Can I save my relationship, even though I'm pregnant by my boyfriend's father? (Page 2)

[Agape93]

Troll

[TheFlak38]

whore alert

[Anonymous]

Tell him truth and go for abortion

[In_Trance]

I doubt it

[Anonymous]

why not just abort the bastard child

[Asker]

Because it's not the one to blame and my morals don't let me, even if I did abort I'd still feel guilty for cheating and generally being a bad person.

[lillianaustin]

yeah, a lot of people are against it

[Opinion Owner]

@lillianaustin Are you both pro-life?

[lillianaustin]

huh?

[Opinion Owner]

@lillianaustin Are you against abortion?

[lillianaustin]

yes, I am against abortion

[Opinion Owner]

@lillianaustin ok, np

[Asker]

I'm pro-choice but this is MY babe, ya know? It's... Different. I don't know.

[lillianaustin]

but it's not his, though, if you know what I mean

[lillianaustin]

oh, so pro-life means not having an abortion? I actually didn't understand what you meant at first, but I answered the question, anyways

[Asker]

@lillianaustin Pro-life means that you believe all life is sacred, even in the womb. Pro-choice means that you believe that it's the woman's body and she gets to choose whether or not to abort.

[lillianaustin]

ohhh, so there is also pro-choice? I am pro-life, when he asked me I didn't understand what he meant at first

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry to add confusion. You are free to keep your baby or not but you can't lie to your boyfriend about it

[Asker]

It's done now.

[Asker]

I'd delete the thread but I can't yet

[Opinion Owner]

What is? You told him?

[LazyProphet]

You're looking at it wrong in my opinion, I hate when people say "its not the child's fault" as a reason to not get an abortion, of course its not the child's fault, it never is, you get an abortion when it is impractical to bring a child into the world, and circumstances like yours. The worst decision you can make in this situation is to not tell your now fiance, or you prefer he finds out when the child is grown? Basically, it is not your right to make the decision on whether or not your fiance stay together. by the way, first couple months, when abortions are allowed, it is NOT a child yet, you are not taking a life, just preventing one, there's a difference.

[Asker]

@LazyProphet I am pro-choice, I agree with a lot of what you say but the thing about pro-choice is that I have to choose.
I told my boyfriend that the child is his, changed the dates around and made up a fitting narrative timeline.
Yes that's shitty and cruel but I have no other choice, I'd have deleted the thread (as in my opinion the issue is resolved) but I cannot because it is a "great thread".
I will anonymise it tomorrow instead.
https:// imgur. com/ 8YtQLXP

[Anonymous]

Wtf.