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If it's really love then their ego shouldn't get in the way of them communicating with you, at the very least for long. Therefore, if they do hurt you, they most likely wouldn't be opposed to helping you heal or making things right again when you express to them that they hurt you.
Abandonment certainly isn't love. Maybe it can be mercy, but I don't know of many if any situations at all where a genuine lover wants to and will choose to abondon the beloved