I tried weed, and my boyfriend disapproves. What should I do? (Page 2)

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Okay well I am 22 and my boyfriend is 31 for starters. I have never tried weed in my life and only ever wanted to at least try it once, so I did since I was given the opportunity with a blunt while over at a family members house. I let my boyfriend know I tried it of course and he gave off a vibe that he was a bit upset at me with his texts and wanted to talk to me. So went home, him and I talked and he said he is glad I am only trying it once as he is highly against smoking weed. Like I get that he is, but I don't see the problem. Now I am not sure how to talk to him since he is currently still a bit upset with me.

engel23 · Answer

Just wait it will go away, but don't do it again. I am in MA, here is legal but what you don't know is weed is just the first step to others drugs. Drugs are really a waste of time. Believe me

PolarFrost · Answer

Honestly he shouldn't get upset over a one time thing. the whole reason weed was legalised in the first place was because there are people who use it medically but dont meet the requirements for it. you should try and get him to explain why he is so against smoking it and have him rationalize his thoughts, because it might also be something bad has happened to him relating werd

CuteGirl2003 · Answer

Well I think he is protective of you and bad things can happen with it if you hang out with the wrong people or even with the right people he or you don't know what could happen even if it's a family member or a friend that's like a sister to you. My mom was at her friend's house and she trusted her and the weed that they were smoking but they both didn't realize that it was laced and they were bound to her couch for the rest of the night even though they had other plans after smoking.

sean1234 · Answer

Stop smoking that poison? Seriously? How is this even a question? You people should already know its poison. Smoking anything is poison. I dont even like being around fire places that produce ash.

Dilf4u · Answer

Honestly your human you do whatever you please, if someone has a problem that's there problem not yours, dont ever let someone set the pace or control you.

Thatsamazing · Answer

"I am 22 and my boyfriend is 31 for starters" Not sure why this matters. If you like each other, then you like each other. That's all that matters. Anyway, just offer him your ass as penance. He'll calm down.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

There, you tried it, scratch it off your bucket list and listen to your older, wiser and more mature boyfriend. You do NOT want to be a dope head.

VIVANT · Answer

Jeez he’s not your daddy.. he realizes this - no?  he was 22 and lived his 20s.. It’s your turn to live yours.

loveslongnails · Answer

Do you intend to smoke again? Never again? Did you like it? Whatever the answer, tell him to grow up, and his objection is duly noted.

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

I think he would have a reason to be concerned if you were pothead. He should get over it soon. Lol, this isn't irreparable. If this is too much for him then he needs to grow up.

Massageman · Answer

Be thankful you have a guy that wants you to live a healthy life.

miley19 · Answer

Weed>dick , Daddy snoop will approve your weed choices

Beautiful_Confusion · Answer

I would keep trying to understand each other's point of view. But, while doing that, I'd find out if he feels this way from genuine concern for my welfare; or because he feels so strongly about it that he wants everybody on the train.

Anonymous · Answer

Assure him that you were just trying it for one time and would never like to be someone who smokes frequently.. Ask him if he's still upset lol.. don't ignore it.

Naydyonov · Answer

If I was him I would tell you once is fine; however, if you continue, there's the door.

Daisy007 · Answer

You only tried it soo just wait on it he'll forgive u soom enough no big deal ! : ) :

hollyeood69 · Answer

Do what you want.. your a beautiful person he does not rule your world.. sounds more like a control freak

COMMODOREII · Answer

He needs to get over it. You are own person with your own rights and choices in life.

Shanice_2008 · Answer

Most of us have tried it once just to see what it’s all about. BUT I think it’s unhealthy so you should stop. Don’t want to get sick do you?

hellacray · Answer

I don't like weed either. Main reason is that it smells like ass.  And I wouldn't want my girlfriend to be high.

Avinashs551 · Answer

He's just not open with you doing things which he doesn't like.

Nik1hil · Answer

Because that shit fucks up your mind and your boyfriend sees a future with you want want to actually have a life with you. Someday make you his wife

livingthelife19 · Answer

If it causes a problem then don't smoke. Depends on how much your care for him

Cnote22 · Answer

I would just tell him he needs to pick his battles with you and is this really the fight he wants?

skeel · Answer

Smoking weed is bad overall, like any female that smokes is immediately 30% unatractive 💀

Josh13Doobie · Answer

Sounds like he's a bit controlling. You gotta walk on egg shells often?

Anonymous · Answer

1. Change your boyfriend with a younger, more handsome one who knows that weed is not heroin.
2. Why tf are you dating a pedo aka boomer?
3. And he probably eats fastfood which contains drugs aka industrial sugar.

soleil2666 · Answer

What does the weed do for you? Is it an image thing, in front of others, or does it actually do something you like?

igiem · Answer

Go to Jamaica. It’s culturally accepted and the Rastafarian’s use it for its calming properties and medicinal uses. The body also has glands that all humans are born that is used to process weed.

douride2 · Answer

You have 2 choices. Drop the weed or your boyfriend.

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

Stop smoking weed or get him into weed or breakup or he learns to deal with it, those are your choices, pick one

Maria1290 · Answer

I believe it’s all about control I’m against smoking but I wouldn’t date if they smoke when we got together but that’s just me.

TheDud3 · Answer

You should probably talk it out. Let him know you understand he's upset and assure him it's a one time thing. But if it's continuous then you should probably really let him know.

kinkyking · Answer

Educate his ass and tell him the pro and cons and tell him we are in the 21 century and if he still insist tell him to get lost and add me and we shall be dating... Lolol😂

dylbert0122 · Answer

Tell him to suck it up it's a lot healthier than a lot of things honestly and it's never killed anyone as for lots of other things you could of tried. I mean it could of been a lot worse.

bones4321 · Answer

I depends on thc and cbd to get through the day with my disease. Maybe do a little research and tell him the medical benefits of it. It really is a medicine

winterfox10 · Answer

Don't do anything, he'll get over it. You smoked weed ONCE.

jabbajabbajaab · Answer

Keep smoking if you wanna. It's just weed and if he can't get over that little of an issue then that's a problem in my opinion. Gl

aguyintheworld · Answer

Tell him to lighten up Francis. Its just weed not heroin.

MoscowMitch · Answer

Your boyfriend is a boring old fart. Date someone your own age, you can do irresponsible stuff together.

Jon1108 · Answer

It'll be legal soon and probably already is in your neck of the woods, so umm tuff titty, he should hit a doobie he might like it, I can't stand uptight ass folks but I try not to judge either

Anonymous · Answer

If you like it and want to continue doing it, you'll need to find yourself a new partner.

1RealGem · Answer

Truth B Told I 38, I Have A Past That is Tight Bad Cept All My Really Bad Stuff was when I was Drinking I still Smoke it's not Legal Yet. I disagree with Ur Man.

naughtynabor · Answer

Dump your boyfriend and move to northern California

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Just give hime some time to cool off a bit then y'all can talk

Manuel2 · Answer

Listen to him. I have heard too many bad stories about weed or say cannabis.

m16jd · Answer

He's old enough he is probably parenting you... You need to drop one, the other, or both. Grow up

Sabretooth · Answer

it's low class, dangerous and causes one to drag others down with them-that's the big deal. i know-i had to live through it.

JustJen · Answer

Get yourself a new boyfriend!

Clayaya · Answer

Do what makes you happy. Which is more important? What do you want to do?

Nice222 · Answer

I would just ignore the situation. Don’t do it again and he will get over it soon enough.

Testaccount65754 · Answer

Why take weed though? There are so many legal alternatives that are better than it.

JP_Man · Answer

He has the right to remain silent. Do what you want. Some people judge it very fast without knowing anything about it...

sbkbala · Answer

Try smoking weed again ull find the best way to come out of it and to take ur relationship to the next level

Anonymous · Answer

He cares for you. If i was him i would be upset too. But don't force you to stop because weed not healthy everyone knows.

Brad23203 · Answer

With that age difference, I am very sure that he just wants you for your intellectual abilities.

lundbund · Answer

Be like yo stfu I do wha I want and I do wha I please

jamesey35 · Answer

Smoke it anyway probs won't be together that long anyway

ammie_marwah96 · Answer

Forget all the things and roll the joint &smoke up  #peace🙌

eric1978 · Answer

Nothing wrong with trying it out and he get over it

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