Why is my boyfriend acting strange?

[Kaylababe36]

im 19.and when my boyfriend and I i first met,it was like love at first sight.im his first asian girlfriend and he's black and totally hot.we had a lot of things in common and texted and talked like crazy.he was a little clingy at first but as for me I liked it that way.we did lots of sweet things.one day my keyboard wouldn't work we just talked to each other using emoticons.he said he wasn't in this for sex,but we talked about it a lot.(once we were joking about he getting a booty call from another girl and he said something like if my girlfriend fails to woman up,then the answer is ummmm..i asked for a yes or no,but he just kept ummmmming...)and he said I was too intense when it comes to it.on our first and second dates he just entered me by his finger.but on the third date while we were just making out and he tries to enter me by his cock...anyway,then I let him because somehow I was kinda desperate ,it wasn't my first time but he was so big,i didn't let him go further since it was too much pain for me.then the second time we tried it it was all the same.all the time he texted less and less.but when I threatened to leave he freaked out and he was affectionate every time when he was around me.hes in his final stages of his thesis but isn't there not enough time to reply a text?according to him ,everytime we had sex everything always started out great and he prepared 4 it with great care and now he was just scared blablabla(but I knew I blew it) and he said I was unpredictable.a few days ago we had sex again.this time it was great.i felt the pleasure and he came twice.we went a little back to "normal"that night and after.but three days later he stopped texting me again.i called him .he rejectd my call.(im not dumb.i know what it means when the ringtong goes on for 3 times or so then "im sorry the number your dialling is busy")i asked him about it,he freaked out and said he was mad...we haven't talked since.

if he does not like me anymore,why is he keeping me as his gf?hes totally hot and can get any girl he wants.lots of girls flirt with him...thats totally weird

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im just curious why he's acting this way?is he spoiled?

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+1 y

yesterday we talked and I ended the conversation in a quite unpleasant way. today he texted me"maybe we could just be friends,"and I "i guess so and good luck with your thesis" he said"thx take care then" now he sounds totally not like using me again

[Chrissy0038]

he OBVIOUSLY got what he wanted that's why he's not acting like he was before. he got sex from u... usually guys act super nice and sweet and loving so they can get what they want... and now that he's acting weird because of it... then you can tell he doesn't like u. or has no interest in you anymore... only when he wants sex... hell decid to hit you up... I don't know hun you should just deffinitly just dump him. he's gnna hurt you really bad at the end. you can do better. someone who will treat you 100 times better. who cares if he's hot or what not. he's a jerk! and he's treating you like a bitch. forget him, don't even bother chasing him around to dump him or whatever, just dnt even call him or text him. let him call you when he realizes he doesn't have you anymore... if he really likes you hell come back, and if he doesn't who cares... don't worry too much over it

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

I disagree, he won't call her cause he wants her back cause he likes her, he'll call her back cause he wants sex from her. She should just drop him and forget him entirely and ignore him entirely. He sounds like a manipulative d***.

[Chrissy0038]

true!

[golfer_wi]

I'm thinking he does like you but maybe he just isn't all that serious about the relationship and isn't quite ready to be exclusive or maybe just doesn't want to hang with you as much as you do with him? Ya know, there are probably other guys out there that you'll find just as attractive that will want to be with you night and day and make you the priority.

That's what a relationship should be. Each person makes the other the priority in their lives, otherwise it's not gonna work.

[iwillanswer]

its possible he's worried that you don't want to further your relationship with him becouse the first couple of times he tried to have sex with you you didn't let him or he could be keeping you around becouse he likes to have sex with you but doesn't like you as a gf

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Why does it matter if you're Asian and he's black? That's just silly.

And honestly, that sounds like some bullsh*t. You shouldn't have given into him. He sounds like, from as far as I can tell, an immature guy who is just trying to get some "sweet piece of Asian ass." Probably is trying to keep you so he can f*** you and f*** other girls. Dump him, move on, find a better more mature guy and don't give into someone so easily next time.

[StupidCupid]

He's hot. That's cool, but he isn't the only one. Move on. If you can get this hot guy you can get another one. Just being straight up. Give him a shock and tell him to get lost. You can do better :)

[AcEMasTeR]

oh I couldn't put it better myself!

[MahJaY]

no no no smh.