Are people able to love unconditionally?

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I think it’s possible.

kamalravi25 · Accepted Answer

Its only possible if you understand the true concept of love. That is total dedication towards your partner. Keep loving without any expectation of love in return from the person you love. This is only the first part of love which is for us humans.
The second part of love is when you attain an endless spiritual bond with that person and become his/her devotee. When yours and theirs spirit become one such that its even impossible for time, fate, destiny to separate them. Such love can only be seen in god.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Unconditionally for your partner? No. Never. For parents, it's definitely possible to see through rose coloured glasses.

But in a relationship, it always comes down to at least loving them as a person and even that is not very common nowadays. If someone suddenly makes a bad turn in their lives, making bad decisions that their partner doesn't agree with, they can suddenly find themselves alone.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

sure, some people are able to love unconditionally.
Whether that's going to lead to a healthy relationship, though, is another question..

In my opinion, 'unconditional love'- meaning loving someone, regardless of their lifestyle choices, how they treat you/themselves, etc., is like the gateway drug to a toxic, co-dependent relationship. I know love is great and all but it's super important to draw clear boundaries for what you'll put up with for not only your good, but the other person's as well.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Like one user said people tend to love thier children and pets unconditionally. Significant other I don't know, I gues it depends. I've seen it in tv shows before like in Gossip Girl Chuck always loved Blair, and she always loved him. I know it's just tv but who knows it could happen in real life too. I gues it all just depends on the person.  Chuck & Blair

Elsa143 · Answer

NO, NO AND NO!! There is no 'unconditional' love. Unconditional means "you can do WHATEVER you and that person will love you with the same intensity".
Even the sensitive, loyal and loving ones have their breaking points!
They will eventually fall out of love if you keep abusing them, mistreating them, kicking them, hurting them and enslaving them.
I hope that answers your questions. If still not satisfied then TRY doing that. Even the best of the best will surrender and run away.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

People often love children and pets unconditionally.

It is much rarer with a spouse because its a sexual love, so conditions like don't cheat, or don't stop fucking me, or don't be a gold digger exists.

Logically the only way for it to be unconditional with a spouse would be to not care about your own safety (ie not worry about infection risk, loss of the partner's financial or emotional support when needed, etc.)

Anonymous · Answer

i dont think unconditional love is possible... stuff happens. would you still love someone if they became a serial killer? what if they fucked your cat? touched your little sister? you can love someone with every being in your soul but there are some fucked up things in this world that can rarely, but sometimes, get in the way with that and if you do love someone after the horrible things i mentioned fuck you.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Love is obviously conditional to respect and expectations. Unconditional love is a term that throws responsibility and accountability for ones actions out the window. A king or queen wouldn't even get unconditional love, its a FANTASY

sofiec · Answer

I unconditionally love everyone. It's okay if you don't deserve it. That's why it's unconditional.  Unconditional love corrupts unconditionally.

0112358 · Answer

Their kids: yes. Anyone else (including other family): no. Ask yourself this: if this person committed heinous crimes would you still love them?

serious · Answer

In reality it is not possible to love anybody unconditionally.

nevernevernever · Answer

Yes, good parents will usually love their kids unconditionally

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

BAAHH... Listen closely, Panda. For the past 5 decades (I don’t actually know) it’s always been about the “STEP FOURTH, AND SUCK MY DIK”. This thing you call love is basically make-belief. How are you gonna turn THIS, into THIS? Huh?

WesBrewer · Answer

I would say yes, but no because thee is always one condition, like she is beautiful or she is nice.

blondfrog · Answer

Your update says everything about you. Yes of course. Just cause you never experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't happen to others.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Nobody loves anyone unconditionally, not even yourself. You might love yourself bc there is no other option

kales96 · Answer

I believe in this 100%. If a person can't do this, a relationship can't be met

Iron_Man · Answer

She might love money that the guy has so she kisses his ass so she can be a part of it it’s not real true love

Anonymous · Answer

Men can love unconditionally. Women love as long as it’s convenient for them and the man continues to keep all the check boxes checked.

Hanrej · Answer

Depends on who. I love my son unconditionally but no one else.

Anonymous · Answer

i think that is a very rare thing to be honest

Anonymous · Answer

I can. That is how I love.

fred_durst · Answer

i only saw such thing in movies

SandandWaves · Answer

yes..

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