Why is my boyfriend acting reckless and cold all of a sudden?

[Anonymous]

We have been in a relationship for 5 months, but 2 days ago he suddenly started acting like a reckless and boring one. When I texted him he replied me like "Okay. , I understand. ''
So , at the end of the day I texted him on whatsapp I said ; if you don't want to text me then , throw seen don't reply me, I won't be disturbed by it. Then he didn't text me back again. Next evening ,
I went to see him after his working hours , but he made gestures that ignored me when I asked him why you're acting like this? replied with anger tone ''you're talking nonsense , did you come for this '' then walked fast. I decided to go home, when I walk he called me and asked where are you like he cares , when I said I'm going home. He just said OK. and we are not talking for 2 days.
Why is he acting like this? What should I do?

[Anonymous]

You're acting like a child.

Let's recap
You claim he is acting reckless and boring. Those two things are not the same, and could even be considered opposites. So you're off to a great start.
You text him. He replies "Okay. I understand." THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS REPLY.
Then you, for some reason, decide to act like some entitled bitch on your WhatsApp and passively and aggressively lay the blame on him. You also lie when you claim you won't be disturbed by a non-reply when your actions show you very clearly will be.

You go to his work place, uninvited. He ignores you. (WORK). You pretend you don't know why he's acting like this, and he rightfully asks if you only came over for an argument and fight? He has zero interest in this and leaves.

You go home without telling him, he checks up on you, and sees you've left.

So you get upset over nothing, lie to him on WhatsApp, turn up at his work and try to start a bullshit argument then storm off home.

And you want to know what's wrong with HIM?

You are a crazy bitch.

[Asker]

I tried to tell , he is talking unusually he never reply my text or me like that way. Ofc OK and I understand is not wrong :)
I didn't go to his work place, we all the time met in our place after his work and go to somewhere I went there. I didn't ashamed him in his workplace.
I went to home without telling him because he ignored me he didn't even look at me when he saw me then walked faster and faster without looking back and lefted me back.
You can think whatever you want I just wanna explain.
take care

[FakeNIK]

Maybe he's stressed from work or he's just busy there could be multiple reasons for now don't think negative give him some time if he doesn't reply meet with him in person ask calmly what's wrong

[Asker]

I thought like that. If he had a problem he would tell me when I told him, he's definitely a very outspoken person. Maybe he feels strange from me I don't know -.-

[FakeNIK]

Don't think too much, wait for 2-3 days if you don't receive a call then give him a visit.

[FakeNIK]

Your love is not going to fade away in just 2 days. So don't worry & just relax 😉

[Asker]

Thank you.. really. ^^
I'm just so emotional person. And I'm afraid because he broke up w me before I don't wanna this to be repeated...

[FakeNIK]

Well I'm sad to hear that honestly I didn't know that you you guys broke up earlier. I don't wanna sound negative but don't let your guard down. If this has happened earlier then there's a chance that he could do that again

[FakeNIK]

Meanwhile give him time & try to control your emotions.

[Asker]

thank you :))

[Bfly004]

You can give him some space.. complete space dnt text or call for a few days. If he doesn't respond let him know what you mean to him but how he's been making you feel lately and how you want to know if he still wants to continue in this relationship. If you mean something to him he will try to work it out if not he's going to continue to be careless... but remember give him his space let him miss you

[Asker]

I will give I didn't text him we'll see , im already regretfull I guess I lost my control, I strangled..
Thank you"**.**

[sourgummy]

Sometimes they do this if they are having a rough day. But if it happenes more often he might be falling out of love or cheating

[MarkyMark77]

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[sourgummy]

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[DWornock]

Don't do anything except to attempt to please him the best you can assuming you want to continue the relationship. It may be that he knows he can do better but that you are fine provided it is convenient to him and that you are not beginning to make demands for more from the relationship.

[Avicenna]

It has nothing to do with you. Something from anothercpart of his life set him off.

[SandandWaves]

he feels bad about something..

[melnc]

Give him some time and space.