What does it means?

[DiegoO]

My ex texted me, after one entire year.

*She used these emojis: ☺️ 😘, with the word "kisses".

*"Kisses😘😘😘"

then she used the word: "hug!".

"kisses+hugs!+☺️+😘😘😘"

My current hypothesis: I am the available guy.

💻📊My analysis: after analyzing her text messages, and the context in which she texted me, I can assure she is either single for now, have issues with her current partner, or she is a total sweetheart of a woman, nowadays. Either way, I don't forget what we had (the good, and the f*cked up), beside other things, and the fact that there is an entire ocean separating us.


🌠4 years passed since we breakup

She is single

Issues with her current partner

She's just a sweetheart.

Other

[djmzes]

Simple

It all depends on both of you. But if she is back for selfish reasons and I want to take her back for selfish reason without really understanding what is a relationship, commitment and trust, then at the end the relationship will be back to shattering mode for sure.
Secondly you need to know what you deserve. If you deserve that kind of girl, go on. If you deserve someone else, go on.
Know yourself and your standard and value. Because at the end of the day, you will be the only one to bear the consequences of your choice whether it is a rewards or a regret. You only. Not me not everyone not society, but you only.

[DiegoO]

Lol, I was just asking about her motives. For me the past is the past. I rather find someone else in the future. My ex was never that honest.

[OlderAndWiser]

Most likely, she has broken up with her last relationship, is not single, and feeling lonely. She is remembering the good times that you had, which is quite understandable. However, when you reunite with an ex, you get the good times and you also get the bad times. Have you responded to her?

[DiegoO]

Yeah. I never did it inmidately, because I didn't want to send the wrong message to her, but we had a chat.

[OlderAndWiser]

And what was the outcome of that chat?

[DiegoO]

Nothing important, although I am not sure of her motives. I think she was testing me; to see if I still have feelings for her. I mean, she even told me: "if I could, I would help you come over to Spain", I told her to live her life, and don't worry about me. Anyway, I believe she's now convinced that there is nothing left with me.

[OlderAndWiser]

So you have no interest in rekindling that flame?

[DiegoO]

Lol, nah. I rather leave the option open to another woman. She lost her chance, from the times she ghosted me, and lied to me for almost a year (letting me believe she was still single, months after we breakup).

I have no idea how the relation went for her, but she still lives with her parents, still in college, and now, she only has a celphone, 0 computer. The last thing I knew from her relation, was from herself. Her dad run away the guy she contacted online, and with who she met in person. Like I said, there is not much I can tell about it, however I came to my senses and realized we are better off as aquantance.

Beside that, my intuition tells me constantly "do not meet with her". Why? No clue. The last time I didn't follow my intuition, things almost end badly for me.

[OlderAndWiser]

Follow your instincts!

[DiegoO]

I will.

[menina]

She's just being sweet. Perhaps she thought about everything that happened while you guys were dating and she decided to talk to you again. It doesn't mean she wants to be with you again.

[DiegoO]

With her I never know.

[menina]

I get you. But maybe she changed.

[DiegoO]

I really don't know 🤷. I rather don't risk it again with her.

[menina]

I see. I think you shouldn't risk either.

[legalboxers]

just be careful.. she ghosts you and suddenly comes back?

[DiegoO]

Is not like I have any hopes on her. There is no resentment but I am neither going to follow up her sweetness.