I love him, should I tell him?

[Anonymous]

Hello, been seeing this guy for about 7 months now. I feel so much strong feelings for him that I can’t think straight. I miss him as soon as he leaves. He is the first thing I think about when I wake and the last thing before I sleep. I know I love him, but im afraid to tell him. I kind of think that the guy should say it first. But this feeling i feel is too much to hold back. When we are alone and I like I want to tell him he knows when I want to say something but I hold it back and he ask me what do I want to say, but then I wimp out and say it’s nothing. I’m afraid that he doesn’t feel the same or I’m going too fast or if he does what then. I had my heart broken before and it hurt me to my core. I’m scared of being vulnerable to the wrong man again. What should I do?

[Darcia]

It shouldn’t be a race or contest to see who will tell who first. If your feelings are there tell him how you feel he most likely will be feeling the same way. If you keep it bottled in and waiting for him to say it, how many more years are you going to wait on that? And will the opportunity still be out there or out of the window?

[devilish-cutie]

Tell him you feel you might be falling for him. That leaves some space for his reqction without you fully exposing ysf. But besides, if you love him, own it. You feel like you do.

[Asker]

I have told him that my feelings for him are getting stronger. He held me closer abs said his feelings for me are also strong. Thanks for the advice. It helped a lot.

[devilish-cutie]

Glad i helped :)

[ItsTheNephilim]

Tell him. For how long do you think you can keep all your feelings about him to yourself?

[Iron_Man]

Yes your A woman you’re 40

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Definitely tell him!

[jevvo]

Yup tell him