Guys, Would you be against marrying/being with a girl who chooses to be a housewife? (Page 2)

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A little curious about this. I really wouldn't have anything against working at home (maybe in the future be a stay at home mom). I believe in the whole women should be allowed to choose what they want to do etc, but for me there's no big job dream I have, and would rather try to help my husband by taking care of our home. Maybe do some part time occasionally. So wondering how you all feel about it, explain your opinion if you have one ☺

TheDud3 · Answer

I honestly would love to have a stay at home wife and help around at home as I pick up the financial duties. I personally don't see it any demeaning of this because a stay at home wife/mom still have their own duties and work at home. Anyone who owns their own home knows that it's a lot of work.

Ripper_E · Answer

I'm fine with it if I make enough for her to be a housewife. It's unrealistic for her to be a housewife if we can't afford to do that and she's a gold digger if she only wants to be with men that make a lot of money so she doesn't have to work.

SoWhAt249 · Answer

No but I would prefer it, but I wouldn't mind if she had to work, because I live in an area that doesn't pay a lot and I'm afraid we'd both have to work in order to tie up loose ends.

Beta_Wolf · Answer

🤔 does that mean she won't be spending any money? In that case you got space to get something nice instead of dedicating a whole room to clothes and shoes

ImagineSketchy · Answer

A housewife is basically a maid that's family... I don't need a maid though. I wouldn't be for the idea of being with a woman like that.

JamieHord79 · Answer

I would never ask a woman to get a job, if she wanted a job I would never say no and if she had a job I would never ask for one dime of the money she earned it would be 100% hers.

JacobRoto · Answer

I am also in favor of women having that choice. If anybody wants to work, they shouldn't be forced not to. But I think it's easier especially with kids to have one parent working one parent at home.

Michaelninet · Answer

Definitely, the children should be raised at home. And these days and times, it is perfectly okay to be a stay-at-home dad.

Jvpn22 · Answer

No, if we could afford it. It’s natural for a woman to raise children, that’s why her body is built to create them and then feed them.

Nic1330 · Answer

that is what i'm looking for in life, i don't have a problem with a woman who works but there's just something comforting about knowing i have a wife to come home to everyday that's ok with being there day in and day out

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Supporting women's choice is also supporting their right to NOT have a career. As long as they find a way to contribute fairly and equally to the family's living. I personally wouldn't want my wife to be a housewife.

Unit1 · Answer

Not for me. Money talks and money keeps draining out of our banks. Survival in modern times is a matter of financial status (the result of income minus the expenses).

GOOSEBOY78 · Answer

if thats what she want to do thats cool but its hard to exsist these days on just one income unless your super damn rich.

foxrider77 · Answer

I see no problem if she’s a French Maid and wears the outfit during her housewife duties.

serious · Answer

I never want to get married and so this question won't apply to me.

Anpu23 · Answer

I certainly would prefer it, but it's become much more difficult for single income families to make it.

Eagle_93 · Answer

I absolutely would marry a girl that chose to be a housewife. In fact I feel that is a VERY important position to hold. I think it's hot.

Anonymous · Answer

I would not be against it. It is actually my preference, and I think that's true for most men if they can afford it. Why in the word would a guy want to be married to a woman who places career aspiration before the welfare of her family and children?

your_guy_23 · Answer

I'd be fine with that tbh and I'd probably prefer it too as long as the woman is happy to do that then great haha

GingerbuffMan · Answer

If the relationship gets to the point of marriage the roll of both people should have been discussed and agreed upon long before that point.

Fiiggy · Answer

Unless we have 3+ children you're basically choosing to retire early while the husband gets to pay for everything.

jss123 · Answer

I could afford it financially but I'd never ask a woman to be a housewife. Its her choice. Obviously if we don't have kids yet I wouldn't be happy with that.. After a kid then maybe.

Chevyfan · Answer

I would love it for a women to stay home and take care of the home and kids. I would not have a problem with it at all as long as you can cook. lol.

Really nice. I didn’t know any girls would still stay home these days.

broken_heart_at_48 · Answer

I would prefer for her to do what she wants and what makes her happy

Walrus_au · Answer

If that is what she really wants in life, not a box she was shoved into. Then it's fine by me. It wouldn't be a deciding factor.

BloJo · Answer

I work so my wife can stay home. She does things out for a few days each week, but sometimes she is home all day.

soleil2666 · Answer

Disappointed - not. But with no preference. No plumbers though. If we can't fuck we divorce - nothing behind each others' backs.

NorthwestRider · Answer

I am not into submissive bimbos so no housewives for me

Quidthonian · Answer

I would want her to contribute financially to the household.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I wouldn't perfer a whole time house wife even if I was Bill Gates rich. I like women to be productive in society and to work.

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