My boyfriend is a good person but he's oblivious when it comes to my need of assurance. What should I do? Help a sister out?

Hi guys. I am feeling confuse at the moment so i thought maybe posting my concern here would help me. Please share your opinions on what should i do to solve this. So here goes. In my country, today is our 15th day of quarantine so i haven't been able to see my boyfriend in a long time. He's house to my house only take 5 mins drive but sadly, i have a strict parents so i can't go out. But today my mom asked me to help her to buy groceries since only 1 person is allowed to go out to buy necessary supplies per household, so i had to go. So i went to see my boyfriend before buying the stuff. Everything was fine. We cuddled for awhile and i left. Fast forward, few hours ago, i had anxiety attack, so i called my boyfriend. But he was asleep so i apologise for waking him up and just ask him to go back to sleep and i hanged up. I felt sad and of course it doesn't help when im being attacked by anxiety 🙄 so i ended up texting him that the reason i called was because i was having anxiety attack. I was having difficulty to breath and my heart was racing and tears were running down my cheecks. But he didn't respond to that part of my text and only reply to the part where i wished him goodnight and said ily. So i was feeling disappointed and mixed feelings. So my main concern here is, i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and im telling you, he's a good guy. He loves me and takes care of me, my feelings and physically. But he is stupid when it comes to being responsive to my needs of attention. I don't know if he's doing it on purpose because he dont know how to handle it or because he is just plain stupid. And I've always struggle with that. I dont ask for much. I only ask whenever i have anxiety attacks once in awhile, i just want him to tell me why he loves me to calm me down. Sing to me like he did before. Or just simply be there to listen 😞 i know you can't get everything you want in this world but these kind of assurance are important to me. What should i do guys? Please help a sister out!
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And p. s. a, im not 45 plus years old. Im 21 and i guess i forgot to change my fake birthday date on facebook lolol
My boyfriend is a good person but he's oblivious when it comes to my need of assurance. What should I do? Help a sister out?
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