Is it true that you are what you settle for?

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broken_heart_at_48 · Accepted Answer

So if you never settle and are always looking to improve then does that mean you're nothing or that you're evolving? I feel that no matter what to some degree everyone settles even if you're completely where you want to be in life there can be someone that's going to think you settled. Plus if you're in a situation where you settled you can always change your situation if you want to. So maybe in this it's what you are temporarily. Or let's say you're madly in love and you get married then after a few years your wife puts on some wait and starts not being who she was in the beginning should you stick to your word and stay or should you start looking for something better? (Yes I know you should talk to her and help her with her weight or really if you love her you shouldn't be so shallow) I can see both side of your question but I'd say no because we're human and have the ability to change our circumstances plus circumstances don't define who you are unless you let them

Theophain · Accepted Answer

What dose that even mean?
Like if you settle for less you are less?
That's as childish as you are what you eat.
You are who you are, you are where you are, and everyone is different with their own different circumstances their own different personalities etc.
At the end of the day the most positive thing about this sentence is you are and then you fill in the blank form there.

Bensbrie · Accepted Answer

Not really. If you choose a guy or girl and 100 percent believe they are the best, but they hide something from you and you dont know till later, its not your fault that you didn't know.

Regmorus · Answer

Yes, in the sense, that whatever you think you are, what you will really be and are is determined but what you settle for by a big part, and it's hard to be something else than what you settle for in a long perspective. Will change you to be it even if you actually weren't in the most cases. And so the final result will be, you are it.

humpbackjack · Answer

Not necessarily there are times when you might take on a job below your pay grade and it’s just temporary or say you are looking to buy a pure breed dog but you meet a mutt and fall for him or you meet some and fall in love and everyone outside of the relationship thinks you settled but you feel like she’s the best you only become something if you let yourself

Duckysback · Answer

I don’t settle for anything but the best. So yes, it’s true.

djmzes · Answer

Simple

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

No. It doesn't take in account the possibility of failure. There's a real world to contend with out here, wishing you had nice things doesn't make it so.

SirRexington · Answer

Not at all. Most often we settle for things because our ideal can't be met just yet.

RHK36 · Answer

It's a stupid quote from someone that died from a heroine overdose. I get the message they're trying to say, but it could be conveyed a better way.

yogosloth · Answer

Depends, lots of people like themselves to much and while deserve better. Others should learn to settle for what they barely have. in the end some will settle without any other options.

crazy8000 · Answer

1. Sometimes. 2. Some are. 3. Some other's aren't butt that says some other thing's.

DanOh2018 · Answer

Nope, we're all just ashes and dust. So do what ya will as long as you aren't hurting anyone.

sweet87 · Answer

That depends, some people never settle for anything!

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

That's absolutely true never settle for anything less than your worth

prashant9643 · Answer

Yes it's because you keep on trying until and unless you don't settle for something better than what actually you have

Anonymous · Answer

You're as good as you choose to be. People generally don't change but it doesn't mean they cannot. If you want to be a better person being alone is the best way to grow.

colin77 · Answer

In some cases... not all... lack of knowledge, fear, pressure make us always lead to that

whiteboy69 · Answer

100%. Plus, you are only what you hang around with.

ThirdEyeSkiitMask · Answer

No. You are you. What you settle for is a choice that should only be relevant to your personality.

Anoniemus · Answer

No but I don’t think one should settle

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes i believe that is true

ecfresh · Answer

Truth

robertKugler · Answer

Then they are as awesome as I think I am... lol

Chill_Meta · Answer

Sometimes it can be a reflection of your mentality

Smegskull · Answer

By that logic I am nothing.

Aussiedude1996 · Answer

Depends if you know what that person truly is.

uhhyeah · Answer

Yes buit what I setle for. Is what i wantttle.

Secret6620 · Answer

I agree with this 🖤

Disguise · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

No, i don't think i'm a cute girl

Ruby3 · Answer

Yes i think so

AdelSS04 · Answer

I believe in it

chriscdi · Answer

i hooe not

Junen · Answer

Noooo

mrcoolhk · Answer

Yesssss 100% agreed

COMMODOREII · Answer

Not me. 😆

Mehzmeh · Answer

Unfortunately yes.

mynameisRIS · Answer

No just don't settle

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