Guy I’m dating is a mean drunk. I'm not sure what to do. Any advice? (Page 2)

Question

I’ve been dating a guy for a few months, we get on really well and were friends before.  He likes to drink a lot when he’s out/in lockdown, but doesn’t know when to stop. When he’s drunk he gets really obnoxious and can be mean. He undermines our relationship, says contradictory things, acts immature and is really sarcastic and rude. And would forget it all the next day. This happened a few times.   It hurts my feelings and already caused me to end things. He was apologetic and as we got on so well I agreed to give things another go.  but he doesn’t see anything wrong with this though and says I take things the wrong way, he’s a nice guy and it’s not like he killed anyone, and if I can’t see past it I have to deal with it. He doesn’t think this needs to change and can’t see why I can’t just forget it.   It hurts me more that he disrespects me and upsets me when he’s had a drink but doesn’t seem to care.  When he’s not drunk we get on really well. In fact he goes on about what a good thing we have, planning our future and how special he thinks I am and he wants me in his life.  Am I overreacting? I’m not sure what to think, I’ve never come across a guy like this. Some advice would really help?

michael1469 · Answer

Leave. You dont need dat shit.

Sabretooth · Answer

it'll only get worse.

Anonymous · Answer

Just know it's mot likely not going to get better.

ArcticBliss · Answer

Leave him

Aloneguy34 · Answer

drunk guys are not good for your health

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Leave.

allenwants2 · Answer

Split

Guy I’m dating is a mean drunk. I'm not sure what to do. Any advice? (Page 2)

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