I lost my girlfriend due to video gaming... how do I get her back?

[Anonymous]

We dated for 7 months and texted every day. Everything was going well but then I started playing a lot more video games than usual. I ignored her texts and calls for days. I used to go to her house during the weekends but I stopped due to video games. I didn't want to bring my console to her house. She was upset that I ignored her and we broke up. Now I miss her. How do I get her back?

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+1 y

Stop video gaming will not help me get her back. It's not like the moment I stop playing video game, she'll magically text me again. She broke up with me.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

The first step in getting her back is admitting you are an addict. And to do that, you gotta quit dude. You can't have both. You have an addictive personality, its a compulsion that you cannot control, so to win her back, you first have to prove to her that you are in control, not the shady pile of crap who ignored her for days at a time.

Throw all your shit away, or give it to friends, sell it, whatever, just get rid of it and focus on your life.

[OlderAndWiser]

You ignored her for your own selfish obsession. Why should she give you a second chance?

[On_the_other_hand]

If you really want her back... give her your console. Let her destroy it, not sell it, or give it away. Let her vent on that thing.

Anything else is you just wanting her back without changing nearly enough.

[On_the_other_hand]

She broke up with you because you didn't prioritize her. Getting rid of your console lets her know there will be no competition because games will not be part of your life anymore. But I doubt you'll do it. If you bring it to her as a gesture of what you are willing to do to get her back then you might have a chance.

[StephenCF]

Give up the obsessive childish gaming and get a life like a man (whether you’re still under 18 or not). That might win her over 😒

[magiusX26]

just move on. you fucked up and typically there is no fixing this type of thing. selfishness like that is usually a deal breaker that is permanent. learn from the mistake and move on.

[mikee2020]

stop playing video games , grow up and start doing things that she is looking for,,, ie house job , security, car shit like that

[ManHater]

grow up to be a man. Throw your stupid toy box in the trash can.

[Slim57]

Forget her find someone who likes gaming too

[reptocarl2]

Stop video gaming

[Asker]

That doesn't help me get her back. She broke up with me.

[Iron_Man]

Quit the gameplay

[Asker]

That doesn't help me get her back. She broke up with me.

[Iron_Man]

Tell her you quit and kiss her ass on the phone