Girls, would you accept that your boyfriend texts with other girls at night?

[Anonymous]

And guys, would you accept that your girlfriend texts with other guys at night?

Even if nothing sexual related but he/she would think about her/him instead of you at night. I personally believe that this leads to cheating. Even if one partner goes to bed earlier and the other is bored - you can always do something else.

How would you react if this happens to you?

[Finchie40]

Nope , it’s disrespectful and an indication that they really aren’t into you if they are seeking others for attention, most of that shit leads to emotional affairs then leads to cheating , if they can’t focus on just you they shouldn’t be in a relationship with you period

[SamFromFL]

Yes if I know the guys and girls she chats with no worries. If it’s with randos online I’d be asking why

[SamFromFL]

Why do you ask?

[Asker]

And if you don't get the answer then it's probably over? I mean he said he would stop but he still does that and will probably never change

[Asker]

I ask because my boyfriend is doing that and I don't want to overreact but I also don't want cheating

[SamFromFL]

Well ya, if he's that bad at communicating, is a liar and still semi cheating.. that’s not healthy all around is it?

[SamFromFL]

Clearly if he’s still doing it he knows you will not leave him

[Asker]

No 😔 he should spend more time with me instead of other girls... He barely asks me how am I but is not really interested in the answer... When we see each other he is nice to me and promises me everything but the next day he forgets everything

[Asker]

Yes, he takes me for granted

[SamFromFL]

And you have lived together for a year?

[Asker]

No, we lived together during quarantine because I worked online but now I live in other town. When I visit him, he doesn't text them (at least I think so)

[SamFromFL]

Ohhh. If you aren’t living together anymore then it’s an indication he’s not really into you anyway.

[designer1]

No, not at night. It isn’t necessary and to me, that is disrespectful to the relationship of the other person doesn’t feel comfortable with it.

[NathanSG15]

Nothing good comes late at night. It’s courtesy to not text people late. It also usually indicates a booty call. So no

[KennyG72]

depends on their relationship and how well I knew and trusted them, both of them.

[Agape93]

Yeah, I don’t care. He can talk to whom he wants.

[Joshua0213]

Yeah would be ok with me if she did