If your partner gave you a Hall Pass (allowed you to sleep with someone else), would you use it?

[Brittany_911]

I don’t think I could I’m a one person girl.

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+1 y

Yea I can’t do meanless sex.

[Anonymous]

I don't want a hall pass, and it would only make me more concerned that if my boyfriend was giving me permission to do that, maybe he's on the side already cheating on me and wanting to give a Hall Pass to cover his tracks. There is a reason I'm dating only one person, and that's because I want to only date/sleep with that one person.

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

Exactly.

Sounds like a scam to me. At best, he is probably going to wait till you accept and then say he should get one too.

[Opinion Owner]

@Lost_in_the_Woods Seriously, I'm definitely not into cheating with or without permission. That's just messed up.

[yofuknutz]

If they are too eager to give you a hall pass then it's a scam and then they have a justification to leave you

[tatianamay]

Why would he do that? Did he cheat on me? Why's he giving me a hall pass out of the blue? I would never use it. Why would I? It cannot be undone. He's my PARTNER, and I'd never have sex with another man when i'm with him

[OlderAndWiser]

I've never been unfaithful to partner in 50 years of dating so she knows I would have no interest in a pass. I would be very disappointed because I would assume that SHE wanted a pass.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No and I wouldn't be okay being in a relationship with someone who was "okay" with me sleeping with someone else... Most times someone does that, it's because They want to sleep with someone else or already did..

[yofuknutz]

That is a rather unfortunate assessment but pretty accurate nowadays especially if they are very eager to give you a pass

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@yofuknutz letting someone you love sleep with someone else, that's not my definition of love

[ohshee]

No I couldn't do it it wouldn't be worth it because I would probably beat myself up more than I would like it I would always feel guilty and I just would not like that when I am committed I am committed what I'm loyal and loyal and when I touch somebody I touched them very very special item that too many people in and I don't allow that feeling to be just given to anybody I mean when I do it it's deep so I think I would have to take a pass on that one I mean it would totally turn me on that she allowed me to do that but I'm just not built that way

[JustAnj]

Nope, I don't even bother sexualizing people or staring at someone who someone would stare at thinking they are attractive. I don't see a point on disrespecting myself or the people around me. I have to live with myself I prefer to feel good and aspire to always be my best even at my worst.

I also love having eyes just for my man, it makes me happy and admire my man. :)

[JackSmy]

I talked with her, and neither of us was really thinking we would, but I said, MAYBE, MAYBE, the only, might be Taylor Swift, but not sex, just close, and talking, maybe cuddling, and she said "ME TOO!" so a three-way cuddle? :) Probably with a Cardigan! LOL!

[chriscdi]

Im the same i just dont need anyone else if i love someone but id be sus if my girl offered me a freebie as id most likely overthink that there's someone she wants to be with so she's giving me the pass so its even so the most there would be is probably an argument but shit happens you know

[Andres77]

We have a cheat list.
But the likelihood of me running into Emilia Clarke is so obscure and then the likelihood that she'd want to do anything with me is so remote, it's just never going happen.

She, however likes half the cast of Vikings, Game of Thrones, and various cowboy shows, and... the Marlboro Man.

Her chances are much better...

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

It's a test.

But if I love somene I'd rather be with them than anyone else in the world.

I'd say "You can leave if you want, but so far as I know I'm still hapily married." (Even if we were just dating)

[Smashingdoozy]

Definitely not. Even when my boyfriend and I were "casually dating"/ in an open relationship i never even talked to other guys/girls. Only wanted to talk to him.

[God_of_Thunder]

Not only would I not, but I'd immediately suspicious as to why.

What did she do, and what is she hiding from me? Is she offering because she feels guilty about something, because if she knows me at all, she'd know I'd never accept.

[MathGuy12]

My girlfriend just offered me a hall pass with the condition of 1) Only one woman 2) I have to use condoms. We are long-distance and only see each other once or twice a year. I actually got really mad, because I'm an honest man that believes in monogamy. I have no issues waiting for her in long-distance. She said "I understand you're a man and you need sex. I am offering you a hall pass but with the conditions of..." I rejected it and said what the heck is that crap. I thought you were different, I don't like girls that are into open relationships and casual relationships. I don't want to sleep with anyone else, I'm in love with you. I only want to wait for you

[lightbulb27]

I'd accept it graceously, then go out and buy her something fun to wear from those early school years and deliver the package and card back to her on her pillow.

turn a lemon into lemonaide... or just eat the lemon with salt or sugar, it's still good! And it's the most nutritous part of the meal.

[Qdbrown]

No, I will use it when I decide, bit when they offer me.

Here goes, if you're partner is offering you a pass, then they have all ready used their pass and simply want to clear their conscious or develop a way to cheat to upgrade away from you.

[Pasiton5]

No if things are good between us why, but I would have to question in my mind her reason for dangling that carrot in front of me, I mean will she want a pass too or has she already written her own pass and use it, thanks for giving me something else to worry over, lol

[Exterminatore]

Sure. I’d use it to watch football all day on Sundays for an entire season. I could never cheat on my wife another person, even with her permission, only with my mistress named football.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

No, I couldn't. I need an emotional connection with people to have sex with them and if I'm already in a relationship then I don't feel capable of looking at other people romantically

[InsertNameHerex]

No, it just sounds like they’d want one too and they’d use it as leverage in the future. Plus even if it had no ulterior motive, no thanks. Loyalty is my top relationship motto, I’m not gonna break that even if I had the “pass” for it

[Finchie40]

No, I don’t get into a committed relationship to want to cheat on her , be no point being in a relationship with her if I needed to go bang someone else

[dezzman98]

Honestly no because the fact that they are giving you that pass, to me, means they trust you enough that they know you wouldn't take the chance even if you had the opportunity to

[Sexiestjohnson]

I have thought about it deeply, even if God won't frown, I can't give my body to anyone besides the girl I love.

[backblueblack22]

If the stars aligned and both her and me wanted to bang someone else at the same time period than maybe a 1 in 1000000 chance yes. Other than that I do not take this as an “unconditional” hall pass. Either she wants to do it with someone else (or is ALREADY doing that) or it’s some sort of twisted shit test. Nah.

[RichardCranium6201]

Hell no. Anything u do can and will be used against you in the next argument. Lol

[HawkPerception]

No thanks. All I would want is my partner. I wouldn't want to feel there's even a hint of them being jealous. It's fun to answer the question "Which celebrity would you sleep with if you had a chance?" but I would never act upon it.

[Anonymous]

I do it without him knowing. Not too often, but sometimes when I want to fuck someone else.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow I don't think I ever got down-voted before.

[MCheetah]

Nope. That's basically a loyalty test. I feel sorry for the poor shmucks who fail it.

[K-I-S-S]

No, the relationship would never be the same.
FMF threesome with my partner if they are interested in eachother too would be good. Everything else nah.

[fonduegirl]

Of course! Wonderful opportunity! This question has way too many cynics on, uff.

[yofuknutz]

You know there's a new meme going around nowadays it says who radicalized you and the person with the military helmet on says you did.

[yofuknutz]

Life has a way of doing that to people of making you a cynic by real-world experience

[Moimaris]

I would end the relationship. If he wants to share me I guess his love is not deep enough

[FinalFantasyBro]

Honestly no, I rather be a guy with only one girl, so I rather not messed with this hall pass concept.

[normalice]

I don't think I'd have the opportunity to use it in a satisfying way, so probably not.

[exitseven]

I don't think so. It is something that cannot be undone.

[douride2]

I would never do it. Further more it would make me suspicious as to why he would offer it. Did he already cheat on me.

[Open2It]

It seems a lot of girls on here haven't heard of cuckold or hotwife fantasies. Not sure if this is what the OP is asking about but cuckold/hotwife seems to be a growing fad in the kinky fantasy arena. The guy may want to explore this lifestyle.

Of course, he may also have or is wanting to stray himself...

[bamesjond0069]

If she was a hot virgin id have to think 2 or 3x before even taking a chance to mess that up. Otherwise all aboard im banging 10 hos and calling it one pass. If we over we over idgaf

[bolverk]

Why would a partner offer a 'hall pass' if they weren’t already thinking of cheating on you?
If a partner offer a 'hall pass' to me then that relationship would be over the moment the offer left their mouth.

[victoriaxoxo]

Tbh the one time I did offer someone a hall pass is because we were in a long distance relationship and I would rather have us agree to sleep around than fuck up and do it and lie to one another, completely destroying our relationship.

[DJB72]

Not a chance. I'd probably be disturbed by the offer. I mean, who's she wanting to get with to offer that to me? Honestly, if I were offered it I'd be fairly sure the relationship was over

[Mofunfour20]

Id break up with her assuming she already cheated. If she didn't, why would I want to be with someone that thinks so cheaply of our relationship?

[rienna888]

No I’d think he let me do that because he was already doing it

[Jlegacy]

I don't sleep around bevause of what my partner do or don't. My code of conduct stems from God. If God says wife three girls or more... I'd be polygamous instanta.

[KrakenAttackin]

No women ever, EVER, gave her man a "hall pass" with intent of him ACTUALLY using it.

[Anonymous]

no. absolutely not. if anyone wants to do that, then they should be single.

[Anonymous]

Is this not an open relationship? I would not want that and i would be suspicious too. So i only want a monogamous relationship.

[worldscolide]

Hall Pass = trap

No i would never do it, Its a shit test to see if the person they are with is loyal. If my partner offered that i would not only not take it, i would end the relationship.

[Ellie-V]

But what if you had a genuine chance? She just had a change of mindset, hypothetically..

[worldscolide]

@Ellie-V Still wouldn't take it, its against who i am

[Kellyk234]

Nope I couldn’t, I would keep wondering the reasons he gave me a hall pass and if he enjoyed it etc. It would mess with my head.

[yofuknutz]

It's not for people to have jealousy in their hearts it's too easy to explode

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

good girl

And no. i would not

most "christians", i bet you, would. They don't actually respect the bible

I'm jewish

[UK-NaturistGuy]

Nope, I would never cheat whilst in a relationship and as far as I’m concerned even with permission it would be wrong to do so.

[Hanrej]

I would probably but I prefer to give a hallpass to recieving one.

[2ndTryatThis]

I think it would depend on why they gave me a hall pass

[Hadesheim]

neah I could not either I would always think afterwards at it.

[ArztSchlachthof]

If she gave me that, I would be very disappointed in her. Of course, I wouldn't use it.

[mattclark242]

no why did she cheat on me. No I tell her evrything. I think I just brake up with her first.

[Supernormal]

Infact that's an abuse to the relationship and a definition of a disaster in disguise

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't. My girlfriend is a super good fit for me sexually and I don't think another girl would be nearly as good, so I would just be disappointed anyway.

[shouldnobetter]

I might if I had someone in mind at the time. Right now it would be my brother's ex she was an old crush of mine.

[SHREYASH007]

I don't want hall pass, I strictly prefer monogamy but when I look at real world it upsets me about the trend of people cheating.

[scooogy]

Only if it turned her on, and she should make it a threesome.

[ifDaddyHadaPrincess]

No When I want someone else I end the relationship

[I_want_a_moustache]

Only if it was a three-way. Alone would feel like cheating even if I had the green light.

[OnTheLevel]

No. I don't understand how a relationship could withstand that.

[DaMack999]

Why not. I'll let her do the same too. I do believe in open relationship.