And what gestures and behaviors is within the moment of daydream... ? lol
5 answers and ill say mines - lol :P (not that their exciting or special -__- )
All the time.
We rule the world together..kind of like bonnie and clyde but more epic. More like Hades/Pluto and Persephone ruling over their domain. I wouldn't mind being "swept away" in the style either. With him I'd be at my best and strongest. I want him to have the ability to unbind me from fear/doubt and be totaly invincible with him. I also see him being incredibly intelligent and sharing all his knoledge with me and vice versa.
I guess there should be tenderness too..i fantasize about comfortable silences, warm cuddling, hillarious antics, him doing the moonwalk through the kitchen ( I like excellent dancers lol), him beign able to make me laugh in any various form of humour I harbor (dark, light, etc). And for some odd reasson, reading an excellent book to me while I fall asleep on his shoulder. In this fanatasy we're usualy on a plane, heading somewhere good. His voice has a gentle lightness but you can feel it's depth resinate in a gentle baritone from his chest. He has a crisp gentle english accent free of eccentric manurism.
I also see us both running from or dealing with some serious badassness, help me take down an evil nemesis or warlord. He would need to have some military like or related training or background. And never flinch nor panic. Help me save the world, raid tombs and such. Maybe race exotic cars with me in the desert.
Yet, at the same time I see him as my perfect escort to the opera, ascot or any white tie occasion...who never stares at another woman while in such a setting. Finally, I see him as the dad how teaches his kids, respect, kindness, good character and does awesome activities with them. Also, the kind of husband who wants lots of sex with you, even when pregnant. Also lots of general intimacy.
Least to say, I want to have a relationship that's tested in fire rather then superficialy lovey dovey, a really deep passion. I want someone who can connect to me on every facet of my character.
Oh and the sex, jestures woun't matter as it would be a trancendant experience.
Oddly enough, in my dreams/fantasies...i touch his skin, feel his energy, feel his build, hear his voice (but it's slightly muffled as if I'm wearing earplugs). I see everything, knowing the general look or makeup(hair, neck, jawline..) but I never see his face...fully.
I think if I walk into him I'll know right away :)
i usually fantasize that i would meet a guy who has had a love failure and is in pain cos of that... i used to like him so much and feel that im totally into him.. we would be friends initially... i would feel really bad cos he is in pain cos of his broken love.. i would comfort him.. i would love him from the bottom of my heart.. one of his friend is in love with me... so he talks to me about his friends interest towards me... but i refuse to accept his friends love... he asks me why... i say that im deeply in love with another guy... he keeps on pestering me by asking whom do i love... so finally one day i say... ITS YOU... i gather courage and say him."I know you dont have dose special feelings for me right now... u just like me as a friend.. but i love you.." and leave the place... Then some days pass... He has some what come out of the pain his ex_gf has given her... Then my parents started nagging me to get married soon and starting searching for the right bridegroom... i say to my parents that im not interested in marriage now.. he asks me.."why do u avoid marriage? why dont u get married and start ur life?" i say him.."i could not marry any one in this world other than you... cos when my mind is fully into you how could i marry some other man and live with him.. its like betraying him.. i could not do that.. i love u deeply.. i couldnt think of giving my mind and body to any other man than you." Then a day passes... he asks me..." shall we get married?" he also says that,"i know you love me.. but i ve just come out of a love failure.. my mind is not prepared to love any gal now.. but still i know that anyway i have to marry someone in my life.. instead of getting into an arranged marriage with some unknown bride whom my parents choose for me... y shouldn't i marry you when i know ur love for me... and also i always liked you as a gal cos u r good at heart.. so i wanna marry you.." I am immensely happy and to me getting him is like getting everything in life... Then we get married..
Then comes the second phase of my story... now it is his turn to love me... we get married but we dont have any kinda physical relationship cos both of us feel that it should happen naturally out of love and it should not be just because that we are married and it should not happen on that condition.. i too know that he needs some time to understand me and reciprocate my love.. so we just continue to be friends after marriage... meanwhile i enjoy being his wife... being with him.. being in his home... being able to spend a lot of time with him... being able to do everything for him.. like cooking his favourite food and serving him and seeing him eat, being a perfect wife, being able to share all his happiness and problems... being able to comfort him when he is in distress for some reason or the other... i like everyone in his family and they like me too... In course of time... he slowly and unknowingly develops dose special feelings towards me... i also cherish small small things like...
i get coffee to him in morning.. he is still in bed.. he stares at me for some few seconds and say casually..."You look too pretty today.." i feel to be on top of the world... and lots of small cute incidents like this... Then he has totally fallen in love with me.. he wants to say that to me.. But before that there happens a small fight between us over some issue. So i say that im leaving from his home.. He feels so bad and is afraid to lose me. That night he comes home fully drunk.. Iam just preparing to move out of his home... packing things and all... still i yearn in my heart that he should stop me from leaving him.. As he has drunken so much he staggers and is not in his control.. I help him to lie down in his bed and when im about to move i find that he is holding my hand and doesn't leave them.. He manages to get up from his bed and without leaving my hand, looking straight into my eyes, he asks me.."u think u can leave me? u cannot.. and u shouldnt? and i ask him staring into his eyes..
I ask him staring into his eyes "Why do you want me to stay with you?" with full of tears in my eyes.. He, staring into my eyes, pulls me closer to him and slightly holding me by my waist... says.."because I LOVE YOU.. and i can't live without you..." Then there's a silence... Tears run down from my eyes... We keep staring at each other.. he slowly touches my face.. wipes out my tears and kisses my forehead saying..."I love you baby... sorry... for making you wait too long.." That is my first kiss from him... first kiss ever from a man.. i feel his touch, his scent, his love.. We hug each other so tightly.. Then he looks at me again... runs his finger over my face... my lips.. and kisses my lips.. Then he carries me in his arms to his bed.. and we unite physically too fully with love.. we enjoy spending a night together.. once everything is over... he kisses me again on my forehead and cuddles me and says..."What happened between us this night is not just sex.. its the topmost expression of our love..
Of course I fantasize about my boyfriend!
He puts the thought in my head though, lol. Like when we sext, I fantasize about whatever he might say he would/wants to do to me.
So far it's been like, I would kiss your neck while I fingered you, then I would kiss you all the way down until I got to eat you out. Then I would bend you over the table and srew you hard and deep. I would pick you up and pin you against the wall and do it more. I would take you to the shower and eat you out there.
When I'm not provoked, I usually think of him and what he's done in the past, I can't really say that I dream about other, new things, because to daydream, I have to make the connection of how that might feel. And if he hasn't TRIED those things yet, then I wouldn't know.
And as far as the "gestures/behavior", there's a lot of eye rolling and moaning. I'm a loud girl...so I've been told lmfao.
Lol this is the first time I've written it down and it seems so corny and hilarious to me, but in the moment it's SUCH a huge turn on.
It's funny how the first five girls have their answers anonymous, but it's understandable. This is going to be embarrassing a bit lmao but anyways here goes.
Seeing I am doing online dating I need to fantasize about her to satisfy my mind. I just fantasize that I'm holding her, talking with her, laughing with her, kissing her, lifting her up and turning her around and kissing her like it was the last day on Earth. You know, just the general teen relationship stuff. I hate sleeping alone so at night I imagine I'm right next to her and somehow that thought calms me down and I drift off to sleep.
Seeing as I can't be with her physically, imagining/fantasizing about her satisfies my mind and makes online dating a lot easier. Basically she's on my effin mind every day and I imagine her a lot with me.
So I guess this makes me the 11th person.
LMAO
See, she knows why.
I've always fantasized about my girls being with my best friend or another guy. For them to have something over her to control her and make her do whatever they wanted. Forcing her to blow him behind my back or to actually be cuckolded and watch her being enjoyed in all ways by him. We've even role played scenarios where I pretend I him and she is under his control.
Another fantasy is for her to be dominated and face sat, forced to perform oral by a breast enhanced hot babe or babes with a thin waist. thick thighs and deep luscious ass.
Opinion
11Opinion
It's funny how all the girl's have their answers anonymous, but it's understandable. This is going to be embarrassing a bit lmao but anyways here goes.
Seeing I am doing online dating I need to fantasize about him to satisfy my mind. I just fantasize that his holding me, talking with me, laughing with me, kissing me, lifting me up and turns me around and kisses me like it was the last day of earth. You know just the general teen relationship stuff. I hate sleeping alone so at night I imagine his right next to me and somehow "that thought" calms me down and I drift off to sleep.
Seeing I can't be with him physically yet imagining/fantasizing about him satisfies my mind and makes online dating a lot easier. Basically his on my effin my mind every day and I imagine him a lot with me.
So I guess well think this makes me the 5th person
damn :(
she beat me to my 5th spot
Oh well anyways going to share your experience?
Pfft ... No! :P mine seem so bleh... like there all kinda sexual but sweet and affectionate : / ... nothing like these simple things all you girls want -__- ...
But I can relate with her, I kinda imagine these things a lot : / ... because I myself have been seeking miss right since I was 11 1/2 online lol- you wouldn't beleive how many hours in my lifetime I have spent on chat sites, date sites, social networks and I'm messenegers... And only one real person knowing of 'these events' - my sister
WOW since 11/12 years old. But may I ask why online?
Lol... I know... talk about planning ahead -__- ...
Well coz... online you can show your true colours... I mean yes your dark side can come out aswell but - at least you can display all of you.. with confidence and no guilt or bias towards how the person perceives you because - your not in front of them! lol. Its just more logical and well... efficient - how many new people do you interact with on the average day? 3? At most? lol.. and obviously confidence, approach and situations..
Wow so true,
Hope you find her and this is a very good question by the way and so is your responses to my answers :D
I like your personailty :D
lol no worries :)
It might sound weird, but I always tend to imagine myself being sad over something, crying somewhere, and the guy comes to me, comforts me and we end up making out and having sex.
That or I imagine all sorts of funny / steamy scenes of him and myself on a back pack trip around the world :)
For example : us camping in Thaïland, having sex on the beach
Us being broke in Italy and stealing a loaf of bread and running away à la Aladdin and Jasmine :P
Having to spend a few nights in the streets in Paris
Hiking in Norwegia
Anyways... the main focus of those daydreams is us having sex in crazy places around the world and funny travelling experiences, goofing off scenes :)
yep. I constantly. I just bake, usually. I love baking and I would love to cook with my future boyfriend, get messy and shower together. going for walks, snuggling on the sofa, movie nights, and giving him massages (getting them too, of course). I always want to get a guy who becomes my bff and he falls for me and makes me love him too (I don't trust easily and putting myself out there is never an option). so yeah... my dream guy is my best friend turned lover who takes shots and plays pool with my drunk ass and makes me feel beautiful by kissing my nose and saying good morning... cheesy, but simple lol
wow... :P sounds like a real blast - real close nitt... just like id want mmy girl :D ... id love to fool around with her and .. you know like you said.. them close affectionate but casual times when were at home alone on a Saturday night :P maybe with a dvd or like a board game :P summit simple we can fool around while doing :P and just enjoy eachothers company!
well yeah, I've laid in bed just thinking and this image of me and a future boyfriend came into my mine, he was standing and I was crouching next to him with my hand tugging on his belt and we were having pictures taken. But then Id bit his belt and just look up at him to see his reaction. But I've had daydreams of a hot make out session on a bed or in a car. Or even having sex outside like in a fenced back yard. Or sometimes its just as simple as a really sweet hug from the guy that I've got on my mind. Or sometimes just of a thought of sitting on a couch with a guy I like and watching TV with him and then my hand wanders over to his leg and starts to play with his knee and then I just start moving my hand up until I'm right over his stuff and then I slowly unzip his jeans and play around a little more and then if things get a little too heated, I just get up and go do something else and leave him sitting there like what? lol.
Lol, wow... actually have fantasised daydreams simular to yours! - specially the re-occuring thought of the casual affection given to my manhood when just watching TV on a Saturday night lol, you explained it pretty much how I imagined... even tho shed start off noticing a defined shape of it down my thigh... and then kindov jerk me off after a lot of teasing and slow casual exposure... But she doesn't just leave me hanging! lol.. Literally... lol...
But also the hot make out sessions as well..
...as cheeky public displays of affection, helping each other change and testing clothes in stores whilst - 'fondling' or even going to the very much penaltimate gestures of affection within a changing booth lol.. but yeah, lots of stuff :P ..specially the walking into the kitchen and casually placing my hands on her hips as I walk up and stand behind her - stirring tea or preparing food at the counter - and just playfully and casually stretch up or unveil the backa her thong and fiddle with it..
Yeah I've wanted to take some guys shopping with me and let them rate bras (im in love with my boobs) or even having my boyfriend walk up behind me while I'm doing something in the kitchen and then grab me around my waist and pull me into him. Also sex in the shower sounds like a great idea. also just cuddling and being close to a boyfriend just seems sweet. his head on my lap or my head on his, just watching tv. I just like being physically close to guys. But those are just things I want to do
yes the simple silly things, those things that seem so insignificant and meaningless but matter so much they seem like deep canyons that form the geography of our relationship, the different ways I can make her angry because I love it even more when I calm her down, when I hold hr in my arms and tell her that I understand what I did wrong
or when our foreheads are touching each other and we take a moment just to be and that moment before a kiss, like this uncomfortable tension of "should I kiss her" which I enjoy so much cause I know what comes next
sadly its I nice fantasy but there are other factors in the equation the make things more complecated
I dream of a solid commitment. I dream of a man to love and accept me. I want us to have 3 pets 2 cats and a small dog. I dream of corny night walks by the water and dinner at restaurants. I dream of NEVER settling in one state.. Moving around the country every six years or so. I dream of adopting several children and the two of us raising a family.. I dream of vacations out of state..I dream of never wanting another man.. I dream of being his one his only lady.. Well back to reality.. LOL cause this life we got here is no fairytale but yea.. thought I'd share.
I do imagine what my 'dream' guy would be like - but honestly, I don't imagine anything sexual. I just want a guy who balances me out. I'm very highly strung and I get upset easily, so I really like guys who are calmer than me. I want the kind of guy who really, really cares about me and makes an effort to understand what I'm on about. I don't care much about crazy adventurous sex, but I do want someone who I can listen to music with and talk about books with. I want someone who can teach me things I didn't even know I had an interest in.
Haha I'm pretty boring, sorry
some of things I day dreams are really elaborate and cheesy, like falling slowly in love and sharing a first kiss under a blossoming cherry tree in a spring rain storm, and some of its really mundane, like just imaginng him sitting beside me holding my hand on a long trip home or curled up to him in bed.
sometimes I imagine taking road trips to really wild wind blown places on the coast and huddling together for warmth.
And while we re talking fantasies that will never come true. I always imagine I'm going to fall in love with a brilliant musician.
lol, sure, why not?...but only if you promise to do all those things with me
Hmm well right now I've liked a guy for two years, he doesn't know I like him. He shows signs sometimes than other times it's confusing. So I guess I dream most about going on a date with him :) Like if we would get along or what we would talk about. Things like that. I'd love to go get coffee with him sometime, so I think about what I would say and how neat it would be to sit and talk with him. I really value anytime I have with him, he is so interesting to me. I also respect him deeply on a personal level. Him and I are pretty much identical. He's just shy and has been burned in the past so maybe that's what's stopping him from making a move.
How well she sucks d***, how much she enjoys it in the arse, how she loves 'arse, mouth' (taking it in the arse then sucking me off), how beautiful she is and how she loves to be cuddled, kissed and have somebody holding her tight as she sleeps! She's naughty... but needs a man to love her ;)
Why? What's wrong with this?
I Fantasize all the time about my boyfriend.
1) It about either what I did that day or what I would like to do next time.
2) how I would like to loose my virginity.
3) what I want for us in the future and basically every thing to do with everything.
I think we do it so that we can do the things we don't think we could do with full confidence in real life so we play it out first.
In my fantasies my future husband is very well equipped and enjoys having sex a lot. I want my husband to shower me with love in every spot imaginable. I want him to be a manly man who enjoys being with his family no matter what the situation. I love aman who can really take control of a situation, it makes me feel wanted and loved. I want my man to be proud that I'm HIS and no one elses.
When I was ten I had a dream about this blond haired blue eyed boy on top of me kissing me and he asked if I wanted to have sex. Of course I said no at that age, but now I am eighteen and very much so in love with my boyfriend. He has blond hair and blue eyes and resembles an older more sophisticated version of the boy in my dream. I find it ironic.
I imagine he take me on a cruise around the world, cause I like travelling and adventures, and
visiting different exotic countries. I also imagine he's very rich and mad about me and spending loads of dollars on me, so I can buy me stylish clothes and shoes and whatever I want, ...and I'll go shopping all day. ))
Yes. I've pretty much fantasized about us in every situation together, so there's too much to list. And don't get me started about the sex... so much sex. We did it wherever, whenever, and whatever...
We then lived happily ever after, together forever... :3
But it's all just a fairytale fantasy...
But it was only fantasy. The wall was too high, as you can see. No matter how he tried, he could not break free, and the worms ate into his brain.
...and by then it had turned in to a nightmare?
i fantasize that me and my husband will make passionate love on a beach ... hell arrange the whole thing and he will say he found a jelly fish and makes me come down to the beach but when I reach the beach instead of seeing a lump of jelly on the beach I will see a candle lit picnic and he will be nice and hug me and kiss me everywhere and make me feel wanted and loved and make me feel like there is no where in the whole world were I could belong more than in his arms , he will kiss me and be polite and funny .. he can take control of a situation and he always will make the first move and will be faithful and never force me to do anything .. he will love me because I'm me and not because we will have loads of sex ...
hah I'm a very fussy person :)
hopefully one day I will meet mr. right :)
xx
hah :)
i hope you do to :)
xx
OMG! I always fantasize about this exact beach scenario! Right down to every detail you have described. It includes everything. The candle lit dinner, the picnic, the whole girl coming down to the beach to see me standing there waiting for her. When I first saw this question I pictured this exact scenario in my head. And then to see the answers and coming across yours was so weird.
definetly FLOWERS I know it sound stupid but I've never gotten any, being a gentleman like opening doors, being protective (not controlling) of me, wanting to spend time with be but also let me have a life with my girl friends. Hope that helps :) can you answer my question please? what does it mean when a guy stares at me often while smiling if I notice him looking he just keeps smiling at me but he never does any of that -flirty touching-? what does this mean?
lol, I wouldn't know... people behave differently depending on their experiences, personality and approaches to things - as well as their awareness of themselves, their own actions and consequences for them. Sooo... he could be smiling just to tesst the water - and see how you react, maybe even waiting for you to make a move, so he knows your interested.
Or it could be that he is just not aware of himself smiling - very low possibility lol.
Or it could be that, you remind him of someone, or
.. of a pleasant feeling... being strictly less sexual/ interest relation and appearance wise and just the fact of that. You could be yourself reading into it too much, because of consious issues or a desire for attention or appreciation... lol ... you never do know but... the most probable cause is cause he likes you, or wants your attention for some reason, but doesn't want to approach you for another.
For some reason when I hear "fantasize" I get this sexual connotation. Yes, I do think about the physical but that's not what a relationship is all about to me. It's more like I daydream or envision me with a future boyfriend, doing all of the couple-y things I've wanted to do. The silly moments, stolen kisses, laughter, but also facing the hard times together and coming out and even stronger. I just picture my everyday life but with someone else beside me.
Fantasy, as in this is far from reality, haha. I meet a guy while I'm out doing something stupid, dangerous even, and he's just standing there with a gun and then there's this whole "oh-sh*t-run-for-it" moment, I get away, and keep seeing him over and over again, to the point where I end up getting a gun and there's a pretty big fire fight later. We're both out for each other, and things just kinda fall into place.
weird.
i just often wonder who they are, what they look like, what they're doing at that moment I'm thinking about them, if I've already met them but its not the right time etc lol
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions