I'm single but definitely not boring even though sometimes I think I am because in the parties that I find Lame most people are smoking, doing drugs and drinking till they past out. While I drink maybe 3 glasses of beer and then I don't want to be drunk and I just want to dance. So it depends on the people I'm with, I can't lie to myself so if I'm bored and I find no interest on the people I'm around with then I'll be very silent and leave asap. However if I'm alone or around people I like or that I want to know more then quickly I'm funny, gentle and full of idea, unpredictable.
I thinm I could be very boring and annoying lol I want attention from people i care of course and when i seek for that, I went on it hard and fast, i will be everywhere around them 😅 but most of the time i just wanna be alone, dont wanna talk or go anywhere, i dont mind company tho, just sit with me in silence is fine
For me, I like certain things considered nerdy/boring... But I can probably talk about a lot of different things and somehow find something to talk about that I know or find interesting with a lot of people (if anyone cared)... so sometimes I feel like I'm boring, and I hate that I'm boring by most standards... but most of the time, I realize I'm just boring TO THEM... and I'd probably find them boring, too.
I dont think im boring, neither does anyone who knows me, maybe. Im much different in my day to day life, than you here may think. Im a serious person a lot of tthe time. Studying bio for pre med, am kind to people until I see they need their teeth corrected, and Im actually a virgin, to be honesst I've never had sex with a human being., Not to imply anything vulgar, but just one... come and pet your doggy look.. is worth a dozen smileing human beings!!
I dont think im boring at all. I am always seeking new ideas or activities. I always can find something fun to do. You can put me in an empty white room white from floor to ceiling and all four walls and I can guarantee you I will find something to do even if it's staring at those walls looking at the different shades of white.
Now im not single but when I was for 3 years straight it was because I chose to be. I needed a break.
I like specific things, like cooking, and some craft things, and I have always found some that share similar interests. Most my think that is boring, but it is different, and something I share with people that like the same things! Not everyone wants to sky-dive, or climb mountains!! :)
Boring to who? Different strokes for different folks. You might be boring for those people but interesting to other people.
One might be living a meditative and mindful lifestyle and that's all. A lot of people might find that boring. But then there are others that find that intriguing.
By the way, can you give an example of a boring person? Or the traits of one. I'm just curious.
I'm boring. I don't have a social life anymore. I don't share much Of myself with people. If I do open up there's a lot of trauma. I mostly have hobbies that are singular and keep me healthy. Cycling, running, swimming. I don't drink nor smoke. Although I love music I don't go clubbing (I was attacked 3 times ending with me injured another triggered my anxiety) The previous friendships I had lead me to constant humiliation.
I'm only "boring" for people who can't hold an intellectual conversation and only think about parties and drinking. Why? Because I don't drink, nor do I waste my time with bars, parties and getting drunk.
On the contrary, I always have people who want to do stuff with me like doing stuff outside, traveling, going to the gym etc.
Not to forget to mention that if I was "boring" then I wonder how I can maintain a relationship.
Not boring. I'm the friend who tries to pull my friends away from their self-induced comas and go do fun and interesting things. I also like to party and live like I'm still in my 20's, although I'm responsible in that I take care of my adult responsibilities in life as well. Most people just seem to give up on excitement and fall into boring routines after 30.
Depends on the context. I have friends of mine who find me very fun to hang out with or talk to and I've got friends who say I'm not living life or that I'm boring. So I'm not really sure. What I do know is that I'm happy the way my life is, it's interesting for me. And I've never let a relationship dictate whether my life is interesting or not.
I have my own interests I like to talk about a lot, I have a lot to say about many things in general, and many people seem to enjoy talking to me so I'm not boring but I also don't talk much, so few people get to know me. The reason I'm single and lonely is because I'm very introverted and suffer from social anxiety so I never initiate conversations or spend any time around strangers.
First of all thanks for that attention grabbing pic you posted for this question, she got a sexy cleavage. Anyways, Yes I feel some people find me boring but I am not hurt by this. I know I'm interesting, I really don't mind if other's don't find me interesting.
I’m definitely not boring, but still single because I have a hard time connecting with men romantically and I don’t let people “in” easily, so my singleness is definitely a “me” problem, but not because I’m boring
I find " small talk " boring that's for sure , some may find me boring... I will likely find them equally boring , I get on with those that like caustic humour & intelligent conversation / debate , but like to keep myself to myself. I am single by choice , never want to endure the hell of a relationship again , knowing taking on single fatherhood will mean single for the rest of my life.
I'm definitely not boring, but I'm very definitely single! I think not having a partner allows me to enjoy the variety of mischief life has to offer, without worrying about fitting in with someone else's life too.
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Nope. Not boring. I enjoy a variety of interests: intellectual, cultural, food, sports... Mostly I am the one that becomes bored. Not so much by people, but in general. Since you use that pic: I used to do climbing / hiking by the way, but no extreme stuff, amateur level.
Besides my interesting jobs I have had. Yeah I would say I am not very exciting probably. At least in my mind cause I lack confidence when it comes to women. I don't really have a lot to offer in my mind, but I think that's also just mainly because I am insecure about the way I look. I have had Alopecia for 7 years now. I don't think I can be confident in my current state. I have too much hair loss everywhere.
it's because of the Kung Flu and also because I don't have many friends who like to do all sorts of things. I have many interests but in the end I only go to partys and swim by myself. it's kinda unusual that I would have to start all my interests on my own because nobody I know would like to join.. I could find people once I started doing it so that's a tought
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I'm single but definitely not boring even though sometimes I think I am because in the parties that I find Lame most people are smoking, doing drugs and drinking till they past out.
While I drink maybe 3 glasses of beer and then I don't want to be drunk and I just want to dance. So it depends on the people I'm with, I can't lie to myself so if I'm bored and I find no interest on the people I'm around with then I'll be very silent and leave asap.
However if I'm alone or around people I like or that I want to know more then quickly I'm funny, gentle and full of idea, unpredictable.
I thinm I could be very boring and annoying lol
I want attention from people i care of course and when i seek for that, I went on it hard and fast, i will be everywhere around them 😅 but most of the time i just wanna be alone, dont wanna talk or go anywhere, i dont mind company tho, just sit with me in silence is fine
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For me, I like certain things considered nerdy/boring... But I can probably talk about a lot of different things and somehow find something to talk about that I know or find interesting with a lot of people (if anyone cared)... so sometimes I feel like I'm boring, and I hate that I'm boring by most standards... but most of the time, I realize I'm just boring TO THEM... and I'd probably find them boring, too.
I dont think im boring, neither does anyone who knows me, maybe. Im much different in my day to day life, than you here may think. Im a serious person a lot of tthe time. Studying bio for pre med, am kind to people until I see they need their teeth corrected, and Im actually a virgin, to be honesst I've never had sex with a human being., Not to imply anything vulgar, but just one... come and pet your doggy look.. is worth a dozen smileing human beings!!
I dont think im boring at all.
I am always seeking new ideas or activities.
I always can find something fun to do.
You can put me in an empty white room white from floor to ceiling and all four walls and I can guarantee you I will find something to do even if it's staring at those walls looking at the different shades of white.
Now im not single but when I was for 3 years straight it was because I chose to be.
I needed a break.
I like specific things, like cooking, and some craft things, and I have always found some that share similar interests. Most my think that is boring, but it is different, and something I share with people that like the same things! Not everyone wants to sky-dive, or climb mountains!! :)
Boring to who?
Different strokes for different folks.
You might be boring for those people but interesting to other people.
One might be living a meditative and mindful lifestyle and that's all. A lot of people might find that boring. But then there are others that find that intriguing.
By the way, can you give an example of a boring person? Or the traits of one. I'm just curious.
I'm boring.
I don't have a social life anymore.
I don't share much Of myself with people.
If I do open up there's a lot of trauma.
I mostly have hobbies that are singular and keep me healthy. Cycling, running, swimming.
I don't drink nor smoke.
Although I love music I don't go clubbing (I was attacked 3 times ending with me injured another triggered my anxiety)
The previous friendships I had lead me to constant humiliation.
I'm only "boring" for people who can't hold an intellectual conversation and only think about parties and drinking. Why? Because I don't drink, nor do I waste my time with bars, parties and getting drunk.
On the contrary, I always have people who want to do stuff with me like doing stuff outside, traveling, going to the gym etc.
Not to forget to mention that if I was "boring" then I wonder how I can maintain a relationship.
Not boring. I'm the friend who tries to pull my friends away from their self-induced comas and go do fun and interesting things. I also like to party and live like I'm still in my 20's, although I'm responsible in that I take care of my adult responsibilities in life as well. Most people just seem to give up on excitement and fall into boring routines after 30.
its crazy, but u r what u believe u r. make sense?
if u believe u r weak and can't do something, u won't. but, if u work hard and believe u can do it, u will.
boring?, no, not boring, just different. i have fun in ways u dont, does not necessarily mean i am boring.
same for u.
Depends on the context. I have friends of mine who find me very fun to hang out with or talk to and I've got friends who say I'm not living life or that I'm boring.
So I'm not really sure. What I do know is that I'm happy the way my life is, it's interesting for me.
And I've never let a relationship dictate whether my life is interesting or not.
I have my own interests I like to talk about a lot, I have a lot to say about many things in general, and many people seem to enjoy talking to me so I'm not boring but I also don't talk much, so few people get to know me.
The reason I'm single and lonely is because I'm very introverted and suffer from social anxiety so I never initiate conversations or spend any time around strangers.
First of all thanks for that attention grabbing pic you posted for this question, she got a sexy cleavage.
Anyways, Yes I feel some people find me boring but I am not hurt by this. I know I'm interesting, I really don't mind if other's don't find me interesting.
I’m definitely not boring, but still single because I have a hard time connecting with men romantically and I don’t let people “in” easily, so my singleness is definitely a “me” problem, but not because I’m boring
I find " small talk " boring that's for sure , some may find me boring... I will likely find them equally boring , I get on with those that like caustic humour & intelligent conversation / debate , but like to keep myself to myself. I am single by choice , never want to endure the hell of a relationship again , knowing taking on single fatherhood will mean single for the rest of my life.
I'm definitely not boring, but I'm very definitely single! I think not having a partner allows me to enjoy the variety of mischief life has to offer, without worrying about fitting in with someone else's life too.
Nope. Not boring. I enjoy a variety of interests: intellectual, cultural, food, sports...
Mostly I am the one that becomes bored. Not so much by people, but in general.
Since you use that pic: I used to do climbing / hiking by the way, but no extreme stuff, amateur level.
Besides my interesting jobs I have had. Yeah I would say I am not very exciting probably. At least in my mind cause I lack confidence when it comes to women. I don't really have a lot to offer in my mind, but I think that's also just mainly because I am insecure about the way I look. I have had Alopecia for 7 years now. I don't think I can be confident in my current state. I have too much hair loss everywhere.
it has nothing to do with me being single.
it's because of the Kung Flu and also because I don't have many friends who like to do all sorts of things. I have many interests but in the end I only go to partys and swim by myself.
it's kinda unusual that I would have to start all my interests on my own because nobody I know would like to join.. I could find people once I started doing it so that's a tought