monogamy. In fact there are several animals that are rather polyamorous.
Hmm 🤔 I could give a long explanation of my opinion, but instead I respectfully bow out from the question.
Good night coach Tony!!
I simply expected more from a CLOSER. "shakes head"
Closers need rest to rejuvenate