Wife seems uninterested in me, am I over thinking it?

[Toodroopy32]

[SueShe]

There are many possible causes for that apparent lack of interest. Ask yourself what could have cause this lack. Was it sudden or progressive and if it was sudden, then something happened that caused this change.

I would suggest you prepare a list of issues you think are the possible cause for this lack of enthusiasm and bring concrete solutions to each of the problems. Now, ask your spouse to prepare a similar but independent list from yours.

After that, you sit together and go over both lists and try to find a consensus that is acceptable to both. It is important that both of you are relaxed about this exercise and don't pressure the other one or that none of you is angry.

It is counterproductive to be accusatory or deny one's own faults and try to blame the other. If you want this issue resolved, both have to be honest with themselves and with the partner. Seeking the contact and conversation is always the best solution to try to solve any type of issue.

[Iron_Man]

Sue how does it make you feel when you type out a 15 minute or 30 minute post and it gets completely Ignored and you dont get most Helpful Award out of all that trouble?

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man That does not bother me really. I like to give meaningful answers to a number of questions. If it helps, I am glad about it but I am not seeking recognition.

[Iron_Man]

Good Answer 👍

[Iron_Man]

@SueShe This user is just like you, she Types like you post real long like you and seems to know about me like you do and she says the same words as you do when posting. Hmmmm 🤔

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/user/spirit1998

[Iron_Man]

@SueShe

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man I cannot see any posts of that person since the profile is private and I don't know her. Next time you see her, make a reference to me and I will see if she is perhaps taking my replies.

I had a case in the past where an answer that I gave was used, word for word by someone else. I had reported that person for plagiarism and the account was removed.

[Iron_Man]

She talked to me as well In Privat Message and sounds just like you and told me I give out good answers short but to the point. And she's new here

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man Sorry, but I don't know this free spirit :-)

However, it is true that you give short answers that are to the point (s) if you get the drift...

[Iron_Man]

@SueShe I don't think I'm going to talk to her anymore Its just to weird she's the spitting image of you. This happens to me a lot on here I talk to girls and they make duplicate accounts and they talk to me on another account for reasons I don't know why I guess to check on me to see if I'm being loyal to them or not. I am not even committed to the girls here
Just because I'm nice they act like I'm there's. One time I was talking to two different girls and the other girl saw me and got mad at me and blocked me one time

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man yes, that would be a typical woman behavior. Best to stay single. I have been preaching this for a long time :-)

[Iron_Man]

I have been but forever is a long time. I'm not a
loner

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man No need to go forever. Just limit it to 80 years :-)

[Iron_Man]

LoL I need a woman in my life one day. Thanks for chatting with me. 🙂

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man no worries. I may be busy later in the day and will not likely be very active for the next couple of hours.

[Iron_Man]

That's fine take care of your business and have a beautiful Saturday

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man Same to you and don't forget that tomorrow is Sunday. You can sleep in a little and not be up so early all the time :-)

[zoe2187]

If she married you it means she had interest in you at some point.

[Bhavin2184]

Best option is to ask her directly about this. She might give proper reason to your problem and suggested something to do by which you can have interesting relationship.

[shortster]

Talk to her about it; maybe she just needs some alone time.

[Iron_Man]

Put her to the test and find out for sure. Make sure she's not cheating on you tag her have a friend be on the look out for you