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it may be YOUR first relationship, but it may not be hers and someone previously obviously ruined her trust and caused her insecurity issues.
but no. that's not normal. it's normal to ask, but to send a pic too? very weird.
so sad that this girl is like this. she will never have a normal relationship. i'll be surprised if you still stay with her... most guys would be GONE with this type of controlling behavior. just so you know, you are in a toxic relationship. good luck... sorry that this is your first relationship experience.
She's very insecure and mistrustful. And controlling. Not an enjoyable person to have around in a relation. Oftentimes leads to toxic relationships.
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Your best bet. Dump her. You could try talking but she'd be the sort that'd promise you she'll change and be doing the same thing two months later.
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Dump her. Dump her right now and stop wasting your time and life on her.
I spent 4 years putting up with BS like this and I can tell you a few things.
First, she will never change or start to trust you. This is all about controlling the relationship and controlling you. Relationships require trust and trust means not having to know every fk'n shit your partner takes and counting the corn. Trust, faith, whatever you call it, it doesn't exist if you know every step your partner takes.
Secondly, even if you do divulge every single thing you do, she will still try and find something to start an argument. In my case, even when I have proven her wrong time and time again about crap she thought she saw (like a dating banner ad in the temp internet folder, which was on a site I downloaded songs from, that she asked me to) and that I wasn't doing anything she was accusing me of, she'd never stop. Your partner won't either. No matter how many discussions you have, no matter how many times you express your feelings, and no matter how many times she says she'll change her ways, nothing will ever change. Maybe for a few days, maybe for a week or two, but it'll revert back to the same old crap.
Knowing the above from first hand experience, I ask you a very simple question... How many more months or years are you willing to put up with this?
I'm married and got a family now. Neither of us do that crap. We trust each other. We both know the consequences if that trust is broken. And that's the thing. If you're not willing to risk getting hurt and having your trust broken (as it put faith in your partner that they won't break it) then you shouldn't be in a relationship.
If I was dating a girl today and she texted me that shit I read in your screenshot, I would have fer'jigger'KaFuk'n DUMPED HER Fk'n ass right then and there!
GONE! No more arguments no discussions, DONE! Get the Fk outta my life.
Heed my warning... HEEEEDDDD'a!!
Oh no no no.. I say hit the road jack and don't come back. That is abusive behavior, it takes an emotional toll on both parties. I suggest if you want to stay with her and work things out.. to go to couples therapy or something. She will never be satisfied until she isolates you, and that is not healthy behavior. Every individual needs their space to do things outside of the relationship, without their partner breathing down their neck about where they are and proof of it. This is really unhealthy, you need to put your foot down and stop indulging her behavior. It will progressively get worse if you don't either leave or go to therapy and solve it.
You've mentioned in some answers she's sweet, caring and overall wonderful person in other scenarios. So basically this is what has happened, You've come up in her life too early. She's not ready for a relationship yet, there are some reasons (maybe her past relationship, maybe bad parenting, social conditioning or poor social life, whateva) for her insecurities, feelings and troubles that needed to be fixed in herself before inviting another person in such an intimate position in her life.
This behavior is not good for a relationship, don't bother with normal or not normal. If you don't have a stern and serious talk asap, this behavior can possibly turn you the way she is while worsening her mental health. Tell her this has been bothering you. Give her ample space in your company to express herself. Maybe learn about her past, will help you understand her better.
in my opinion you can't say that your relationship is great except there's no trust. Without trust a relationship will never work. Run away... fast. She is a controlling, manipulative harpy that will destroy your self esteem. I married one - it was horrible and I was broken by the time I left. by the way, she will cheat on you. It's a guarantee with that behavior, if she hasn't already.
No that is very not normal. If she's getting angry at you for not answering your phone immediately and jumps straight to disbelief that's very toxic behavior. I wouldn't personally want to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me.
Thats very unhealthy, she is immature and paranoid. Normally I would recommend to talk to her to understand her issue and to work on the relationship. But I think anyone should avoid to date people with this type of behavior. Not everyone is relationship material. It's hard to hear, but I think you should end this relationship.
You need to move on from her. Block her from calling or texting you, block on her on Instagram, or any other social networking website you have. Tell her first and then block. If you’re not careful, this could turn into a dangerous stalking situation, where your life could be at stake.
I have lived same situation. And it was hard for me trusting my boyfriend. Your girlfriend problem probably with her past unlucky relationship life. But u should talking with her about to go psychologist and should to fix her past. I know, first time she will think that is not good idea... but u should talking with her about her act. I had like that problem with my boyfriend and he talked with me , sure I didn't accept that suggestion for first time but after a few days I had thinked about that and went psychologist..
LOL... dude, it doesn't matter if it's "her only problem" !! It's a huge fucking problem!! That's like saying " well, other than being a serial killer, or a pedophile, he's a really nice guy!"
If she's willing to get help with it, that's a start. Hopefully she can fix it. But if she refuses to acknowledge it and considers it normal, your relationship is going to be fucked up and will never get better.
The girls not commenting on your photos is understandable. The constant texts and need for
proof isn’t normal at all, and it sounds quite toxic.
That's a very toxic behavior. I'm sorry you have to experience this on your very first relationship. You should not need to send proof of anything your word should be enough if she doesn't trust you then why is she still dating you?
Sounds like a controlling relationship and major insecurity on her part. You're best to leave before it becomes toxic
No definitely not... That's called posessiveness... You need to be able to be your own person without her breathing down your neck every time you're not with her... Honestly if she can't learn that, you'll have to break up with her
Not normal at all, this is a deal breaker for me. I hate it when people get controlling, it suffocates me.
Dude, what are you doing? She's a fucking psycho... you think that shit will get any better. Dump her TODAY, before you lose your mind.
If that's a real convo, you need to be single or find someone better to date! No one should have to live like that.
No, not normal. Sounds possessive, controlling, stifling, even toxic. It can quickly become abusive. I am sure that no woman would tolerate that kind of behaviour from you---and that I would not stay very long in such a relationship.
Please leave this person immediately. That's some toxic immature bullshit, do yourself a favor.
It sounds she has trust issues. Meaning she's not ready for a relationship rn.
This could very quickly turn toxic and abusive for you if she doesn't deal with her insecurities.
Excessive attachment, lack of trust.
You two need to talk. Depending on the results of said talk, breaking up might be in order.
Hopefully not.
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