Can someone be too lazy to be in a relationship?

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[Cynicaldreamer]

Lazy, indifferent, not wanting to be hurt, lied to, manipulated, or wasting my time, tired of being rejected... the list goes on.

Absolutely! But that's not necessarily a bad thing is it?
What's wrong with realizing you don't want to put the effort into a relationship right now? I rather be selfish and take care of myself and my own needs, than invest my time and energy into something I know I'm not emotionally or mentally ready for. If more people realized that, some failed relationships might be avoided.

[MrJMM]

I am not lazy I am choosing not to be in a relationship because I always get hurt because my life fucking sucks. I had been in 7 relationships in total. My 7th ex cheated on me with a girl and had a fucking orgy and now she's a mother of a girl who she had to give up for adoption. My 6th relationship cheated on me with my ex-close friend, now she's a mother a 3-year-old girl, and a 1-year-old son. I haven't been in a relationship for almost 4 years. I am glad that I am not in a relationship. I rather later be in college and maybe get a nice relationship with a guy. And yes I am attracted to guys, I will try to be in a relationship later but I am not ready now.

[Hanzyxw]

Maybe because you terrible in making choices lol

[MrJMM]

You know what, maybe I am terrible at making choices but at least don’t make it sounds like a fucking joke. Because it hurts me.

[Hanzyxw]

Lol go after good woman at church, see their attitudes check to see if they are truly what they say they are be very attentive to patterns. Even if they are in church doesn't mean they are good be very critical in analyzing and questioning a lot and put truly effort to know you partner as also attention and sharing emotional things with her and then maybe you might find someone that is good for you. Get out of tinder

[MrJMM]

I am not on Tinder. Why a church? Also, some people are so stubborn to get into sex and not care about anything else. Not my fault that these people I had relationships with couldn't wait.

[Hanzyxw]

Well I guess I can say that I can understand since I am still virgin. But if you have no intentions of marring then you should not be with them and also need be much more critical. Woman that follow a religion are normally more self-disciplined which means that they will not cheat on you on the first chance but they need to be truly Christians not some bukshit that we see nowadays anyway good luck lol

[MrJMM]

But religion doesn't matter in this context even though sure some people are like it is not all of them. Also just because you are in a relationship and have no intention of marrying them right away is bad thinking. Also, I am not religious so that crap to me is just straight bullshit. And thanks for good luck.

[The_Maphio]

Definitely. Being part of a couple brings in advantages as well as duties.
A lazy person might not want to shoulder the extra duties for the sake of having regular sex or a person by his side in eventual moments of need.

[Michael10158]

Relationship is management, if you dont manage a relationship and work together than there is no relationship its just you doing what you want and hoping they stay with you.

[kingykringy]

Had a girl who would be hours late almost every single time. I thought she had to hide me from her strict parents, but her explanation was, “I’m lazy”. Got some so frustrated!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm certainly one of those people. I just don't like to invest my time and energy in other people. I hate it.

[lsksni]

Yes. One of my friends is. She says she would rather sleep than go on a date.

[Anonymous]

Yeah probably, even I feel like I can’t be in one because it’s too much work

[Hanzyxw]

Most of men out there

[hela1110]

Well I am, I am too lazy to meet someone often

[BakedBeanieBabie]

Yeah, it's called being a bum.

[wittymilf]

I have a daughter you could date 😂😂

[Azura_88]

Because I have high standard

[BillHe1]

Probably, just needs to be kicked in his ass.

[siseñor]

just look at brandon from 90 day fiance

[Jaylaaa2000]

Yes.

[Reah1]

Yes.

[FilmGuy93]

lol ohhh yeah.

[karaspara]

Definitely yeah

[WowwGirl]

Absolutely

[jahaims]

Yep.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Most women are.

[Hanzyxw]

Funny I agree with the opposite

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I think so

[Anonymous]

Yes, me.