If you found out that your partner has a sex video of the ex, would you still stick around with him or her? (Page 2)

[Abxah]

Break up with them. If it was used maliciously, like revenge porn, what makes me think they wouldn’t record us together as well? If he’s just into sex tapes or whatever though, that’d be fine by me. I’d still have trust issues though.

[Justeenie]

Heck yeah, I'd want to see it so I could make a way better one with him and I.

[RemoErdosain]

That's the spirit!

[TJFreshman22]

I would but only after we uploaded a way hotter one (or several) and posted them online to show him all that he's lost out on and top him.

[ChiTown33]

Like in her possession? Or do you mean like out on the internet. Because in her possession rhat would be a definite no.

[CikaZivan]

If i hope to marry a person, and have a family, i'd expect her to have everything from the past deleted. If that's not the case, we'd have a serious talk which might result in a break up.

[likelyOK]

I would ask him to delete it and if he refused I'd say goodbye.

[Y3333T]

I would question them why they have it and ask them to delete it.

[burlen]

What has an old sex video with an ex got to do with your relationship?

[skeetskeetskeet]

If i wasn't with her when she filmed it then what business is it of mine... I've always found that with shit like this you can either accept it or be lied to so your insecure ego can live on

[HereBeSteph]

There's two things that would have to both be true to make it so I would:

1. They were upfront and told me, it's not to a secret

2. Their ex knows and is okay with it

[KingdomForAKiss]

In their posession, that's a no. Why would they save something like that?

[not329446]

Sure. If they still have it I'd say it's something they do or did enjoy. Try to explore this as an opportunity, you may like it.

[funride74]

I'd make a better one with my partner so she will forget about the old shit

[BlessedDaddy]

As long as I was able to see it.

Why would I care what someone did when I didn't know them?

[Drumlin2001]

I wouldn't see it as a big deal, unless watched it regularily. That would be weird

[cth96190]

I would watch the video. 🤣
I do not see a problem here.

[Loverguy69s]

Soon he will have your video too and maybe he might even upload it on pornhub hahaha

[cth96190]

@Loverguy69s
For about five years, I made a video every three months (behind the scenes) while I was the group edutor for Australia’s then largest publisher of pornography.
Sex is up there with breathing and eating as natural acts.
The people with whom I worked were turned on by the idea that millions of people would watch (via a video recording).
Nobody would have done it for the money, which was pathetically small.

[codyccc]

Yes it not a big deal i might even actually watch it to see if there is something she likes im not doing

[TonyT1986]

Good question, lol thankfully I haven’t run into this situation yet. Honestly would depend on my feelings for her.

[Anonymous]

Don’t know. But I’ll show him mine if he’ll show me his 😬

[Red_Arrow]

Nice!

[Agem123]

I'd have a conversation with him about it first, then it depends on how the "talk" goes.